Gwen

Gwen

@gwen.geminiwilson.com

Nerdy 36yo gamer gal. Aka Gwen, Gem, the subparnerd. 🎮FFXIV 🎮Stardew 🎮Minecraft 🎮Fortnite 🎣Fishing ⛺️Camping 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

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My job changed from mostly verify another team did their job right to mostly verifying another team made sure another team did their job right. You wouldn't think that extra layer changes much, but damn is it more stressful. Went from field engineer to program manager 😮‍💨 Suffering from Success.

Some guy replied all to a "Breast Cancer Awareness" event at work, We're talking 5k-6k people. His complaint? Basically that it should have gone out to women only, and we should respect his culture and religion. 🤔 Anyway, its Breast Cancer Awareness month. Support those in your life affected.

When a manager doesn't reply to you reaching out that "Hey, this is a blocker." So you add to the approval ticket, "Hey, this is a blocker and Ive reached out to manager to let them know." And he doesn't reply until less than 3 hours before its due and has an attitude about your comment.

If you'd have done your job in the first place, I wouldn't have had to publicly comment, and I'm not taking the fall for "blocking the project last minute" over deliverables you're fucking in charge of.

Ripping my saint bernard's avulsed nail off with plyers was not on my Saturday night bingo card. He seems to be doing better now.

Game released into 1.0 on 9/9. I dont remember if it had achievements before that, but they were definitely wiped for 1.0 if it did.

Im not even gonna read it because my time is better spent elsewhere, but "Trans woman should have any surgery they want but not bottom surgery" is certainly a take. If you're not trans, maybe keep your mouth shut. And even if you are, what someone does with their body is not your business.

This looked like fun so: Not super surprising. Funny it says Nevada and lists Portland, Seattle and San Fran. Some of the questions were hard to pick one, like pop vs soda. I use/have used both.

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Whats really interesting is how close my least/most are. And none of my cities was over 50%. Honestly, I have a weird Northwestern/southern mix. Picked up a lot of country talk being raised in a rural area by hillbillies I guess.

The problem with an "AI Slop" filter for LinkedIn is that all the motivational crap posts that were popular already read like AI.

*I wear a wig. Ive had some FFS work, but it hadn't settled yet in the after. Added only because I believe other ladies, especially those transitioning after 30, deserve to see realistic transition pics and have some knowledge of whats behind the changes.

FFS with Liu part 2 tomorrow! Still ambivalent about the results of part 1. I still have some swelling, meaning it's too early to judge, so I'm trying to remain optimistic. I'm not going to be a model☺️, but maybe it'll lessen the dysphoria.

"Why dont you call more deadname?" Maybe because it's been 4 years since I changed my name, and you still dont use it. The in-laws who dont particularly like me and are very conservative somehow manage, but my own family can't? 😮‍💨

Razer, I'd love to give you my money for one of your cool collab sets, but I refuse to main a tenkeyless keyboard. I will pay more if I have to, but I need my accountant keys dammit.

Transphobes: They're trying to be pervs in the bathroom! My anxious trans ass: "I gotta make to aim the stream so that it makes enough noise to sound like everyone else in here. Also, gonna wait until it sounds like no one else is in the bathroom to leave the stall and wash my hands. Also..."

On that note, if you haven't seen it, She's the He is now available VOD on YouTube. It's a funny raunchy teen comedy, written, directed and starring trans people. Worth 5$ and 80 minutes of your time.

Im just gonna try to live with as much joy as I can, and transition as long as I can, before the government inevitably comes for me.

Made my slightly transphobic coworker uncomfortable yesterday. "What're doing on your day off tomorrow?" "Having lasers shot at my nether region." Apparently, that was TMI. 😅 We getting round two of GRS prep LHR! Let's go!

By "slightly transphobic", this person refers to me by "dude" because "he calls everyone dude" (he has never once referred to the other women in our office as dude in my presence.) And he thought it was fun y to point out another trans coworker "used to be a man". Nothing egregious, but a lack of

Wife's out of town, gonna get wild tonight! And by wild, I mean order Chipotle and decorate my new FFXIV house since I finally won the plot I've been after! Gemini Alelle, homeowner.

Bought a box of 100 needles. They dont easily pierce my skin. 🫠 I got my shot done, but im not looking forward to using these.