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When we are told not to speak ill of the dead, it is the continuation of the whitewashing - turning the cruel into the eccentric or the avuncular - allowing their cruelty to go unspoken of for the purpose of “manners” that they didn’t demonstrate in their lives as they happily dehumanised

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I've been saying this all day. Widdicombe was a vile human being. Her apparent murder makes her no less vile. Irma Grese was "young" and "pretty". She was still a monster.

You'll have noticed these 'nil nisi bonum' larks are the same ones who go "how can you say that? They're still alive. They might hear you". Anyway, my argument to these lads is that I'm not speaking ill of the dead as such: I'm speaking ill of YOU, by mocking the dead evil person you like.

Also, there are classic examples of where we speak ill of the dead. Im not sure where the line lies on that social contract, although I am sure having commited genocide seems to be well past it.

Then I’d like to take this opportunity to recommend a podcast called Respect The Dead because they pick the worst people you can think of and give them the opposite of respect.

If you can't speak ill of someone when they're alive for fear of libel, and can't speak ill of someone when they die because it's rude, then when can you speak ill of someone? When you have a broadsheet column?

Looking just at comedians, Tony Hancock - tragically- 44 (pills and vodka), Eric Morecambe 58, Sid James 62 and Tommy Cooper 63 - both heart attacks on stage. The one that really gets me is Yootha Joyce. Drank herself to death at 53.

I am disgusted those to find people sneering at this horrible horrible horrible person because she was fat and ugly. That is not the point and it is simple misogyny. People need to damn well do better. All I hear when they talk about her being ugly is the sniggering of the bullies at school.

I won't speak ill of the dead but only last week I thought about Anne Widdicombe and ruminated on what a despicable stain on UK politics she was. Funny how things pan out

Totally agree. I've written several times here that I really don't care how she died. She's not worthy of that level of respect from me, a member of a community she tried her utmost to wipe out.

I just stop mentioning them. Let them properly die and the memory of them fade away into the, "Who? Oh yeah, forgot about her" section of the social brain.