📛 Bunny Loli 🏳️‍⚧️

friendly reminder for the class and stuff that being "anti bigotry" is truly just words. most bigoted people do not think about the fact that they are bigoted because they dont see anything inherently wrong with their thinking. prove what you believe with actions, not just saying you believe in it

most of the people that go out of their way to hurt weird trans women online think they're fighting for trans rights while they're carrying out obvious transmisogyny, plenty of trans people hold onto deeply internalized transphobia. if you dont have intention with a belief it becomes just a badge

bunny kinda wants to make a point abt specifically how common plural ppl are online because she has some observations that are interesting and I want to say them so ppl can talk abt it more- fairly ig? since, especially in my community, plural ppl ARE more common, but I think there's a reason 🧵

this whole tangent is to say that plurality is more common here because most of the key contributing factors to somebody expressing plurality are ALSO key factors that lead to somebody ending up here in the first place, they both happen from very similar stimuli so its a pretty obvious outcome

bunny kinda wants to make a point abt specifically how common plural ppl are online because she has some observations that are interesting and I want to say them so ppl can talk abt it more- fairly ig? since, especially in my community, plural ppl ARE more common, but I think there's a reason 🧵

tbh I dont know what its like for other systems, and in general I get really nervous talking abt it to other ppl because I *dont* understand most of it, it's just something I've had for a while. I assume in my case its mostly tied to my BPD, but there are a lot of different reasons ppl end up plural

bunny kinda wants to make a point abt specifically how common plural ppl are online because she has some observations that are interesting and I want to say them so ppl can talk abt it more- fairly ig? since, especially in my community, plural ppl ARE more common, but I think there's a reason 🧵

to give some example, I do experience some form of plurality where, FOR ME, (key words) its not too uncommon to have these little flashbangs where I get really dazed and confused and just zone out until another flash goes off and *something* different is happening (switching feels weird)

bunny kinda wants to make a point abt specifically how common plural ppl are online because she has some observations that are interesting and I want to say them so ppl can talk abt it more- fairly ig? since, especially in my community, plural ppl ARE more common, but I think there's a reason 🧵

I also think that generally speaking the kinds of people that have an interest in having a platform in this kind of space tend to have gone through much more significantly traumatic experience, especially in childhood! but also plurality as a concept can be pretty unspecific because brains are weird

bunny kinda wants to make a point abt specifically how common plural ppl are online because she has some observations that are interesting and I want to say them so ppl can talk abt it more- fairly ig? since, especially in my community, plural ppl ARE more common, but I think there's a reason 🧵

the most important point to lead with is, a majority of the time I do not believe people are lying abt it. will some people be? yea, it is a statistic inevitability, if someone can they will, but I think it's a much less fulfilling way to live to lead assuming everyone is lying to you, nobody wins

since bunny has a lot of followers who still have an MDNI, bunny wants to give some suggestions for alternatives that dont alienate ppl who are growing up like how I did while still tagging ur posts! - horny on main - viewer discretion is advised - not for the faint of heart - beware: SEX! - lewd

bun already thinks all MDNIs are silly, but something feels extra silly abt permakids having them- like, u know *ur* not over 18 right? u got that perpetually 10 yr old swagger, doesnt ur DNI apply to urself too? like, either ur always a kid or u still see urself as an adult, do u WANT dysphoria?

holy bunny I did not expect that last post to go so crazy- I think its actually breaching containment just a little bit- at least its bleeding into the babyfur community which I also like and am a part of but like- uwaaaa ;w; also I did not expect fickle feathers to repost me what, what the bunny

to all my trans oomfs with Autism, ADHD, an anxiety disorder, depression, BPD, some form of plurality, age incongruence, a paraphilia, AND (yes AND, all of these) an anxious attachment style, I just wanna say, I love u and ur awesome :3 (and the rest of u too) also there are a lot of you holy bunny

yes I only made this post to point out how crazy the overlap between all these are, for the record I also have all of these, this posts exists exclusively to comment on how crazy high the comorbidity is and dat its interesting how many of us went through similar stuff like dat :3

bun kinda think bein gatekeepy abt mental health stuff is really weirddd- at best ur like, bein kinda mean to "outsiders", but at worst u might accidentally hurt somebunny who is struggling and finally found a word for what they're feeling but isnt confident, u might set them back in figuring it out

bun kinda think bein gatekeepy abt mental health stuff is really weirddd- at best ur like, bein kinda mean to "outsiders", but at worst u might accidentally hurt somebunny who is struggling and finally found a word for what they're feeling but isnt confident, u might set them back in figuring it out

bun feels like its a lot more likely to hurt somebody who's just trying their best to understand themself than to do anything to prevent ppl misusing the word for ur experiences- most of da time it is *something*, even if dey are just lying for fun, dat doesnt just happen for no reason

being plural and broke at the same time kinda fucking sucks cuz I really want to buy things for my alters so they know I acknowledge them and want to give them space to exist on their own merit, but then I can only afford maybe one present for one of them every 2 weeks and I cant buy anything for me

little pro-tip for all my oomfies with mental fuckery going on, (like I do!) at the end of the day, your brain is a goopy mass of meat in your skull firing off electrical signals, brains are fundamentally fucking weird, your experiences matter 1000x more than any label of what you feel could

it is okay if a condition you might have doesnt fit perfectly, if you are making a good faith attempt at putting things together, its fine to say "yea I feel like I might be/have X" to my understanding, a lot of conditions arent super well-understood anyways, so just roll with whatever you've felt!