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1. As I saw it come up in conversation about authors and their financial struggles, yes, in fact, I've always had the primary income in my family, and always through writing (although not always fiction). However I also absolutely 100% acknowledge that my career is not possible without my spouse.

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As a “struggling” (relatively happy with my work) writer myself, i was well aware of how hard it is to make much money in the profession. But that’s not why we write, is it. “Success” is how I feel after a good morning of writing/editing/and most recently audible-ing. Love your work btw.

My mom was a stay at home parent for a long time - Dad worked long hours and they jointly decided that it would be better for the family to have Mom taken care of stuff at home. They always made it clear that Dad's salary was THEIR money, not his. He worked the job but her work enabled him to do so.

2. One part of that is practical: Krissy's full-time job gave us health/dental insurance and a solid, predictable income we could initially budget within, and to modulate the erratic, initially unpredictable, and, indeed, chaotic, nature of my writing income. It was a foundation we could build on.

3. The other part is logistical: Krissy was informally (and now, formally, as CEO of Scalzi Enterprises), the business manager for my career, allowing me to offload much of the day-to-day aspects of the business of my career so I could focus on writing and marketing. She's incredibly good at that.

4. I always made more money than Krissy BUT MAKE NO MISTAKE that Krissy is the foundation of my ability to make ANY of that money. It's not enough to say I wouldn't have the career I have without her. It's probably more accurate to say I wouldn't have a career at all without her. She's essential.

5. So, yeah. If you like what I write, thank Krissy. If you don't like what I like, blame me, but Krissy is here to make sure I keep inflicting it on you anyway. No matter what, she's fantastic, I love her, and she's the best thing to happen to my career, and also, me. (/end)