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Chance
@chance.dev

Unlearning this may have been the single most liberating thing I’ve ever done. Huge quality-of-life hack.

Max Kennerly@maxkennerly.bsky.social

So many men go through life like that. You can play poker because it's right-coded, you can't enjoy fruity alcoholic drinks because they're women-coded, you can't lick an ice cream cone because it's gay-coded. All day, every day, choosing and judging things based on coding for narrow norms.

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Chance
@chance.dev

Secure in his masculinity, femininity, androgyny, or any fluctuation or coloration in the spectrum. Otherwise completely agreed. Arbitrary gender-based constraints are shackles.