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Stuff like this really sucks - sorry to hear. Probably the best thing to do is to just say you're leaving them alone and anyone harassing them is impersonating you, then do just that. Perhaps over time, they'll realize they're being incredibly dumb.

I'm sure they'd be happier if they all left me alone, too.

I left Aster's Discord server in April to get away from a situation that had been going on for months. I had broken up with my abusive ex 2 years prior, and he was still telling people we were boyfriends. At the same time, he and his friends had been blackmailing me, to stop me from telling anyone.

Aster and I stayed in touch for a month after. His boyfriend and I had a meetup in Sweden planned, so I flew over for a break. Aster told me I could rejoin his server when I felt better, and left me an invite so I could rejoin. Before I did, I contacted him on Discord to let him know I was around.

If he had blocked me on Discord, I wouldn't have thought he was open to talk. But he didn't block me until after I rejoined. This could have been the end of this story. However, I've since been told he's one of the group who has been engaging in this harassment campaign against me this whole time.