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Before May, Aster and I had been close friends for years. Some of our mutual friends, I had been around for over a decade. They were my inner circle of friends. A few weeks ago, I was made aware of false allegations he was making against me in private, as well as in this vague post. I trusted him.

I left Aster's Discord server in April to get away from a situation that had been going on for months. I had broken up with my abusive ex 2 years prior, and he was still telling people we were boyfriends. At the same time, he and his friends had been blackmailing me, to stop me from telling anyone.

Aster and I stayed in touch for a month after. His boyfriend and I had a meetup in Sweden planned, so I flew over for a break. Aster told me I could rejoin his server when I felt better, and left me an invite so I could rejoin. Before I did, I contacted him on Discord to let him know I was around.

If he had blocked me on Discord, I wouldn't have thought he was open to talk. But he didn't block me until after I rejoined. This could have been the end of this story. However, I've since been told he's one of the group who has been engaging in this harassment campaign against me this whole time.

I'm afraid to tell my side of the story. But this friend group have made pretty serious false allegations about me, and they keep harassing me. And this particular post is (still) public, and other former friends have cut off contact with me silently over it. So here I am.

God that's utter shit. I hate that there are people that, for some godforsaken reason, act like this. And that there are plenty of people spineless enough to let it happen. You deserve better and I sincerely hope you find people worth your time. :(