Babbar

Babbar

@sbabbar19.bsky.social

London 🇬🇧 Another place to yearn, earnestly

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Hot take but I believe vehemently that “To” holds the intention, romanticism and personal touch we credit “Dear” with, although “Dearest” is the supreme especially considering some of the greatest love letters ever written (Napoleon to Josephine)

Got told I have failed as a gay guy on Instagram because I don’t post any thirst traps or shirtless photos or vacations, and no one cares about books.

Post cold leg day + extra pre workout + old Victoria Secret Show soundtracks, have to rid of these chicken legs one way or another

Friend called me out for being in a lesbian interlude in life for too long, it’s a lifestyle now, it’s UHaul or bust.

Bought three 5inch Nike shorts and ripped them all in a week, replaced with 7-9inch and PR’d, once again proving my body is not made for 5inch.

It’s funny how after heartbreak you categorise everything in your life before or after him, as if clues to what was to come and remnants of what’s left behind.

Starting today if I ever post an Instagram dump, I give everyone the right to take me out back and old yeller my ass, single post or bust.

I want to be part of a band that does Halloween song covers only for the month of October and no one knows our identity because we wear pumpkin heads. Think Joy Division meets Halloweentown meets the Stones meets Hannah Montana.

When did flirting over apps, socials, texts become so cheesy? Everyone just universally clocked into the greeting card factory at the Kia Asylum in the 1950’s.

I don’t if it’s hysteria after one of the best back days in weeks or what but I have never laughed as hard as I just did watching this weeks RHOSLC (yes I peed a little)

Another gay guy on Instagram with the perfect body to obsess over unlocked, time to curse all mirrors, cameras, genes, biology and what else

A painfully beautiful take on being single, gay, and feeling eternally broken but never knowing where the cracks are, if there is a piece missing, and if glue or anything at all could help repair. Using a pull quote to repost felt like a disservice to the kind of writing that feels like a mirror 🫂

JP@jpbrammer.bsky.social

I wrote about being chronically single, and about visiting a psychic to find out what's broken about me. she had some interesting things to say! johnpaulbrammer.substack.com/p/the-most-u...