Bel Downes (Coffeewith…)

Bel Downes (Coffeewith…)

@withdownes.bsky.social

Linguist/Language Scientist, Australian, Ace, Newbie Stoic, Ex-evangelical, Climate Change Learner, Ambulatory Wheelchair user with L plates. #ReframingFacialDifference Substack: https://beldownes.substack.com?r=holl6&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=profile

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‘You Can’t Ask That!’ is an Australian ABC TV series that’s been running off and on from 2016 The episode I was in (2017) has been put on YouTube. I look very different now, but I still agree with what I said back then I’d encourage everyone, esp families, to watch a few of the eps & discuss… 👋☕️🇦🇺

youtu.bePeople with rare conditions honestly answer public questions | You Can't Ask That | Full EpisodeYouTube video by ABC Australia

Friendly reminder: Don’t label despicable people with medical or physical conditions they don’t have Having a physical difference (like cleft scars) is not a character flaw. Neither is ‘bed wetting’ nor ‘mouth-breathing’ Talk about how they are despicable, don’t use some feature others can’t help

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Values have to change. Incentives need to shift. Fossil fuels, which were for long so beneficial to humanity, have to be recognised as poisons. And petroleum companies must pay for backtracking on their promises, writes Jonathan Watts www.theguardian.com/environment/...

theguardian.comFuel on the fire: why oil companies are profiting as the world gets dangerously hotThe scientific consensus is that burning fossil fuels drives the climate crisis, yet the world’s biggest oil companies are planning to increase production

I’m proud of myself getting through some difficult things this year. I’m doing really well I did my Australian tax return last night at 12:58am on 1 July. That was not difficult at all Thanks ATO! Next year I hope it is a bit more difficult because I’ll be back at work 👋☕️🇦🇺

Feeling very thankful for the roof over my head and no need to go out in the wind and rain today Also thankful for good friends that respect my need to not get blown over in public and have coffee earlier in the week Coffee and study today 👋☕️🇦🇺

Today, May the Fourth, Star Wars Day, is my birthday… and my friends took me out for a coffee so early this morning that I actually got a Vegemite and cheese pastry! Day made 🇦🇺 How freaking awesome is all that! 👋☕️

Major happies here… My Helen has a motor. As amazing as The Fellow is, it’s a matter of Stoic justice that I don’t make him give up his life to push Helen and me up hills I never thought I would buy a junk car, but I have bought a good wheelchair power assist Go Helen Wheels! 👋☕️🇦🇺

On a train station concourse with Helen Wheels and this very cool little kid launches into this incredible spinning rave dance right in front of me He was burning off energy before what I assumed was a long train trip But he was a great dancer and I was glad I wasn’t on the train with him!

Feeling a bit happy emotional… Paid off the wheelchair in full yesterday (Helen Wheels) and she’s been keeping me wound free for over two months now Yesterday was also coincidently my late mother’s birthday, she didn’t care for herself or me so it’s good to remember 14 Apr in a better care way 🧑‍🦽‍➡️🎉

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John Lyon’s (on the ABC) analysis of the Orange Turd’s address is like a palate cleanser. He’s pretty much calling out all the lies & BS. Thank you John!!! #AusPol

So welcome to my wheelchair’s official naming ceremony… I haven’t had any wounds for two months now! 🎉 So my chair’s name is… Helen… Helen Wheels Helen, The Fellow and I are celebrating with a coffee and bakery treats, come and join us - thanks for all your support 🎉👋☕️🇦🇺🧑‍🦽‍➡️❤️

You have no idea how much I’m getting from a daily Stoic practice - deliberately sitting, reading and thinking about values Doing something about the things I can control versus the things I can’t, has really uncluttered my head And there’s no threat of eternal punishment if I slightly disagree

For a timeline cleanse I thought I’d share a picture from Threads. And I’m going to tell you that a lot of us are waiting for the ‘Raptor’ on the 22 March It’s Threads. It was a typo. It’s now a Threads wide joke This is my new friend Rory who I hope will visit again during the Second Coming👋☕️🇦🇺🦖

One month anniversary of my wheelchair - and still no foot wounds. This means no more early morning nursing visits, a lot fewer medical appointments, no trips to hospital. More coffee with friends without serious foot consequences and I can walk around the house comfortably… Great investment 🎉🧑‍🦽‍➡️

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Sometimes I have coffee near a big railway station. Just to watch the bags people choose to travel with. While I can’t photograph them, I also think some of these bags are being used to within an inch of their last breath. Imagine a bag holding a roll of heavy duty tape together.