Victoria πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ

Victoria πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ

@victoria.efertone.me

Software Engineer, Parent, Tabletop Fan (ttrpg too), long term Linux user, fight for human rights with focus on LGBTQ+. If I don't get a joke or a reference, please excuse me, ASD has some drawbacks. Let me know in a civil way so I can learn. Thank you :)

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They said tomorrow I can stand up and walk. I'm so happy. The numbness started to fade from that part and. the feeling that I don't feel anything hanging there is just. It's hard to describe. I don't feel something is missing, but I don't feel something is there. That missing noise is calming, quiet

I may or may not have overbooked my capacity. Having multiple NGOs is good, as long as they are not using the same calendar cycle. When you are part of multiple NGOs in the same sector, you end up doing almost nothing for half the year, and then you're booked 24 hours a day. Be careful.

It's not easy to be a pansexual and being a poly person. I love, truly love some people, yet I know I can not get closer. I still want the best for them, which means I want them to be happy, and I feel happy to be with them even for a walk or an online chat, yet I know that's most I can get.

It's hard because... I don't even know. I don't feel pain mental stress not getting closer to them. I would even say I feel happy whenever they share they met with someone, or they are happy for something. I feel good when I can see them smile, when I can hear them happy.

On the other hand, when I see them sad, when I see them unhappy, when I hear their complains about being alone. I know I can't just walk up and hug them, and kiss them, and say "all be good" because that's not what they want and deserve. Sometimes I literally just want to go and hug them for hours.

1/4 For weeks now, actually make that two weeks, I've been drowning in "why the hell hasn't anyone resigned yet" type news, and today I thought nothing interesting would come up, then someone shared an article. Though I also read the SzijjΓ‘rtΓ³ kiss Iran story today, so two in one day again.

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3/4 The whole thing is procured through a middleman company tied to RogΓ‘n's people, multiplying the license costs. They also spent tens of billions of forints on a useless homegrown system, then kept the same company as middleman anyway. Because of course, why wouldn't they.

1/4 For weeks now, actually make that two weeks, I've been drowning in "why the hell hasn't anyone resigned yet" type news, and today I thought nothing interesting would come up, then someone shared an article. Though I also read the SzijjΓ‘rtΓ³ kiss Iran story today, so two in one day again.

2/4 Hungarian intelligence has been using an Israeli mass surveillance tool (Webloc) for years, tracking where you go via your phone's ad data, without you knowing. First confirmed EU country, likely illegal under GDPR. The data protection authority will probably do nothing, as usual.

Another good one: "[...] it would have been a static writhing once again in early spring, not just in the middle of summer." (Original: "[...] egy statikus vonaglΓ‘s lett volna immΓ‘ron ΓΊjra tavasz elejΓ©n is, nem csak a nyΓ‘r kΓΆzepΓ©n.") So, this is apparently a "static writhing."

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[7/8 translation] Prizma is challenging the police decision at the KΓΊria (Hungary's Supreme Court). Legal support comes from Amnesty International Hungary, HΓ‘ttΓ©r Society, Hungarian Helsinki Committee, and TASZ. If the KΓΊria upholds the ban, there will be no Trans Pride in Hungary this year.

[8/8 translation] Attorney Zsolt Szekeres: "The KΓΊria must now rule on a protest ban for the first time since criminal judges referred the regulation to the Constitutional Court over its unconstitutionality. We trust the KΓΊria will also recognize the unlawfulness of this regulation."

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[1/8 translation]πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ March 31 is International Transgender Visibility Day β€” a day for trans people to be seen not only in tragedy, but simply because they exist and have lives.Prizma KΓΆzΓΆssΓ©g planned a peaceful, silent demonstration in Budapest to mark it. 🧡

So, now I have the one... With a lot of meaning and symbolism behind it. Every single part of this has a specific meaning. I'm happy about it. Just a few: no rose on b612, the fox wears the little prince's scarf while looking up to the asteroid, the whole shape of the two object... Everything :)

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Update from Kazakhstan: authorities have advanced criminal proceedings against human rights defender Zhanar Sekerbayeva. The move raises concerns about targeting outspoken community organisers and reflects a growing trend of criminalising LGBTI activism across the region.

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Family D&D marathon in progress! Moving from Starport to a full one-shot for KornΓ©l’s first time. We’re deep into a Winter Festival quest and taking a quick breather before the finale. Party: Wizard, Ranger, Fighter, and me behind the screen. Love seeing the whole family play together! #DnD #TTRPG

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Despair posting 1 i recently had a mental breakdown so ill be making a few despair comics to get it out of my system, the only way i really know how. i'll be fine.. probably.

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