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It's so close to such a good compliment, too! "It's really cool how [generic you] can look so effortlessly cute." Because sure, anyone can be born looking good, that doesn't make a good compliment. But acknowledging voluntary choices and effort, that's where it's at.

I just saw a video of yours and was awestruck, but I’m non-binary and thus freed from the hell of thinking fashion isn’t a thing. your hair was k-pop perfect

The more you struggle to live, the less you live. Give up the notion that you must be sure of what you are doing. Instead, surrender to what is real within you, for that alone is sure....you are above everything distressing.Spinoza

The more clearly you understand yourself and your emotions, the more you become a lover of what is.

I once told someone "nice shirt; I wear one just like it when I don't want to care how I look." It wasn't taken as a compliment, strangely.