Wabi Sabi Papi (DoubleA)

28 Nov 2024

Making the jump.

Back on after a few days away Squats 100kgs 5x3 Bench 70kgsx5, 80 kgs x 5x2 Dips 5 kgs 10 x 3

Went back yesterday Squats 100kgs 5x3 Deadlifts 120kgs x 5, 130 kgs 5 x 2 Pullups 10 x 2, assisted 20 kgs x 10 Gym was packed but managed to get a video of the DLs. Trained with bf so no workout song this time (you can hear why i need headphones).

I worked out two days ago But life has been very busy Squats 100kgs 5x3 Bench 70kgs 5x1, 75 5x2 Dips 10, 5kgs 10x2 Assisted wide PullUps 27kgs 10x3

Someone told me Copes i Bastos felt like being on the movie Shortbus. Then he told me that's his favorite movie. I think that's one of the best compliments I've ever recieved.

I honestly don't know how I'd be able to handle my life if it wasn't for my bating practice. I get so horny I cannot think straight, it's searing white hot. Some people enjoy it, it's intolerable to me. But I get to turn it into pure ecstasy and then get the boost for the rest of the day.

Felt tired and my right knee hurt so I had to get my ass back to the gym Squats 80kgs 8x3 Deadlift 110kgsx5, 120kgsx5, 130kgsx5 Dips 5kgs 10x2 PullUps 10x2 Song of the workout was Deerhoof's Choco Fight (very wtf but in a good way)

@parisjacks.org is on Bluesky!✨

23 Sept

Este sabado! (This Saturday)

Wabi Sabi Papi (DoubleA)@joellifting.bsky.social

Celebramos la llegada del otoño con una nueva 𝘾𝙤𝙥𝙚𝙨 𝙞 𝘽𝙖𝙨𝙩𝙤𝙨 un pajapari místico 26 de Septiembre 4.00 — 9.00 PM 78 personas, una por cada carta del tarot. Entrada sólo con lista. Info + lista, como siempre, en copesibastos.cat Póster por el brillante Gerard (IG: @gerartsketches). Compártelo.

20 Sept

Squats 95 kgs 5x3 Bench 75 kgs 5x2, 80kgs 5x1 Pullups 10x3 Dips 5kgs 10x3 Today's workout song was Thundercat's Lone Wolf and Cub.

18 Sept

Therapy is cool, but have you heard the Counsel of Wise Friends?

18 Sept

Plotting things for next Copes i Bastos ...which is next Saturday! Copesibastos.cat It's gonna rock.

18 Sept

Forgot to post my workout two days ago! Front Squats 80kgs 5x3 Deadlifts 125 kgs 5x3 Dips 5kgs 10x3 PullUps 10x3 Lifted to Alice Phoebe Lou's Dirty Mouth. Made a video but didnt frame it right, next time.

15 Sept

Esto es en dos semanitas ya.

Wabi Sabi Papi (DoubleA)@joellifting.bsky.social

14 Sept

Squats 100kgs 5x3 Bench 70kgs x 5, 75kgs x 5 77.5 kgs x 5, 80 kgs x 5 OHP 40 kgs x 5, 45kgs x 5, 4 Dips 5kgs 5x3 Listed to Tune Yards' Oh Child. Happy my shoulders can bench 80kgs again, i think I'll get strong again before too long.

13 Sept

I'm on @batematesapp.bsky.social. If we have bated on zoom or elsewhere and you're on Batemates let me know!

Been a week! Squats 100kgs 5x3 Deadlifts 120 kgs 5x3 PullUps 10x3 Dips 10x3 Lifted to Plain Gold Ring by White Magic.

I don't understand why people try to so hard to be a man, when they could literally be anything else. It's so boring.

Like... Isnt it cooler to a dancer, a beast or a tank. This is why I vibe with the furries so hard, like yes, be a tiger. A panda, a deer, an ox, a gorilla. Be all of them at different times, when it suits you. If life is theater, wear all the masks.

Like 15 years ago, lifting with @xgibran.bsky.social and attempting a PR, he said "You can't fail, you're being recorded" while pointing the camera at me. I chuckled and did pull the PR. Since that day, almost everytime the weight on the bar feels heavy I remember that moment, laugh and pull hard.

7 Sept

Back to steamy Barcelona And to the gym Squats 90kgs 7x4 Bench 70kgs 7x3 OHP 40 kgs 5,7,5 BW Dips 3x10 Lifted to Ivy's Traces of You.

berlinbators.deBerlin BatorsA BATE PARTY

7 Sept

Berlin Bators was amazing. The venue was perfect, the energy was right, the people were lovely. Opened a lot of possibilities. Very excited about the future. If you're in Berlin or close, support and continue to build your community. berlinbators.de

Went to the gym today (since I'll be out of town for Berlin Bators the rest of the week :D) Squats 100kgs 5x3 Deadlifts 120 kgs 5x3 Pull Ups 10x3 Today's workout song was Bardo Pond's Tantric Porno.

Celebrem l'arribada de la tardor amb una nova 𝘾𝙤𝙥𝙚𝙨 𝙞 𝘽𝙖𝙨𝙩𝙤𝙨 una pallafesta mística 26 de Setembre 4.00 — 9.00 PM 78 persones, una per cada carta del tarot. Llista requerida per a entrar. Info + lista, com sempre, a copesibastos.cat Poster pel brillant Gerard (IG: @gerartsketches). Compartiu-lo.

We'll celebrate the coming of Autumn with a new 𝘾𝙤𝙥𝙚𝙨 𝙞 𝘽𝙖𝙨𝙩𝙤𝙨 a mystical bate party September 26th 4.00 — 9.00 PM 78 people, one for each tarot card. List required for entry. Info + list, as always, at copesibastos.cat Poster by the brilliant Gerard (@gerartsketches on IG).

Back to our irregularly scheduled programming. Went to the gym today! No video, was so packed. Squats 100 kgs 5x3 Bench Press 75 kgs 5x3 Facilitated Wide Pullups -12.5 kgs 10x2 (but it doesnt work very well below 20kgs, so went up again for an extra set of 10) Lifted to Nancy by Léonie Pernet.

Watched Vice's Documentary "Wild Goon Chase" this morning. I enjoyed it, but it only covers porn gooners. They didn't talk to anyone who goons together on cam or in-person. We have worked on this but haven't shared it enough, I realize. I put it in an IG highlight. IG sucks, so I'm sharing it here.

We present a framework into trance and then use that to present three "types of gooners" depending on the pathways they use into trance. It's a continuum/fluid. I consider myself somwhere between 2 and 3 for example. Links: www.batorsex.com/ecstatic-tra... www.batorsex.com/what-is-goon...

The artist for this is @vilnotvil on instagram. He removed the e after the publication.

Woof. Okay. That was work. It sucks that bluesky doesnt let you pin multiple posts, like mastodon. Now I have to choose between this monster thread on gooning together and my trusted mirror selfie.

The community continues to grow with grassroot initiatives + many unofficial gatherings. Hell, the first Berlin Bators sold out a month in advance! Some here: www.batorsex.com/network/ I'm sharing all the european in-person bate events monthly for @strokinut.com Steve's newsletter welcomerag.com

To end it, I talk a bit about how gooners are portrayed as losers in mainstream media, when in reality, queer gooners are usually very embodied people, often creatives, many in performing arts. Often gender non-conforming. A real community is increasingly being forged through group bating/gooning.

We wrote a 8-page Guide to Gooning together comparing group gooning to musical jams with beautiful art by @osetesur.bsky.social. We wanted to portray edging and gooning as practice, similar to playing an instrument. @nsns.bsky.social absolutely nailed the centerfold. Link batorsex.com/sneak-peaks/

On the zine, we started teasing gooning during the Kink Issue. I wrote an overview and talked about "gooning with" as an alternative to "gooning to". We also covered a 6-page section on cam bator/gooner aesthetics. Zine 5 was gonna be "the gooning issue". Art by Poe & @frandsgabriel.bsky.social

The Slag Room 🎨 queer artist

Zine 5 went deep into what gooning is in its core and related it to other practices. The cover features @theslagroom.bsky.social 's KILLER rendition of the feeling of ecstatic trance (the goon). Art below by @batescape.bsky.social. (@batescape on Instagram). Link: www.batorsex.com/batorsex5/

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@theslagroom.bsky.social

25 Feb 2025

Love this

October Joe@octoberjoe.bsky.social

This is the full spread, back to front wrap-around cover art for the Bator Sex zine mentioned below. I really enjoyed playing with scale and perspective on this composition, which I hope is evident in the finished piece. Issue available at batorbro.com

I haven't written the 5th one cause editing zine 5 was gargantuan and I took a break, bit it's coming. We'll make a zine with all these plus other gooner's perspectives before the year ends I hope

Way before the zine, we recorded a Twitter Spaces (communal audio) where gooners shared their experiences. I helped mediate and bridge them. This is early BatorBro days, my understanding & experience of gooning has changed a lot in the last 3 years. 1h20m, link: on.soundcloud.com/CyZEtJ2pJfPV...

For each Bator Sex Issue I wrote a little article about gooning and the theme of the issue. One of the reasons I got involved in the zine was the way I saw gooning was misrepresented. Here's a link to the series: www.batorsex.com/on-gooning-1/

27 Aug

I hid a Kingdom Hearts reference in the Copes i Bastos website since the beginning and only like 3 people got it. Copesibastos.cat

26 Aug

Dolly Parton. Absolute icon and rolemodel to all. May we strive to have one tenth of her smarts, creativity, humanity, good humor and grace. Anyone not aware of her legacy listen to the podcast Dolly Parton's America.

26 Aug

In a world where Beyonce remixes Jolene, flatten its layers of depth and subversion and girlbossifies it, trying to pass as progressive Dolly Parton's Jolene is an anthem of resistance and real subversion from the trenches. The US has lost one of the greatest songwriters of this century.

The Slag Room 🎨 queer artist

25 Aug

Didn't sleep much so everything felt super heavy Squats 100 kgs 5x3 Deadlifts 120 kgs 5x3 Pullups 10x3 Song of the day was Helado Negro's Sender and Receiver.

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@theslagroom.bsky.social

25 Aug

𝐒𝐋𝐈𝐂𝐄 𝐎𝐅 𝐋𝐈𝐌𝐄 Support queer art... all saves, shares, reposts and likes help #queerart #queerartist

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Blue Oleta

@blue-oleta.bsky.social

21 Aug

And you definitely don't want to use a high-powered 532nm green laser, because it can permanently burn and disable digital camera CMOS or CCD sensors. Green light is absorbed at a very high efficiency by these electronic sensors, meaning concentrated beams easily melt or overload the pixel array.

23 Aug

In my eyes, the only alternative to Dudesnude is Batemates. Especially for people in situations where privacy is of utmost importance and those who need to see and show face when camming. It is vital we support these sites and stop engaging with Zoom & other random sites targeted at bators.

23 Aug

Especially now, in the age of AI: - when anyone can vibecode anything without a solid infrastructure behind it - when information is captured and sold - with mass surveillance through autentification and tracking Be smart about where you share and who has access to your intimate information.