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The conversation I have had with each of my kids: "if you *ever* run into a problem online and you think you're in trouble, you can *always* come talk to me about it, and if you think I will be upset about a choice you made just start out by saying 'I may need some help.'" And I will take that...

... how the biggest mistake is almost always feeling they have no one they can talk to about it and few choices on how to get out of whatever situation they've gotten into.

I'd like to think your kids will remember this fondly as they grow up. I vividly remember my parents unconditional offers of support, no matter what. "While you're not supposed to have access to alcohol, at a party, drunk and need help ? Please call us, we'd rather help you than the alternatives."

I very explicitly did *not* have that, growing up (but managed to stay out of online trouble!)&, in high school, the mom of a friend stopped her car while driving me home a block from my house to tell me that I could always come to her because she knew I couldn't go to them.

What are the examples you've highlighted?

So much of this is uncharted territory, both for the kids and for Millennial/Gen X parents who didn’t deal with any of this when we were their age. Open communication, discussing relevant news at family meals, and non judgement are all excellent parenting that can help to navigate unfamiliar waters.