bobby of chili’s

bobby of chili’s

@bobbyjmain.bsky.social

🏳️‍🌈 🏠 providence, RI 💼 boston, MA +sometimes LI, NY widowed architect with ENTJ tendencies rediscovering life. interests include nintendo, design, outdoorsy, DIY stuff and the assorted emojis listed below. 🍔🌱🌯🍹⚽️🥓🚴🏻👾🎢⛓📺🍁

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reintroduction thread!!!: name: bobby pronouns: he/him location: boston interests: board / video games, food, theater, theme parks, DIY, iced coffee, whiskey, petting all the dogs, gay stuff vocation: architect

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reintroduction thread!!!: name: zach pronouns: he/him & they/them location: Colorado interests: board games, running, Pokémon, assassins creed, politics, pop music, cats, spicy food, coffee vocation: hiv and STI prevention specialist & educator

redfin is wild in that you recall that your godparents’ house (aka your childhood arizona safe space, spending one week+year there with my maximalist aunt and uncle) was likely sold and on the site. so you search their address and find photos of the most sad, empty, husk of a house. that one hurts.

was supposed to have spent the weekend camping, but cold wet bad, so i cancelled. spent the weekend instead mostly by myself doing some deep cleaning around the apartment. also went to the condo one last time… closing tomorrow. very mixed feelings but it’s time to close that chapter.

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The tech bros gave us crypto currency that isn’t currency, artificial intelligence that isn’t intelligence, and prediction markets that are inside-trader scams. On the other hand, they have given us gigantic data centers that employ no one and destroy communities. So there’s that.

'hey self, this past week has sucked a lot for many reasons. now that i'm finally through it, im looking forward to a few low key days to just recover.' body: 'influenza b. got it.' 'no that's not what i-' :sigh:

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7 dollar gas. Well, I guess I'll buy an electric car. Oh those are 60 thousand dollars? Well at least electricity is cheap. Oh the government won't build solar panels because it's "Too transgender"? Well at least wages are going up. Oh the idea of jobs is fake now? Well at least everyone is happ

two years. in some ways it feels like an eternity, in other ways it feels like it was just yesterday. you’re still the first person i think to text when i check my phone in the morning and the last one i think about before i go to bed every night. and at least every hour in between.

moving to providence a year ago was the best decision i could have made. i should have listened to you when you wanted to move here instead of east boston. speaking of east boston, the first open house on our former condo is today. what timing, huh.

last night went about as i expected. barely slept, panic attack, vomited twice. today is going to be FUN! i know selling the condo is the right decision but it’s still a heartbreaking one. especially it happening the week of the second anniversary of his passing.

nothing like experiencing increasingly worse G.I. issues, only to find out that the next available appointment for a new patient at a G.I. clinic is in literally nine months. 🇺🇸 🦅

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Rep. Delia Ramirez to DHS officials: "I have as much respect for you as I do for the last white men who put on masks to terrorize communities of color. I have no respect for the inheritors of the Klanhood and the slave patrol. Those activities were criminal and so are yours."

hi gays. so to keep my mental health somewhat near presentable,' i need an annual winter escape to somewhere fun, warm, and gay. ideally looking at the last weekend of february and a STRONG preference for places JetBlue flies to out of BOS/PVD. anyone have any suggestions?