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yeah sex is great but have u ever had someone be patient with u when you've felt overwhelmed and didn't know how to talk about your feelings?

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and i'm really happy y'all have too 🥹 it's one of the best things we can experience in this world and one that reminds us why we love

yeah :) always warms the heart and calms the storm and that's why it's just one of the best things to have with someone when they can sit patiently with you when you get lost and overstimulated cuz it's just TOO MUCH going on >.<

sometimes you really just can't get into the mood and you feel anxious because of it and you end up psyching yourself out and can't get hard and well,, it can be stressful but it doesn't have to be if you have someone who understands that

hey beautiful trans girl that usually tops but has been having issues with trying to get hard because of various reasons, it's okay if u can't get hard.

hey sweet girl with adhd who has trouble paying attention at times and can't really remember everything as easily as others can, it's okay to need reminders and help.

hey cute autistic girl who tries to get out and hang around friends but feels really easily overstimulated and drained to the point where she feels the need to hide, it's okay to need some quiet time alone.

i was having sex once and something caught me off guard and i suddenly got really emotional and overwhelmed. the people i was with were the absolute best about helping me calm down and get centered and process what happened, and that honestly meant the world to me, especially as a dom

i don't see why they can't tbh! they're humans who understand us and various others who haven't had someone like that in their lives. i consider my therapist someone who provided that for me 💜