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As anyone with eyes or a brain can see, this is just dark sarcasm - “You’ll be fine, just be one of the good ones” - rather than some kind of commitment to sending people to camps. Also, this is insane. Having every word picked over for the next set of rhetorical crimes for which I must repent.

It all feels so very Soviet show trial. You can never be acquitted. Your attempts to defend yourself or just casually talk about the subject will be scrutinized, and something will always be found, for your next thoughtcrime requiring your denunciation and rehabilitation. It goes on forever.

“You used the word community wrong.” “Are you sure you’re the right person to make that joke?” “Your job is to listen and learn and reflect.” Meanwhile no one can identify any core offense and they get angry when you ask what it is. They’re not here to educate you.

"You need to be better at taking criticism" but the criticism is just that they heard you had bad vibes

The very easy critique here is you should avoid making tasteless jokes about a community you aren't part of, and if you do make one instead of getting defensive about it, actually listen to the people it impacts and apologize. It's allyship 101.

Endlessly demanding that our good faith straight allies grovel for forgiveness for fake transgressions that toxic assholes in the ✨🌈Queer Community🌈✨ invented because they want to exert power over well meaning straight people is how we end up with fewer allies.

Do people have the right to decide for themselves who the good faith straight allies are? Or do you just get to proclaim yourself one and then get a free pass to say whatever you want.