Momento Vivere

Momento Vivere

@behindthefrequency.bsky.social

"Would have a beer with" and "would trust with a puppy" vibes. He/They Raleigh, NC Classic Rock | MST3K | Kindness Star Trek | Starfleet Class of 2252 AuDHD | MDD | GAD | CPTSD Professional Executive Dysfunction

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I'm sorry I seem so normal 99% of the time, but I assure you I'm struggling the entire time just trying to not feel like I'm being judged, hated, observed, perceived, criticized, failing, or weird. My cat has no answers. This is level one autism. We die sooner than peers for every reason.

The sentiment about people needed to vote this year has changed remarkably since I started paying attention 20 years ago. There is this idea that politicians should or will always do the right thing, and this cynicism knowing they won't. People move through convos now advocating voting.

There's this attitude that government is ineffective, corrupt, and bloated. It is and isn't those things because the government isn't just one thing. Harm reduction is real. No matter what a leftist tells you, it's necessary. The nazis have been pushing for 60 years to wreck what worked for.

Now we fight back. It doesn't end at voting. We don't just put people into office and go back to the house. We create blocs, organize, leverage our power as citizens and workers to get the changes made we need. Politics isn't a spectator sport, it's peoples' lives.

Addiction's not a sin. Relapse is not a sin. I'm an ex-smoker. It took me 5-6x until I completely stopped. You are worth trying again. Failure to quit isn't a flaw, it is life. You have to deal with dozens of stressors and reasons to relapse in the face of figuring out how to stop. Keep trying.

My mom sent me a pastor who I'm sure can remember when his family got radio on a podcast explaining James Dobson's idea on how we view ourselves and it's Cowley's c.1902 Looking Glass Theory of Self. Do these evangelical pastors actually have an original idea?

Started a #Triangle #AuDHD Discord! Participation isn't required. Here you can Infodump or ask clarifying questions, like, "wtf is this person doing? am I right or am wrong? my God, what have I done?" We'll also start building community IRL. 🫶🏻✊🏻🖖🏻 #Raleigh #Durham #Wake #Cary #NC discord.gg/dgHhGP865

discord.ggJoin the Triangle AuDHD Discord Server!This server is for people in the Raleigh/Durham/Chapel Hill and surrounding areas who are diagnosed with AuDHD, so we can build community and support each other. We're level one support needs, after a...

Remember that federal domestic spending is government works programs. For SNAP (managed by the US Dept of Agriculture), yes, families and people may get $300/month for groceries, but the majority of that money is spent on items that came from US farms.

Hey, I'm all for people having housing, but individual standing units are much less efficient than a dormitory, hotel, or out of the 600,000 homeless people in the USA there 16 million unoccupied, livable houses.

I've been told the Dean had to schedule another meeting with that Department.

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People really don't know that if a Dean fires a Department Head that the Dean should meet with the department faculty and staff. It's standard across all sectors.

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Ginny is the most best and perfect girl. I love her little face so much. And! Someone has enquired about her! Cross everything! For a cat who was feral and very sad, she's getting the softest best ending regardless.

We need more autism research and programs than only children and people with intellectual disabilities. Some of us suffer as Level One Support Needs as "no support gets." It's deceptive because we seem 99% normal, but there are things a home health aide can help with, but we can't access them.

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Cocoa has found a small child to rub his belly and they were BOTH very happy with this situation. I've had my nephews all weekend and it has been so nice to hang out with them.

I think it's also a travesty when you see someone in a dating website that you would like to date, but you have a several similar interests and would legit be cool with making a friend. Like, if you're gonna use "looking for love in Alderaan places" I would like to read a book with you in the room.

Good leaders tell their employees this and reinforce it by living it: • You have to tell me things, sometimes even if you think I know it. • You have to not mind telling me things. • You have to accept I'll hear you completely out and still do it my way.

And all that is now and all that is gone And all that's to come and everything under the sun is in tune But the sun is eclipsed by the moon "There is no dark side of the moon. As a matter of fact, it's all dark."

If you go vote at NC State at the Western Blvd Business Center, this is the building. The entry door is right above where you see the white car. They are staffed by a professional group of volunteers from all backgrounds. There was even and English dude.