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Unlearning this may have been the single most liberating thing I’ve ever done. Huge quality-of-life hack.

Max Kennerly@maxkennerly.bsky.social

So many men go through life like that. You can play poker because it's right-coded, you can't enjoy fruity alcoholic drinks because they're women-coded, you can't lick an ice cream cone because it's gay-coded. All day, every day, choosing and judging things based on coding for narrow norms.

Secure in his masculinity, femininity, androgyny, or any fluctuation or coloration in the spectrum. Otherwise completely agreed. Arbitrary gender-based constraints are shackles.

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