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the sweetest trans girl you've ever met will be like you can date me but first you have to defeat the 300 evil things my mom said to me to make me feel unlovable

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Wow, I don't have any mommy trauma! My mom never once said "you never would have gotten cancer if you'd changed your diet when I told you to", that would be ridiculous 💁‍♀️

she actually gets along quite well with her 7 seven deadly exes. turns out they're all in a polycule and she invited u to join them for dinner on friday,,

by the way, those that you choose to surround yourself with really do love you and mean all those nice things they say to you every day,, just thought u should know because you're very lovable 💜

the more positivity we have in our lives the better, no one should have to deal with someone putting them down, even themselves <3

anything from school is considered the "Dark Ages" and we must somehow progress forward from those times, however hard it may seem,,, i feel u

don't worry because the bad stuff is behind us and now we just have only good things in our ears to look forward to <3

yeah everyone tells me my tooth gap is cute but mom keeps telling me i need to get it ocrrected and sometimes i catch myself being super self conscious baout it even though no one except mom dislieks it

it's crazy how moms can do more damage to our self-esteem than even ourselves,,, trust those closer to you, not someone who just keeps dragging you down 🥺💜

the difficulty is non linear at least,, it gets easier with each one but yeah it's kinda bullshit how much you have to dig through to get to the good stuff,,, it's well worth it though.

I recently learned that RSD isn't necessarily associated with bad parenting, but inconsistent parenting. The explanation for why mommy hugs me a lot sometimes, ignores me sometimes and yells at me other times with no explanation must be that I am inherently awful.

We deserved better. But it won't always be there to haunt us. We'll move on and be happy. Therapy though, lots of that is needed. I know I need it at least