There are weird conclusions and decisions people make that I can kind of understand, if not agree with. I can see a thought process, even if it's based on bad assumptions. Then there are the weird conclusions and decisions people make that leave me wondering, wtf? This is one of those. /
I stopped wearing my Tom Petty shirt in public, one I got from a concert at the Hollywood Bowl, bc it became an exercise in subjecting myself to pop quizzes by men (once at the post office) about albums/band members. They get to just enjoy music, but I have to become an encyclopedia of minutiae.