Bryan Clark

quibbly.fyiQuibbly | Bryan Clark | SubstackQuibbly is a publication about the systems that quietly run your life and why they never seem to work the way you think they do. Clear-eyed reporting, skeptical explanations, no institutional throat-c...

4 Feb

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A strange thing is happening on first dates. Different men. Different cities. But women keep running into the same guy. 🧵

Curious about this: Have you ever been on a date where the other person sounded like they were quoting a podcast or YouTube advice? Because the deeper I looked into this world… …the less rare it seemed.

If you’ve seen one of these dating channels, which ones are the biggest?

A strange thing is happening on first dates. Different men. Different cities. But women keep running into the same guy. 🧵

The irony is brutal. Men are told this system will make dating easier. But if thousands of men use the same tactics… They all just sort of become the same guy.

quibbly.fyiThe YouTube Rabbit Hole Turning Average Guys Into Bad DatesA dating app created the rejection. YouTube explained it. A course sold the fix. A community reinforced it. You're sitting across from the finished product.

I went down the rabbit hole to understand where this came from and how it spread. Full story: quibbly.fyi/p/the-youtub...

A strange thing is happening on first dates. Different men. Different cities. But women keep running into the same guy. 🧵

Which leads to something weird. Conversations start sounding… identical. Phrases repeat. Topics repeat. Even the awkward power dynamics repeat. The date doesn’t feel spontaneous. It feels pre-programmed.

This isn’t a fringe corner of the internet either. It’s a full-blown industry. Courses. Paid communities. Coaching programs. Affiliate funnels. Some of these channels have millions of subscribers.

A strange thing is happening on first dates. Different men. Different cities. But women keep running into the same guy. 🧵

There’s an entire YouTube ecosystem teaching men how to date. Not general advice. Literal playbooks: • What to say • When to text • How to “test” a woman • How to maintain “frame” Thousands of men are learning the exact same strategy.

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Robert Reich

@rbreich.bsky.social

7 Mar

For those who have forgotten the past 40 years: Tax cuts for the rich ...don’t trickle down Boosting military spending ...doesn’t bring peace Slashing regulations ...doesn’t create jobs Folks, we’ve seen this all before.

5 Mar

The answer to "why isn't this a national scandal" is almost always the same right now: there are too many scandals running simultaneously for any single one to accumulate the sustained attention it would need to become a reckoning.

5 Mar

That's not an accident. It's the functional result of a pace of news that outstrips the public's capacity to stay focused. Each story gets two days before the next one lands on top of it.

quibbly.fyiWhy "Entry-Level" Jobs Require 3-5 Years Experience42% training decline, 52% underemployed, 20% wage cut: The math of a broken system

5 Mar

Corporations decided in the 90s that it's better for someone else to invest in training entry-level employees. But who? I broke it down here 👉 quibbly.fyi/p/why-entry-...

"Entry-level" now means 3-5 years experience. Over half of entry-level jobs require it. 94% in IT. This isn't a mistake. It's a solution to a problem, just not your problem.

Experience is also a class filter. 69% of students can't afford unpaid internships. Paid interns earn $67,500 out of school. Unpaid interns earn $45,000 -- same as graduates who never interned. Working for free signals desperation, not ambition.

quibbly.fyiWhy "Entry-Level" Jobs Require 3-5 Years Experience42% training decline, 52% underemployed, 20% wage cut: The math of a broken system

45% of college graduates are still underemployed 10 years after graduation. You paid more, for credentials worth less, to qualify for jobs you still can't get. Full breakdown: quibbly.fyi/p/why-entry-level-jobs-require-3-5-years-experience

"Entry-level" now means 3-5 years experience. Over half of entry-level jobs require it. 94% in IT. This isn't a mistake. It's a solution to a problem, just not your problem.

Here's the part that should make you angry: 42% of those jobs will hire you anyway if you don't meet the requirements. The bar is theater. But the theater works -- people self-select out of jobs they're qualified for.

Employer-sponsored training dropped 42% between 1996 and 2008 and never recovered. The cost didn't disappear. It got pushed onto workers, universities, and whoever trained you last. Every company assumes someone else will build the pipeline.

"Entry-level" now means 3-5 years experience. Over half of entry-level jobs require it. 94% in IT. This isn't a mistake. It's a solution to a problem, just not your problem.

Companies get hundreds of applications per posting. Recruiters spend 7 seconds per resume. Experience requirements exist to thin the herd, not assess your skills. HR literally calls it a "first line of defense." Against you.

If you rented an apartment last year, you probably overpaid by $70/month. You didn't know. You couldn't negotiate. But you paid it. In Atlanta it was $181/month. In Denver, $136. Nationwide, renters overpaid by $3.8 billion in 2023. Here's how. 🧵

The feds used something called the Bob Test. Imagine all the landlords in your city gave their secrets to some guy named Bob, and Bob told them all what to charge. That's price fixing. Now imagine Bob is an app. The tool doesn't change whether the behavior is illegal.

quibbly.fyiThe Secret Algorithm Behind Higher Rents. (And Why It Just Got Banned)How landlords used software to share pricing data and coordinate rent hikes—until the government forced them to stop

In November 2025, the DOJ forced RealPage to shut it down. Zero dollars in fines. No admission of wrongdoing. I broke the whole thing down, from how it worked to what it means for your rent now. 👉 quibbly.fyi/p/the-secret...

In one Seattle neighborhood, 70% of apartments were controlled by 10 property managers. Every single one used the same software. Nationwide, one in four multifamily apartments used RealPage. The DOJ called it what it was: a cartel with a pretty interface.

One of RealPage's own developers told @propublica.org that leasing agents have "too much empathy." That was the problem they were trying to solve. Humans felt bad about gouging tenants. So they removed humans from the decision.

A company called RealPage got competing landlords to upload their private data. Real rents. Occupancy rates. Renewal numbers. Every secret they had. Then the algorithm told each landlord what to charge based on competitors' actual prices. Landlords followed the recommendations 90% of the time.

motherjones.comColbert takes CBS to task, againAs the network attempts a cleanup, the host continues to fire back. “I don’t even know what to do with this crap."

18 Feb

Every network that folds like this is teaching the same lesson: you don't need to censor the press if the press will do it for you. All it takes is one phone call and a vague threat about licensing.

Mother Jones@motherjones.com

“I’m just so surprised that this giant, global corporation would not stand up to these bullies. Come on, you’re paramount! No. No! You’re more than that. You’re Paramount +.”

substack.comThe $2.13 Wage That Hasn't Changed Since 1991—And Why Tip Screens Are Making It WorseThe federal tipped minimum wage has been frozen for 34 years. Tip screens are how employers plan to keep it that way.

18 Feb

Name something that costs the same as it did in 1991. The tipped minimum wage: still $2.13/hour. That tip screen isn't asking for generosity; it's asking you to cover 71% of someone's wage so an employer doesn't have to. Here's why tip screens are making it worse. 👉 substack.com/home/post/p-...

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The federal minimum wage for tipped workers is $2.13/hour. It hasn't changed since 1991. Gas tripled. Movie tickets tripled. Stamps tripled. The tipped wage? Frozen for 34 years. I investigated the tip screen scam. Thread 🧵

Every time you tap that screen, you're generating data. POS systems track: what % of customers tip, how often they override defaults, whether they opt out. That data helps employers argue entire job categories should be reclassified as "tipped positions." Your guilt is their business model.

quibbly.fyiThe $2.13 Wage That Hasn't Changed Since 1991—And Why Tip Screens Are Making It WorseThe federal tipped minimum wage has been frozen for 34 years. Tip screens are how employers plan to keep it that way.

I wrote all of this at Quibbly: the frozen wages, the racist origins, the conformity engine, and why 70%+ of people oppose tipping culture but still participate. Check it out here. And if you really want to support me, share it with someone who might want to learn more. quibbly.fyi/p/the-213-wa...

It gets worse. If a worker receives just $30/month in tips, they can legally be reclassified as a "tipped employee." $30. That's one $2 tip per shift for 15 shifts. Their base wage could drop from $7.25 to $2.13. Every new tip screen creates more of these jobs.

Think employers make up the difference when tips fall short? DOL investigated 9,000 restaurants. 84% had violated wage and hour laws. We shut down kids' lemonade stands faster than we stop restaurants from stealing wages.

Here's the trick: your tip counts toward the employer's minimum wage obligation. They pay $2.13. Your tips cover the rest. It's called a "tip credit," a term doing heavy lifting to avoid saying "this part of the wage is on you." That credit = 71% of the minimum wage.

12 Feb

If a grocery store hid the food you wanted so you'd keep wandering the aisles and buying stuff, we'd call that a scam. Dating apps do exactly this and we call it a feature. I wrote about what's really going on under the hood. quibbly.fyi/p/swipe-righ...

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quibbly.fyiSwipe Right for Profit: How Dating Apps Monetize DesperationWhy dating apps promise connection but optimize for keeping you single.

11 Feb

A Stanford researcher proved one algorithm tweak to a popular dating app = 30% more matches. The platform said no thanks. Turns out connection is bad for business. I wrote up the whole ugly business model:

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Matt Navarra

@mattnavarra.com

11 Feb

brave choice for an email subject title h/r @cmcalgary.bsky.social

Your dating app knows exactly who you'd like. It's hiding them from you. I investigated the entire dating app industry. Here's what I found. 🧵

"Designed to be deleted"—Hinge Designed to be deleted the way a gym membership is designed to get you fit. Technically possible. Wildly improbable. Definitely not what keeps the lights on.

quibbly.fyiSwipe Right for Profit: How Dating Apps Monetize DesperationWhy dating apps promise connection but optimize for keeping you single.

The full investigation just went live on Quibbly. quibbly.fyi/p/swipe-righ...

Your dating app knows exactly who you'd like. It's hiding them from you. I investigated the entire dating app industry. Here's what I found. 🧵

Researchers compared the business model to casinos: "Just enough reward to keep users coming back, but not so high that users walk away." At least casinos are honest about the odds.

A review of 23 studies covering 26,000+ users found people on dating apps had measurably worse psychological health than non-users. Why do they keep using them? Hope. The apps are most effective at hooking the people who need them most.

Your dating app knows exactly who you'd like. It's hiding them from you. I investigated the entire dating app industry. Here's what I found. 🧵

The FTC caught Match Group sending notifications from accounts it had already flagged as fraudulent. Bots. Nearly 500K people paid for subscriptions within 24 hours of getting a fake message. The fine? $14M. That's 0.4% of revenue.

Tinder is 75% men in the US. But in Europe? Near 50/50. Same app. Totally different ratio. Apps that want gender balance achieve it. Apps that profit from imbalance maintain it. Men pay for boosts to visibility. Women pay for filters to screen profiles. Everyone's miserable. Everyone pays.

Your dating app knows exactly who you'd like. It's hiding them from you. I investigated the entire dating app industry. Here's what I found. 🧵

A Stanford researcher tweaked a major platform's algorithm. Result: 30% more matches. The platform rejected it. 30% more people finding each other, and someone in a boardroom decided that was bad for business.

It gets worse. The algorithm tracks your success and PUNISHES you for it. Every match you get reduces your chance of seeing another quality profile by 8-15%. When you're winning, it shows you worse options. When you're about to quit, it shows you the good ones.

Your dating app knows exactly who you'd like. It's hiding them from you. I investigated the entire dating app industry. Here's what I found. 🧵