Valaquesse

Valaquesse

@valaquesse.bsky.social

Lecherous old man era - mostly talking to myself in public - 30+ something 🏳️‍⚧️ transmasc 🏴‍☠️ he/him : χe/χim : þei/þem

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Valaquesse
@valaquesse.bsky.social

All I can hear is that this painful emotion is something I'm not allowed to have as a response. I am the one who isn't forthcoming about my feelings - which I see as a learned response to my mam's tendency to over (or under) react..

Valaquesse
@valaquesse.bsky.social

Ugh. We're dysfunctional as fuck. I sometimes wish I could justify disowning them all. It would be cleaner. I love them despite being from a different planet.

Valaquesse
@valaquesse.bsky.social

I don't know how to communicate my anger and hurt and I'm beyond frustrated waiting for some sort of therapy to talk this through with someone. It sounds easy enough. Telling them how I feel. But I'm too used to being shut down. Or it being taken as a personal attack.

Valaquesse
@valaquesse.bsky.social

Now I'm past Dressrosa I'm enjoying Zou a lot. I think I'm happy to see Franky back with everyone and interacting with Robin in a way he hasn't had a chance too since 3D2Y.

Valaquesse
@valaquesse.bsky.social

It's something I had longed to do as a child but was too scared to mention explicitly. Anything approaching discussion had been shut down by various adults in my life. I figured I'd take it to the grave. It's self fulfillment and realisation, it's grasping for agency in a world that denies it.

May “Bunny” Peterson 🦄@goddessblade.bsky.social

Why did you transition? Right answers only

Valaquesse
@valaquesse.bsky.social

Its also being totally baffled by my own genital situation for most of my life. Like in a 'maybe I'm intersex?' kind of way. It ultimately came from 'we do not educate on the (diverse) anatomy of vulvas at all'. Friends, I am desperate for some kind of metoidioplasty.

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Chiitan🌈ちぃたん☆
@chiitan.love

No matter how loudly they say there are only two genders… Every soul is a precious, one-of-a-kind story🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 Let’s wrap hate gently in love. Let’s embrace love with open arms and bigger hearts. Chiitan will love all transgender friends forever and ever. No matter what, my heart is always with you.

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Ziedrich Pengels
@thebigzeo.bsky.social

I wrote a thing about this back in 2024, sucks that literally nothing has changed, if anything it's all gottten worse since then! purplepawclan.com/blog/why-tra...

purplepawclan.comWhy Trans Men Can't Grow UpWe are not victims, infants, or in danger
Evan Urquhart@evanurquhart.bsky.social

We still don't talk about the way medically transitioning trans boys and transmasc nonbinary kids are the primary focus of the moral panic over trans kids.

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spoon
@iatethedevilfruit.bsky.social

One piece has so many important lessons but if there’s a few to carry us through dark times: Be delusional about your dreams No one is going to believe in your ability to accomplish your dreams or anything like you are, when you lose faith in yourself you lose,

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🧸scobi!
@scobitown.bsky.social

happy valentine’s day everyone ^_^ have some frobin from me 🩵💜 (p.s… if i turn this into a keychain design do yall think anyone would buy? 👁️) #onepiece #frobin #frankyop #nicorobin #valentines

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Creative Crone
@runatroy.bsky.social

If you like a creator's work, tell them. Otherwise we stare & questioning our life choices. Like @chuckwendig.bsky.social said: "Authors are like Tinkerbell. If you don't clap for us, we die. Please remember if you like a book, tell the author and post reviews. It means the absolute world to us."