DKaye

DKaye

@dkhodson.bsky.social

Currently in my Wintering Season. Religion and politics have cost me community. I'm an avid reader, a mostly unpublished writer, a loose-leaf tea/gong fu cha aficionado, American liberal ("because Jesus"). Oh. And a potty-mouth -especially since 11/5/2024.

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I was happy to discover this platform several months ago but abandoned it. (My spirit was breaking a little more every day and I had to limit my angst intake.) I now realize what others seem to know intuitively: the way through this anger and anxiety and soul-shocking ordeal is with community.

I'm easily sixth-generation American. Probably more. Yet I don't feel American anymore. Every day, I'm screaming on the inside and it's only been a week. 😭

My son lives in Sweden and I'm in the US. Paper star lanterns in windows at Yul is a Swedish tradition, so I hang one to shorten the miles between us.

"The Way of Tea is not some somber religious ceremony. . . . Drinking tea with Tao is about letting go of all our stuff and just being ourselves as we really are, in our true nature . . . [in] harmony with Nature itself . . . " The Way of Tea by Aaron Fisher

Trump's new proposed tariffs on Canada and Mexico would raise the cost of: -vegetables (69% comes from Mexico) -fruits (51% comes from Mexico) -gas (crude oil from Canada) -construction (lumber from Canada; cement, metals, machinery, and other building material from both Canada and Mexico).

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What can you do now that will be a blessing to others regardless of what happens in Washington over the next four years? How can you, to borrow the words of W. H. Auden, “love your crooked neighbor / With your crooked heart”?

THEM: Why in the world did you move from Florida to Ohio? ME: Lots of reasons but mostly so I won't have to shave my legs in winter. #art #watercolor #paulclarktutorial

The problem with being a conscious species is that we know how to lie, how to create a version of our history that never existed, and to create false memories of the parents we wanted instead of the ones we had. We're a species masquerading as fucking brilliant when really we're just fucking broken.

Work and public places should rethink bathroom design. Why are there two separate rooms with eight stalls and four sinks each? Where I work, there are bathroom "hallways" with 6 or 8 or 10 toilet-and-sink private rooms with nice heavy doors to the floor. No gender signs. Everyone is happy.

I know it's exhausting, but we can't throw up our hands and say "no more news! I can't take it anymore!" Have we learned nothing? Our surrender is exactly what they want!

The world is broken but not irreparable. The Japanese art of kintsugi repairs broken pottery with gold, believing there is beauty in healed imperfections. #watercolor #art #dkhoriginal

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Usually I post this at Easter, but it's a great New Year's recipe (and Thanksgiving, I guess, if you don't like turkey).

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Adjust notifications before sending this one out. So. Many. Likes.