Friandise

Friandise

@friandise.bsky.social

🔞 || 🇨🇦 || Single || Valentine Bunny || M.Ed. || Métis (Cree) || Two-Spirit / Non-Binary || They/Them || 29 || FR/EN

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Guess who's hip-hoppin' around Bluesky~ It's me, Friandise (pronounced: free-ahn-deez), but you can call me Fri for short~ I'm a Valentine's bunny, meaning I'm all about spreading that L-O-V-E! 💗 I'm an athlete, a musician, a dancer, and so much more! Don't be a stranger; I don't bite—I kiss~ 💋

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As an NB person, I cringe so hard when I hear people "compliment" trans people by saying things like: "I'd have never been able to tell!" "You don't LOOK trans!" Why not just: "You're beautiful" or "You're cute" or "You're handsome" or anything that doesn't point out the fact they're trans??? 😭

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Today was the first time I’ve presented my work thus far to my colleagues (most of whom are accomplished academics) and I was so nervous that my work would be sneered. But, they were FLOORED by what I did, jaws literally dropped, and most joked about wanting to steal me for their departments. 🥺

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I just got prescribed my first set of low-dose t-blockers! Plan’s to do that for three months then add low-dose estrogen! Ahhhhh! It begins!!!

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To be completely honest, I wouldn't have been considering HRT as a non-binary person if it wasn't for @spiritbrat.bsky.social. Seeing their journey and reading their posts since they started transitioning has been so inspirational. Thanks so much, Hush. I'm so grateful, even if you didn't know. <3

To be completely honest, I wouldn't have been considering HRT as a non-binary person if it wasn't for @spiritbrat.bsky.social. Seeing their journey and reading their posts since they started transitioning has been so inspirational. Thanks so much, Hush. I'm so grateful, even if you didn't know. <3

Today was the first time I’ve presented my work thus far to my colleagues (most of whom are accomplished academics) and I was so nervous that my work would be sneered. But, they were FLOORED by what I did, jaws literally dropped, and most joked about wanting to steal me for their departments. 🥺

As an NB person, I cringe so hard when I hear people "compliment" trans people by saying things like: "I'd have never been able to tell!" "You don't LOOK trans!" Why not just: "You're beautiful" or "You're cute" or "You're handsome" or anything that doesn't point out the fact they're trans??? 😭

The quality of frozen fries/wedges has gone up exponentially; it's awesome. You're telling me I can get a bag of frozen potatoes that's just as good as fast food places, but can be made in an air fryer and at a fraction of the price??? Sold!

I ate some almonds earlier and a tiny little piece was stuck in my braces. When I finally got it free, it was just this hard little dot in my mouth…. So I swished it, licked my lips, let it get stuck on there by my spit before slurping it back in… it was heavenly… 🤤 Just like my favourite micros~

Dolly Parton and Tim Curry passing away on the same day is diabolical. They were both 80 too. We lost two queer icons. 😭 You’ve both had such powerful impacts on a marginalized community and I hope you can rest peacefully knowing that. ♥️

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Welp, that's that. I've been cut off financially, so my dad isn't on my side either. I have a doctors appointment in a week, and it's $415 for the initial appointment. We can't afford that big of a hit at this stage, so I'm gonna ask for help. Sharing is appreciated! Paypal.me/whitetatsu

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I think back on some of the things I’e said and done in the past and I was genuinely such a piece of shit. I know people shouldn’t let their past define who they are in the present, but in this fandom it feels inescapable. Constant reminders of the bridges I’ve burned. No wonder I’m single… 😔

Wait, so when people were saying "just get through A Realm Reborn, and once you get to Heavensward it's smooth sailing," that wasn't a joke? It's astonishing just how much better everything has gotten since entering Heavensward. Wtf. 😭

I love my job! 😭 It’s the first job I’ve ever had where, on my first day, I only did “onboarding” for 2 hours then spent the rest of the day actually working on project management stuff. Beyond productive, drafted a 6-page reference document summarizing key strategies and reference material, etc.

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First day at the new job in the morning, wish me luck! Ahh!

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I still can’t get over that I got a Project Management job at my local university. I’m so excited! Not only does it give me the 5 years needed for my PMP Certification, but it’s for a great initiative that will hopefully draw attention to my city. I really hope I can do a great job! 🙏

I still can’t get over that I got a Project Management job at my local university. I’m so excited! Not only does it give me the 5 years needed for my PMP Certification, but it’s for a great initiative that will hopefully draw attention to my city. I really hope I can do a great job! 🙏

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PSA: If someone cares about you enough to open up about anything, whether it be trans, non-binary, or what have you, it means they care about you enough to be vulnerable. As such, if your response is: "Not into that xd ... Sorry ... Not a fan of those" Touch grass and grow the fuck up.

PSA: If someone cares about you enough to open up about anything, whether it be trans, non-binary, or what have you, it means they care about you enough to be vulnerable. As such, if your response is: "Not into that xd ... Sorry ... Not a fan of those" Touch grass and grow the fuck up.

My bedroom's flooring got redone, and it sucked to be evicted for the day... but being able to start my room over, change where everything is, and have it be pristine? Wow, I didn't realize just how much I needed that. The clutter was terrible for my mental health.