John DeBussy🇳🇬

John DeBussy🇳🇬

@chukwunazom.blacksky.app

An untamed wild horse running free with an unbreakable spirit. It all comes back to authenticity and being intentional that's what I'm here for. He/Him/His. ♐ ☀️ ♎ 🌙 ♑ ⬆️ 📍Lagos, Nigeria 🇳🇬

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There's nothing as attractive as curiosity. “What do you think?, Share your thoughts; any better ideas?” It goes a long way especially in mutual conversation. The hill I am willing to die on is knowing you both like each other without leading the other individual on.

Telling my boss that when I get home, I am unreachable because my phone is on silent automatically. This is something I thought she understood. I was shocked to see her call and I still did not pick up.

It's essential that we tell ourselves the truth. Don't let people dissuade you from intellectual curiosity. To me, that's the purest form of falling deeper for someone—their mind, their well-being, and what they do. Of course, sex is amazing but what is something about them that makes you wonder?

Even though I think social media has given us the need for options, I totally dislike it. But in a way it made me connect with beautiful people and yeah people I find to be kind, sweet, thoughtful, and overwhelmingly attractive.

I have come to agree that even if sex work is work. Women are still at the end of it. Exploitation!! You get to see how society has made it possible to think that even though they earn money by selling their bodies through transactional sex, they don't own their bodies. In some cases, rape happens.

The urge to finally accept that this is the final draft, having in mind that this draft will be heavily scrutinized still sends shivers down my spine. Shakespeare was right - Writing is indeed a bitch.

A reminder after seeing Hidden Figures: Katherine Goble Johnson's outstanding calculations during the peak of segregation ensured the astronaut circled the Earth seven times and landed at the precise location in the Bahamas Sea.

I accept the critical analysis of the word “nigga” by this smart young woman. I think it's important that certain words should be meant for a particular group and of course, I mean gatekept and I amongst those who believe in the sophistication and the beauty of the word when expressed with love…