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I haven't been active on socials in a while, because my dad recently passed away and I have been having a tremendous hard time. Ever since his cancer diagnosis about half a year ago, nothing has felt right. I pretty much just don't know what do do with myself atm.

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I’m so sorry, it’s *so* tough and discombobulating. This was also my 2023 with Mum. I was lucky enough to be able to take 9 months supported by my wife & others to expect nothing of myself; I learned how to mourn, then connected with friends, then nurtured my interests. 1/

Letting go of expectations I (& well-wishing others) imposed on me was very hard, but I feel so much richer for the journey. In a very real way I see it as the last direct lesson she helped me with 🖤 Whatever your journey I hope you gain in experiences and connection as you work through your loss 🖤