Kettlewick

Kettlewick

@kettlewick.bsky.social

β˜•οΈπŸ«–Cozy forest dwelling bird πŸ‚πŸ 🍁 He/Him πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ Equal parts cartoon dad and butch πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ πŸ«– Taken by @thistlesprout.bsky.social

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Kettlewick
@kettlewick.bsky.social

Leave it to my demon boss to make my last day of handoffs a living hell. Knowing full well I'm taking time off to take care of my fiancΓ©e for getting major surgery, but making so much extra work and stress for no reason...

Kettlewick
@kettlewick.bsky.social

People don't really talk about what it feels like to explore your gender after coming out. I came out as a trans man 7 years ago, and it genuinely saved my life and I don't regret it. But now that I'm exploring the possibilities of being nonbinary again, I am petrified of what might people think πŸ˜΅β€πŸ’«

Kettlewick
@kettlewick.bsky.social

Idk it feels like... When you go from "cis" (perceived) > trans or nonbinary people are like yes, makes sense. But when you go trans > nonbinary, people go "wait what, soooo was it a phase orrrrr" They might not even do that though!! I'm just SCARED that they'd do that

Kettlewick
@kettlewick.bsky.social

The job market is exhausting. Being autistic in corporate is exhausting. Giving up my dream for financial stability, and not even being financially stable anyway, is exhausting. I don't know what to do anymore... Capitalism is wearing me down, and I genuinely don't know how to stay positive...

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Rory πŸ”ž
@r4wry.bsky.social

The Sapphic Furs starter pack and feed are here !! Go check it out if you’re looking for sapphic furries to follow or interact with ! πŸ‘‰ go.bsky.app/C6HfLLJ You can request to be added/removed by filling out the form in the starter pack’s description ! Reposts are appreciated 🫢

Kettlewick
@kettlewick.bsky.social

Hello new followers from the sapphic furries starter pack! πŸ‘‹ I'm Kettlewick! I'm a demisexual butch he/him trans guy lesbian. Not a woman. One of those Leslie Feinberg butches. Gender is cartoon dad in an argyle sweatervest. If you're cool with that, stick around! If not, feel free to part ways. 🧑

Kettlewick
@kettlewick.bsky.social

Transmasc nonbinary MIGHT be more accurate, but I live and pass as a man for safety reasons, and I have a full time job so I don't have time to think about that rn.........

Kettlewick
@kettlewick.bsky.social

OK so two of them fell through BUT INTERVIEW FOR ONE TODAY RAHHHH

Kettlewick@kettlewick.bsky.social

I am in a very fortunate position right now but I have three different recruiters putting me forward for three different positions and I'm just overwhelmed by the timing LMAO why is it you never hear anything for months and then stuff happens ALL AT ONCE

Kettlewick
@kettlewick.bsky.social

I want to live in a walkable city, but I want to feed birds in my forested yard, on my back porch in the quiet hours of the morning... U know...

Kettlewick
@kettlewick.bsky.social

I am in a very fortunate position right now but I have three different recruiters putting me forward for three different positions and I'm just overwhelmed by the timing LMAO why is it you never hear anything for months and then stuff happens ALL AT ONCE

Kettlewick
@kettlewick.bsky.social

I struggle with this SO MUCH! I get very overwhelmed with the speed of social media and I just end up just being a lurker... But i have to remind myself it's better to socialize "imperfectly" than not at all. I might not respond right away and that's ok!

Hog Wild@toadally.bsky.social

Something I see a lot of well-meaning artists do is get discouraged when they post their work here and don’t receive feedback. You have to be social on social media. Posting and running, without ever engaging with others and their craft will not give you the results you want. Art is about community.

Kettlewick
@kettlewick.bsky.social

It's been really daunting to rebuild my social media presence... But I want to!! I want to meet new people and present myself online the way I would like to be known!