Deidre

Deidre

@deeder.bsky.social

Redheaded daughter, wife/care-parter, mother. Business owner, a Techie goddess​, an Aldi-loving, cooking mostly from scratch, walking-for-fitness type of girl. 🌎SW Michigan 👩🏼‍💻www.indi-tech.com

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This in my home county and I'll be voting early in the election.

Ottawa News Network@ottawanewsnetwork.bsky.social

Deep in Ottawa County, a traditional stronghold of West Michigan conservatism, an overflow crowd gathered Sunday, Oct. 26, to witness an unusual convergence of media, grassroots activism and high-stakes U.S. Senate politics. www.ottawanewsnetwork.org/el-sayed-ral...

When October is a wash of warm golden tones, the fallen leaves creat a new carpet for the upcoming months and for just a moment you can stop, look around, and think: all is good. 📷 #photography #nature 🌱🌿

So who is watching who here? I was lucky to catch a couple of white tail deer, does, early one morning recently at a near by park. 📷 #photography #nature 🌱🌿

The process of trying to get edisability will make you want to quit 3000 times just to get a denial, then another 2000 times to appeal that denial. My husbands prcoess started April 2025 & we're working our way through the appeal process. AKA round 2. #ChronicIllness #InvisiableIllness #mecfs #POTS

So it's our 17th wedding anniversary. With his #chronicillness of #MECFS that doesnt't leave us a lot of options to choose from. We both miss being about to go out and have drinks & dinner somewhere. So Surf & Turf our way. 🍽️ 🍜 #FoodSky

Windows software is just getting worse & I'm near tears dealing with it. I no longer want to support the system & I'm struggling to find a reason to go on Vs just closing down my biz. The sad part is, I know it can get worse; I just don't know if I can survive it. #techlife #smallbusiness

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"Symptoms made worse due to physical or cognitive exertion in Myalgic Encephalomyelitis & Chronic Fatigue Syndrome" #MEcfs #PwME #CFS #ME #MyalgicE

A lovely client treated me to lunch today. She's aware that my DH struggles w/a #chronicillness. She said to me, " I hope someone has your back. Someone has your back through all this, right?" I could only come up with my parents. No one else checks in on me. I see friends b/c I push to see them.😞

Tonight, I tried to reach out to 3 friends. 1 has yet to answer, 1 didn't answer their phone & the other seems more annoyed that I called during the ball game. 😔 #Chronicillness affects more than just the person with it. #mecfs #fibromyalgia #longcovid

My #pwME can talk to 2 other #pwME that live in our area, including 1 being his son's aunt. They talk through FB messenger or via text. All need support, but struggle to find it. #Chronicillness is everywhere, you just have to be aware of it to see it. #MECFS #Frailbutfurious

Applying & waiting for SS disability in the USA is a multi-year process. It's a hateful, disheartening time for someone to go through. You desperately need the approval for assistance, but have a small chance of winning. #mecfs #chronicillness

This month has been a struggle. Biz is way down. The car we wanted to buy was sold the day after the test drive. Our car then needed $1k in repairs. My PwME had a few PEM events and struggled with headaches all month. June was not pleasant, & now a heat wave is about to start. #mecfs #POTS #smallbiz

Tried to get a permanent handicap placard for my PwME; instead, the PA said they could reissue a temporary 1 again and that we'd have to see a specialist for a permanent one. What specialist??? This is the 5th temp. #ChronicIllness #mecfs #invisibleillness #frailandfrurious

It's the final day in #MECFS Awareness Month, and I'm ending it with a note about Quality of Life for the family. Chronic illness is devastating, not just to the person with it but to their family. Thanks to @tomkindlon.bsky.social for posting this graph. 🧵 #chronicillness #Frailbutfighting

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I had someone ask me this week, so is your PwME getting worse? Not are there improvements, not how are they doing? My PwME has a #chronicillness. We are married, so I'm in the fight too. I fight for them, with them. We said vows to "in sickness & in health". That did not just mean a 24-hour flu.

The QoL for the family with a #chronillness like #MECFS is not great—no vacations for us, no concerts, no sporting events. We do get left behind and forgotten about. I've explained to friends, the invitation means more than the actual event. Knowing that they still want us to come means more now.

It's the final day in #MECFS Awareness Month, and I'm ending it with a note about Quality of Life for the family. Chronic illness is devastating, not just to the person with it but to their family. Thanks to @tomkindlon.bsky.social for posting this graph. 🧵 #chronicillness #Frailbutfighting

When my husband was Dx he tried to keep working in our business. By the end of the year, he handed over the business to me. We lost 50% of our income. 50% when we were a small business trying to grow. 50% of our hopes & dreams were shot down by an illness. It should be this hard, this lonely...🧵

For decades, people with #chronicillness where ignored and told that they were fine; they just needed mental help. My husband was no different. 🧵...

so we tried that, and what we got were 5 different mental health professionals telling him he was mentally fit and that his issues were real. They told him they couldn't help him, that he had already figured out all the things that they would suggest. 🧵...

1 Dr even told him the problem was he was smarter than the Dr's he was seeing. Sometimes the problem isn't in the patient's head; it's in the Doctors. #chrnoicillness #mecfe #UnitedwithME #frailbutfighting

Day 29 of spreading awareness. #MECFS is a cruel, invisible illness that deserves more attention, research, and knowledge. #ChronicIllness #ChronicPain #InvisiableIllness #POTS

Irish ME/CFS Association@irishmecfsassoc.bsky.social

29/ May is Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (M.E.) Awareness Month. You can help by sharing and/or liking this image. Day 29 #MyalgicE #MyalgicEncephalomyelitis #ChronicFatigueSyndrome

The founder of Modern Nursing. A naturalist who helped shape parts of modern science. Yeah, these 2 were 2 of the laziest people in history. 🙄 #mecfs #chronicillness #unitedwithME #frailbutfighting

My husband is mostly house-bound. We do our best to keep his inflammation down, which means a strict diet/lifestyle. He's lost muscle strength in the last couple of years. He has Erosive Osteoarthritis in his hands. He has POTS. Just to name a few things that work against him. #mecfs #chronicillnes

Irish ME/CFS Association@irishmecfsassoc.bsky.social

27/‬ ‪May is Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (M.E.) Awareness Month.‬ ‪You can help by sharing and/or liking this image.‬ ‪ Day 27 #MyalgicE #MyalgicEncephalomyelitis #pwme #mecfs

We went in for a Tilt Table Test for my husband and walked out with an #MECFS diagnosis. 2 years later, he got the POTS diagnosis as well. Currently, still on the wait list to see the POTS specialist in our area, have been waiting for over a year now. #chronicillness #Frailbutfighting

Tom Kindlon@tomkindlon.bsky.social

Orthostatic Intolerance Testing Made Clear: Tilt Table, Active Stand, and the Passive Stand batemanhornecenter.org/orthostatic_... This blog post discusses orthostatic intolerance, a "hallmark feature" of ME/CFS and Long Covid, and the three tests used for diagnosis. #MEcfs #LongCovid #pots #OI

It is a complex, multi-systemic disease that profoundly impacts physical and mental function, often causing more functional impairment than conditions like congestive heart failure or multiple sclerosis. The quality of life of someone with MECFS isn't really a quality. #mecfs #fibro #chronicillnes

Irish ME/CFS Association@irishmecfsassoc.bsky.social

25/ May is Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (M.E.) Awareness Month. You can help by sharing and/or liking this image. #MyalgicE #PwME #MyalgicEncephalomyelitis Day25

Unrefreshed sleep is common in many #chronicillness. For my husband, falling asleep isn't the issue; it's staying asleep. We work at improving sleep hygiene, and a decent night of sleep makes a world of difference in managing his other symptoms. #me/cfs #frailbutfighting #UnitedwithME

Irish ME/CFS Association@irishmecfsassoc.bsky.social

23/ May is Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (M.E.) Awareness Month. You can help by sharing and/or liking this image. Studies suggest that virtually everyone with the illness has sleep problems. Day 23 #MyalgicE #MyalgicEncephalomyelitis #chronicfatiguesyndrome

Every day, my husband works at trying to manage all his symptoms. I help him manage some. Things we've done to manage his #MECFS include restrictions on foods, eliminating WiFi/Cellular signals, air filtration, mold mitigation, & more. #mecfsawareness #UnitedwithME #frailbutfighing #chronicillness

Irish ME/CFS Association@irishmecfsassoc.bsky.social

21/ May is Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (M.E.) Awareness Month. You can help by sharing and/or liking this image. Day 21 #MEcfs #ChronicFatigueSyndrome

My husband works, but to maintain his condition. It's something he does every day, throughout the day, with no vacation time earned. It doesn't earn an income. #mecfs #chronicillness #untiedwithME #frailbutfighting.

Let's talk sleep & ME/CFS, or rather the lack of sleep. My husband struggles nearly every night with sleep. Waking up throughout the night, struggling to get back to sleep. We've taken multiple steps to create better sleep hygiene, & the struggle continues. #chronicillness #mecfs #frailbutfighting