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Warum haben Männer solche Angst davor, zu Unrecht beschuldigt zu werden? Bleib einfach zu Hause, geh nicht alleine aus, trink keinen Alkohol, flirte nicht, sei nicht zu freundlich, zieh dich zurückhaltend an, achte darauf, mit wem du zusammen bist, meide Partys, steig nicht zu Fremden ins Auto, 1/2

… geh nicht alleine nach Hause, bring dich nicht in „riskante Situationen“, sei nicht alleine mit jemandem, den du kaum kennst, und überlege dir, wie dein Verhalten wahrgenommen werden könnte. Ich hoffe, das hilft dir weiter. MEINE STIMME: MEINE ENTSCHEIDUNG @rhutabhayga.bsky.social 2/2

If only burglars would stay at home and watch TV instead, we wouldn't have to lock our homes at night. Unfortunately that is just wishful thinking, so we had best take sensible precautions.

I do all that sh!t. It’s f@ckin’ awesome. Highly recommend it in 2026. And the world outside can take a long hard suck on my tight white ass. And maybe the portrait you’re trying to paint isn’t the picture you’re hoping to make with that wide, wide brush. But you do you. With the brush even 😉

I am a hermit... you pretty much described my life style... Now please explain to me why women spend billions on Make-up, Hair and clothing to accentuate their looks.... and then we can have a nice polite discussion about reality... The Ritual of flashing colors and plumage is to attract a mate..

Not just that: It's also about establishing a pecking order among women, for example, or about comfort. Any given human behaviour can have multiple causes, with different reasons applying at different times even for the same person - take the fact of your own self-isolation as an example.

I absolutely agree COMFORT is a key issue in everyone life...a necessity for survival.. As an Autistic I have 70 years dealing with that issue.. I do not understand why women would indoctrinate their children that becoming a shiny object will make them comfortable.. Marlago Face is a prime ( More)

example.. why Breast augmentation? It was not always so.. My Native ancestors; the women didn't dress-UP.. they were described as dowdy.. The Men dressed up: called "Preening" by native women.. to attract a Mate.. See the inversion in culture.. My ancestors were Matriarchal..Abuse is acculturation

its much easier than you thing: The Problem is acculturation... a large swath of men are trained from birth to be abusers... they are Infants in adult bodies. and like any infant with the feeling they have "power"...they see a shiny object and they want to possess that object..." Mine Mine Mine"..

No..but you have to understand who you are dealing with Abusers are infantile: They have the power of the 2 years old..they see shiny & they want it.. " Mine Mine Mine".. We have an acculturation problem..they cannot see the difference between rape and sex with a mate.. its lack of brain development

read what was posted... don't inject your beliefs into the information provided... at No point did i imply any license... I was explaining the reality... why are people refusing to accept that our culture is fucked up... & we need a cultural change???? instead they want to whine not fix the problem

Why are men “ falsely accused” when women “ shouldn’t have put themselves in that situation”? Is the situation ”men don’t need to be respectful, moral, chivalrous and thoughtful in this new world”? Fuck that.

Unfortunately, this is the situation faced by women who bear the entire mental and physical burden of trying to escape male aggression.

Pro tip: any man who's scared of being falsely accused is either a rapist or does things that lead to rape I've had a lot of sex. I've never once been accuse or worried about being abuse of anything cuz I treat people like humans that need to give consent

Males are only fit to work in the home, cannot be trusted with money or property, and all in all must be treated like the fcking children they are. I GUARANTEE sh*t would get much, MUCH better in the u.s. were we to pass these laws.

🇨🇦 not sure I understand the blurb but: Change “why are men so afraid” to “why are women so afraid” … then the rest of the text explains what women face all the time.

We are so fucking done with misogyny, violence, rape, abuse... watch women fight back harder, harsher. We will fix the lenient courts that put abusers back on the street with the rest of us. No mercy for pedos, no mercy for abusers of any type. SO DONE, all of us are so done.

Ok that's about women, but as a falsely accused man, that's fucked up. I've been falsely accused as it's no joke. I haven't been in a relationship for almost 20 years now. I can't trust people.

I’ve never worried about it. Partly because I’m civilized. Second because if I were ever to mistreat a woman my sister would beat menand my guys friends would shun me. Third because why? It’s only fun if everybody’s happy. False accusations do happen. But that’s no what they are afraid of.

Recently read (and posted) a wonder piece from a guy that basically said, empower the woman in decisions and you'll never have to fear false accusations.

I have worried because my mom falsely accused my dad of raping me as a child, which he hadn't. She was molesting me for years though. She went to her grave with the reputation of being a good mom who only ever did her best. So maybe my personal experiences skew things a tad.

Thanks. It's an old wound, but it's there. I mention it on here because I think it's important to denounce sexual abuse regardless of who commits it, and stories like mine are seldom shared - much less reported. One hopes allyship can be a two way street.

No, not really. I didn't talk to anyone about it until I was well into my 30s, and he and I weren't very close until my mother died. I don't know if I wanna open that can of worms to him. It hurt him deeply to be accused of hurting me like that. Not sure I wanna reopen that subject.

A lot of decent men were already doing that. But they're not the ones women want or are even available to women now because they have been told they aren't wanted in the dating pool. Look at the history of dating advice for men to be more alpha. Where we are now was a long time coming.

At what point do we admit those men were raised by the woman you claim to be holier than thou. As if the op wasn't stupid enough adding to it takes a special kind ignorant bigoted trump supporter mentality. That's what y'all choose. To live in that bigotry while pretending to fight it. It's pathetic

Women were falsely accused of being Witches, tortured , drowned and burned for centuries. If some men are innocent of the charges but lose their careers ? Well that’s tough , what comes around goes around.

I knew girls who were locked up in mental wards for the "crime" of having sex with their boyfriends--especially if the girl was white and the boyfriend POC. They used to call it being a "status offender" because the girls weren't behaving the way middle class girls were expected to.

Let's not even get started on the girls who were sent away to maternity homes for daring to get pregnant when abortions were totally illegal. Their babies taken from them regardless of their wishes. I swear, men don't think women are fully human, we're like naughty pets in their minds.

IF some men... big "IF"..... because that has not happened so far.... even to the ones who are guilty of sexual assault.

I’m trying my best to be a bit objective, in the same way I believe in the death sentence for some crimes even though an innocent person may be put to death . That’s collateral damage.

Great read. ALL women have stories like that, close calls and sadly, abuse. ALL women. I think we all need to share our stories instead of hiding them in shame. #MeToo started to do that but people have already forgotten.

I would add one more item to that list - don't think that 'friends' of the opposite sex are going to have your back no matter how long you've known them or how solid you thought your friendship was. You're just asking for it if you put yourself in a vulnerable situation with a 'friend'.

Hey ! I'm doing all of that, being an introvert, yet, having parasite thoughts, I still think about "what if this is a trap and I end up killed ?" AND "what if this is a trap and I end up falsely accused ?". And if she is 5 minutes late "what if something happened to her ?" Among many others…

Honestly, the solution is for men to step up and stop/interrupt/call out jokes, behaviors, attitudes, etc. in other men. That's the hard part. When men make it UN ok for other men to behave that way, we can make progress. But yes, society right now is messed up.

I'm all for it. But as the place where I interact with real people is mostly "work", and as "work" is a place with 75% female workforce, I rarely have the occasion to regulate other men behavior. And when I hear women saying atrociously misogynistic things against others, I don't know what to do.

Here's an example: at a party, the host said something pretty inappropriate to a friend's girlfriend, in front of him. The friend said nothing, when he could have said "dude!" It's not your job to regulate women. We also have work to do. Focus on the men, and the tiny ways they disrespect women.

By the way, it puzzles me that, in those kind of situations where men should be acting, they don't. Because if there is one thing that our patriarcal culture has hammered in my childhood, it's the phantasm of the knight in shining armor saving the damsel in distress. Seriously guys, WTF ?

Keep your keys in your hand when you walk through a parking lot, keep glancing around as you walk, check the back seat before you get in and lock the doors as soon you you get in. Keeps you from being accused of anything. Stay safe out there boys!

If they want to be safe they should also travel with a woman to protect them. Also take a woman to your doctor appointments. The doctors treat you better if you have a witness.

Why do men assume that women are going around falsely accusing men? It happens rarely. So maybe don’t stay home bebatse of this, rather stay home because you will probably be hit by lightning. Posts like this are harmful because it sounds like false accusations are epidemic.

Most women have been sexually assaulted and harassed. So I just don’t see the humour in this. I checked your profile, you are obviously intelligent and moral. But maybe skip memes like this one.

If you see or hear your fellow males doing something shady, don't let it slide. Say something, or do something. Silence is often compliance and even encouragement. You guys usually only listen to each other.

I don't hang out with people that do shady shit. I have very strong feelings about people bullying or picking on the weak, and it has turned into a thing a couple times. I'm not sure what I would do if I caught someone in the act, but I'm damn sure I wouldn't ignore it.

I recently posted something from a guy who basically said empower women with all decisions. He said he was hideous and recommended that all men operate from the idea that they themselves are, too. Women can tell when "hello" is friendly or the start of a harassment session. Trust me on this.

I don't think self loathing is a good way to do anything. Meanwhile, I've taken ownership of my own needs, I don't expect anyone else to deal with it. Relationships in this country are toxic as fuck, I've opted out.

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It's weird. I spent many years working closely alongside women, even as a supervisor, and never had a problem. It's almost like practically no woman has any interest in levying false accusations. Crazy, right? Turns out, when you treat women like people, they appreciate it.

Although a few so called liberal males feel that all of us are being labeled as rapists and pedos by traumatized women? I haven't notice many of my gender actually feeling attacked. Too often though, this satire highlights truth for too many women. I hate that truth. But, I love this satire!

#AltText why are men so afraid of being falsely accused? just stay home, don't go out alone, don't drink, don't flirt, don't be too friendly, dress modestly, watch who you're around, avoid parties, don't get into cars with strangers, don't walk home alone, don't put yourself in "risky situations,"

I get that this is role-reversal to prove a point, but a lot of men are genuinely starting to live that way, and then being shit on by society for not living up to their assigned responsibilities.

Kind of like what women experience when despite doing everything they're told, are still blamed if they get hurt. It doesn't make it right. But men can't just disappear. They have to call out other men who practice misogyny, wherever it may be. That's the hard part.

Also, don’t go out at night, walk in pairs if you do. Don’t answer the door unless you know who is coming or just keep your house locked. Always have your emergency exits ready, your speed dial set, and always tell a family or friend where you’re going and what time you’re coming home.

being falsely accused is one of the worst experiences in life. you cant prove what you didnt do but thats exactly what people what you to try to do. its a losing game. not just consent. fraud, cheating, decision-making any false accusation is a quagmire.

you are talking about the law. i'm just talking about people making accusations. yes accusations dont do well in court.

I know the post is sarcasm, but if a 250-pound 44-year-old bald man can get sexually assaulted, anyone can. That was me ten years ago. Men are not as safe as they think they are. Getting falsely accused of rape is also terrible in my experience. I'll work with anyone of any gender to end rape.