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unfortunately i've come to believe fairly strongly that online community is deeply insufficient for the human experience, which makes it hard to stay attuned to the online communities i care about

very deep down, I've come to believe that the attraction to online community is a symptom of an unhealed social/emotional wound

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none of the friends I most seek to emulate are deeply involved in online spaces, they skim across many cuz that's where the people are — not because the space itself is good to hang out in

I've been considering lately the intersection of BPD, cPSTD, ADHD, and the modern colloquial understanding of Autism (especially as I relate to those labels) and I just see shades of these symptoms absolutely everywhere online. anxious/disorganzed attachment, everywhere. seems bad

this is a good thread and puts into words a general sense i’ve been trying to express for a while - the feeling that for lack of a better phrase i am the wrong kind of mentally ill for most online communities

I had a moment in chat where I sent "I mean, we're all here cuz we're a similar kind of damaged right? Like, none of us would describe ourselves as doing great" and I could tell it hit for some folks. There's something there