Chris Does Fundraising

Chris Does Fundraising

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34 | Interests include: Men, Marathons, CrossFit(ish), Plants, Parks and Rec, LGBTQ+ history, and Pokemon. He/him

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So I'm here to provide some discourse to the internet... I really don't try to kink shame as everyone has different things that work for them. I try to respect the communities that are built through different kinks and the history behind so much of kink associated with the gay rights movement.

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I'm sure someone is going to come at me with the "it could be a medical situation". I assure you, it wasn't. The level on which this man's odor (and his friend groups) permeated through an outdoor space exceeded what could be deemed "medical".

I am about to go to Folsom for the first time, and I know that I will be exposed to different things outside of my comfort level, but I'm going in knowing what I am going to experience there. I will be in a different headspace versus being blindsided on a casual Sunday afternoon.

So I'm here to provide some discourse to the internet... I really don't try to kink shame as everyone has different things that work for them. I try to respect the communities that are built through different kinks and the history behind so much of kink associated with the gay rights movement.

I understand that the musky smell or body odor works for some people, but if you are going to be in a crowded gay space (or any space tbh) where that kink isnt the focal point, I think you have crossed a line. You are taking away the consent of others that are not wanting to participate in your kink

Like I truly can't escape the imposter syndrome. I have to tell myself that I do in fact know what I'm doing, that I am in fact doing it well, and that other people want my opinion on things because they respect me and my process.