BJ Fogg, PhD

BJ Fogg, PhD

@bjfogg.bsky.social

Stanford Lifestyle Medicine I share easy ways to build good habits. NYTimes bestseller “Tiny Habits” In industry, I train product people in Behavior Design, based on the Fogg Behavior Model 🤙Maui & surfing & ocean swimming

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On Wed I'm training a wonderful nonprofit. I’m teaching them Fogg Behavior Design. This well-known org helps ppl have better health & more hope. Two leaders trained with me earlier. They now want to upskill colleagues. Stephanie Weldy & I customized carefully for this org Now we are ready

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Applying BJ Fogg's Ability Chain to social change newsletter.dadstrength.com/p/3-circles-... Also Mindfulness over ritual for rehab Talking politics with kids “Education is the point at which we decide whether we love the world enough to assume responsibility for it." – Hannah Arendt

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Yesterday the Stanford students did not ask me "How many days to create a habit?" (They'd already read my book Tiny Habits.) But if someone did ask this, I'd say: How many of you sat in the same spot today as before? How long did it take for that habit to form? (Usually, it's "one and done")

Many people think you should build just 1 habit at a time Nope. You can do more than 1 A Stanford student asked me about this yesterday. So I asked the class: "How many of you changed where you live this year?" "How many habits did you create -- all at once?" -- That made my point clear.

Hey . . . Do you know anyone who was a heavy drinker and was able to turn into a light drinker, without slipping back? I don’t. Correction: I do. However, that was the result of an environment change — a frat guy became a parent years later. Why did this work? Radical change of environment

Hey . . . Do you know anyone who was a heavy drinker and was able to turn into a light drinker, without slipping back? I don’t. Correction: I do. However, that was the result of an environment change — a frat guy became a parent years later. Why did this work? Radical change of environment

I share a lot about the power of changing your environment in order to change your habits. Who is the world’s expert on this topic? I don’t know. I don’t think there is a leading expert in this area. But there should be! (Note the rare exclamation point from me)

Hey . . . Do you know anyone who was a heavy drinker and was able to turn into a light drinker, without slipping back? I don’t. Correction: I do. However, that was the result of an environment change — a frat guy became a parent years later. Why did this work? Radical change of environment

Without a big change in one’s environment, I don’t see much evidence people can make this change: heavy drinker to light drinker. Maybe I’m wrong. (I’m not an expert in these kinds of habits.) FWIW, my opinion on the best path: Stop entirely

Derek is an expert in this area -- teens and mental health

Derek E. Baird@derekeb.bsky.social

Words have power, and policies like this fuel the very stigma that pushes vulnerable teens further into isolation. It’s time for Meta to rethink this policy and prioritize the mental health and well-being of LGBTQ+ teens. Lives are on the line.

I’m gonna post some stuff about quitting alcohol. Warning: This is not my area of expertise. I’m an expert in forming habits, not breaking habit. These are very different creatures. Even so . . . I have some thoughts to share about alcohol that may help someone.

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I promise you will be happier & healthier without alcohol in your life. Most people know this. But there are reasons people don’t stop. And they seem so valid. Yes, I too had my reasons. I eventually saw those reasons were not valid. I was being deceived by my culture — and by my own self

So again, my expertise is in building habits, not untangling bad habits. My post here about alcohol are my opinion, not research findings from my Stanford lab. I share in hopes that I can help a few people move forward with a better life. I welcome your questions and comments.

I’m gonna post some stuff about quitting alcohol. Warning: This is not my area of expertise. I’m an expert in forming habits, not breaking habit. These are very different creatures. Even so . . . I have some thoughts to share about alcohol that may help someone.

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If you can, get your spouse/partner to join you in quitting alcohol For this habit, it’s much easier to change as a household But that may not work. Sorry if that’s the case. If so, you might go the first few weeks without telling your spouse/partner. (“Oh. I just don’t want to drink tonight.”)

After you stop drinking alcohol, some people can eventually lose the urge entirely No temptation to drink. No willpower needed. I tell you this to give you hope: You can have a future where you don’t battle urges for alcohol This may not be true for everyone. But it’s definitely true for some

I’m gonna post some stuff about quitting alcohol. Warning: This is not my area of expertise. I’m an expert in forming habits, not breaking habit. These are very different creatures. Even so . . . I have some thoughts to share about alcohol that may help someone.

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Dry January? I’m not a big fan. I sense that some people count down the days until they can drink again. That’s not the relationship you want with alcohol. Like I posted above, set out to stop drinking. entirely — for the rest of your life.

Make a list of all the benefits you get from not drinking alcohol. Start your list now After you stop drinking, review your list. Then add to your list. Personal note: Had I known I’d get so many benefits, I would’ve stopped much sooner. I was kinda upset no one told me all the benefits earlier

I’m gonna post some stuff about quitting alcohol. Warning: This is not my area of expertise. I’m an expert in forming habits, not breaking habit. These are very different creatures. Even so . . . I have some thoughts to share about alcohol that may help someone.

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Contrary to what you’ve heard, you don’t have to tell anyone you’re quitting alcohol entirely. The idea of telling people may be stopping you from trying. . . . Because you don’t want people to see you struggle. So perhaps you just keep this to yourself.

Social situations can be tricky when you stop drinking. No need to explain. As soon as someone offers you an alcoholic drink, just say, “thanks, but I’m sticking to water tonight.” And stop there. You don’t have to explain.

I’m gonna post some stuff about quitting alcohol. Warning: This is not my area of expertise. I’m an expert in forming habits, not breaking habit. These are very different creatures. Even so . . . I have some thoughts to share about alcohol that may help someone.

Quitting alcohol *might* be easier to do than you think. You’ve heard how hard it is, of course. You’ve seen people struggle. You worry that you’ll set yourself up to fail. For any type of behavior change, you need to use the best methods for yourself. There is no “one size fits all.”

My personal advice when it comes to alcohol: Do not try moderation. Instead, stop entirely. 100%. That old saying “moderation in all things” does not apply to alcohol. I think that’s a damaging concept. Get yourself off the slippery slope by establishing a firm line: You are done with alcohol.

I want to help you understand habits so you can create a better life Psychology Today summarizes some of my methods. Not quite how I'd say it, but it's okay Quoting someone else, the article says give yourself a reward like a coffee. My view: That's an incentive. Not a reward More in comments

psychologytoday.comKnowledge Is Not Enough for SuccessPutting knowledge into action is the key to success, but it’s very difficult. Fortunately, there are ways to overcome this.
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To be clear: The key to habit formation is not boosting motivation (e.g, incentives), and it's not sheer repetition (via willpower). Habits form because of dopamine release. What triggers that process? In a word --> Emotions. As I explain in my book & elsewhere: "Emotions create habits"

What I'm saying, you know from life experience You give your daughter a phone when she turns 16 - How long does it take for her to form a habit of carrying the phone around? - Does she need to repeat for 66 days? - Do you need to incentivize? For better or worse, emotions wire in habit on day 1

I want to help you understand habits so you can create a better life Psychology Today summarizes some of my methods. Not quite how I'd say it, but it's okay Quoting someone else, the article says give yourself a reward like a coffee. My view: That's an incentive. Not a reward More in comments

psychologytoday.comKnowledge Is Not Enough for SuccessPutting knowledge into action is the key to success, but it’s very difficult. Fortunately, there are ways to overcome this.
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A lot of people who talk about habits use the word "reward" mistakenly in this way. That's a problem. There's a big difference between designing for motivation (via incentives) and designing for behavior automaticity / habit formation (via dopamine release at the right moment)

Okay, I"ll say it -- In Atomic Habits, James Clear uses the word "reward" to mean both things -- motivator & reinforcer In my book Tiny Habits, I mostly avoid the word "reward" because it's such an ambiguous term My book has a couple paragraphs that explain why "reward" is a problematic term.

I want to help you understand habits so you can create a better life Psychology Today summarizes some of my methods. Not quite how I'd say it, but it's okay Quoting someone else, the article says give yourself a reward like a coffee. My view: That's an incentive. Not a reward More in comments

psychologytoday.comKnowledge Is Not Enough for SuccessPutting knowledge into action is the key to success, but it’s very difficult. Fortunately, there are ways to overcome this.

An "incentive" motivates you to do the habit: "If I walk today, I'll give myself my favorite coffee after I shower." That's a motivator In contrast, a "reward" reinforces a behavior, causing the habit to form via dopamine. The reward must happen VERY close in time to behavior you want reinforced

Take the first easy step today: Jot down a few names of people you could invite. No commitment. No big deal. Simply pay attention to how you feel. If you stop there, that’s OK. But I’m hoping you see a couple names that inspire you to take next steps.

BJ Fogg, PhD@bjfogg.bsky.social

Gonna get kinda personal for a bit If it looks like you’ll spend the holiday alone, this post is for you Let’s suppose you celebrate Christmas. And you have no plans. I urge you to make a plan. Invite 2 or 3 people. Could be for Xmas eve Xmas brunch Xmas day tea 2 hours Low key You got this

I’m not a fan of adding features, but I’m going to make an exception. The best feature BlueSky can add is — 👉🏼 a metric of how much a person engages with other people’s posts. Make this metric visible at the moment people are deciding to follow someone or not.

Probably best if the metric is not a number (e.g. 1 to 100). I think that's too much and would inspire weird competition. Perhaps create 5 tiers (stars), or 5 archetypes (parrot, owl, etc.). Any indicator of how that person interacts on BlueSky will incentivize better interactions.

This week I talked w/people who've mastered a daily habit that's kinda tough Trends? All of them -- High achievers in other areas Felt real benefits from habit Knew my Tiny Habits method Were fun to meet But I did not find how to help everyday ppl w/ this tough habit. Still exploring

Gonna get kinda personal for a bit If it looks like you’ll spend the holiday alone, this post is for you Let’s suppose you celebrate Christmas. And you have no plans. I urge you to make a plan. Invite 2 or 3 people. Could be for Xmas eve Xmas brunch Xmas day tea 2 hours Low key You got this