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1/ So many thoughts on this, but the tl;dr is that these gatekeeping dweebs can go screw themselves with a +5 Vorpal Longsword. Dungeons and Dragons and tabletop roleplaying games more generally are wonderful, and it's brilliant that more people are getting to experience them.

Jamie Smart@jamiesmart.bsky.social

A game where you can do anything and they’re mad that people are doing anything.

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The Telegraph is absolutely the sort of paper that would have run those moral panic stories about how evil and dangerous to young minds D&D is in the 80s. I'm sure there must be some to dig out.

Exactly this - growing up I could count the number of other people playing rpgs on one hand. I would have loved to have more people interested in playing!

Interesting review of what the article has as evidence of this. Mostly quotes taken out of context and low level social media accounts. bsky.app/profile/mich...

Michael Hobbes@michaelhobbes.bsky.social

Even by the standards of anti-woke journalism this is lazy dreck. The first piece of "evidence" that older gamers are mad about wokeness is a random Reddit comment — that isn't a complaint about wokeness. www.telegraph.co.uk/tv/2025/11/2...

All the new vibes and people have basically enriched the hobby and finally put an end to the previously perennial and tedious raft of "RPGs are dying out" arguments that were ubiquitous. Old grogs can continue to have an embarrassment of riches in terms of rpgs due to the vast cohort interested now.

And 100x more people now taking up tennis meaning there's a metric funk ton more tennis clubs and people to play with, and shops selling things I want related to my hobby etc. etc.

2/ The hardest part of most nerdy hobbies is finding enough people in your area to enjoy them with. More interest means more players means more games means more fun. It also means you can find people who want to play the game the way you enjoy. This brings us to:

3/ There is no correct way to play. Dungeons and Dragons can be a played as a hardcore fantasy combat game, a high concept political drama, a romance story, a comedy improv game. The best way to play is the way your group likes. You don't get to tell people they're doing it wrong.

4/ I will never understand why long term fans of things feel entitled to gatekeep. You've been playing for 20 years? Congratulations. No one cares. Doing a thing you enjoy isn't some hardship worthy of laurels or authority. You should be welcoming new players, not inventing hierarchicies.

5/ While we're on the subject - you're all posting about the male loneliness epidemic and then turning around and complaining when Netflix and Critical Role open your hobby to thousands of new people? Are you bruised in the brain? Take a shower and run a fucking one-shot. Make a friend!