Harmony. | Collar of Worlds

Harmony. | Collar of Worlds

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The thing that controls, even if it's also not what does the controlling. 18+. Most pronouns work. Author of The Place Where We Can Stop Running, a Human Domestication Guide novel: https://archiveofourown.org/works/58402522 AD: @cayenaleva.bsky.social

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Skull Kid apologizes to you after Majora's Leopard eats his face, too. (Fitting, for a mask.) He learns an important lesson the hard way: Those who seek to claim, or reclaim, power will sacrifice those who helped them at a moment's notice if they are no longer necessary to provide material support.

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What strikes me most about Majora's Mask is that you cannot stop the bad thing from happening. You have two options: Buy time, and find someone to help. The four giants prevent the moon from destroying Termina. You just call for them.

The way Majora's Mask rewired my brain is that it taught me that the biggest problems cannot be solved alone, and trying is futile. They must be solved together, with community, with solidarity, with compassion and dedication to uplifting everyone.

I was bullied extensively from grades 4 through 8. My bullies were protected by the system; my attempts to fight back were seen as the "instigations". My parents were pretty useless; their support was announcing their support for me.

Majora's Mask came out at the very end of this period, right after my best friend suddenly turned on me and became my worst bully after falling in with the wrong crowd. I think you can see why it had an effect on me.

Some of these articles read like Cybertruck owners fawning about how their car is falling apart but they always end with this weird praise. "LLM-generated code is causing 'slopageddon' because so many are submitting fraudulent PRs (but of course it still has its place and most people use it)"

For a while, I thought SOPHIE's "Infatuation" had the lyric "Who are you deep down (How would I know?)" (It's actually "I wanna know") and especially given other questions of identity in Oil Of Every Pearl's Un-Insides I honestly think that reading adds to the album.

Sophia_Nyx 🐰@sophianyx.bsky.social

Name your fav mondegreen or misheard lyric.

The point about making sure low-engagement folks aren't left behind is really important and I'm going to be thinking about it for a while. I really like how that lets the community meet people where they are.

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I recently learned a term for A: Loopholism. It refers to someone finding any pretense necessary to continue believing what they already believe. Known cognitive error in brains.

The Lexorcist@lexidarlingxoxo.bsky.social

when I cite lists like this at liberals they either A. demand a source for each point that explicitly says exactly these things because they refuse to try to read between the lines, then nitpick every source they are provided or B. block me instantly so many people just refuse to believe us.

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you know that kwame ture quote about how nonviolence only works as a strategy when your opponent has a conscience? something similar at play with pointing out your opponent's hypocrisy. that only works if your opponent agrees that he's playing a word game not prosecuting a holy war

My sister coordinates events and filming at a major location in my city. She's worked with Netflix. She is big-league. I would be on the floor in the fetal position in three days, max.

Bethany Albertson@albertsonb2.bsky.social

Thought experiment- if you were suddenly appointed to do your sibling’s job, how badly would you suck at it?

As a reminder, the reason we think this is because the studies stopped after two or three years. The data after that is far spottier. Has nothing to do with the material conditions of transness but the current limits of data collection.

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...My brain is making a wild correspondence to a psychoanalysis book I'm reading.

mtsw@mtsw.bsky.social

Probably the most common form of this for people in my generation is having awareness of pop culture stuff from a Simpsons parody and only seeing the actual thing later. e.g. I think about 60% of the scenes in CITIZEN KANE received 1:1 Simpsons parodies bsky.app/profile/priz...

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I think how I feel about Doonesbury, which I absolutely read and understood about a third of as a kid, is that it has this weird quality that even understanding what Iran-Contra was doesn't fully shake. A kind of surrealism hidden in ripped-from-the-headlines jokes. I still can't explain that part.

...My brain is making a wild correspondence to a psychoanalysis book I'm reading.

mtsw@mtsw.bsky.social

Probably the most common form of this for people in my generation is having awareness of pop culture stuff from a Simpsons parody and only seeing the actual thing later. e.g. I think about 60% of the scenes in CITIZEN KANE received 1:1 Simpsons parodies bsky.app/profile/priz...

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The book also mentions that these theory formations are both inevitable —we have to make sense of the world somehow —and also frequently maladaptive in some way, and the ego tends to not want to let go of these maladaptive frameworks even when it's clear they don't work for us.

This is why the book argues that finding new frameworks must happen *without the ego's consent* (hence the title), and that we have to force it to shatter in order to rebuild them. Crucially, the 'grit', being unknowable, doesn't get a more accurate explanation, just one that works better for us.

...My brain is making a wild correspondence to a psychoanalysis book I'm reading.

mtsw@mtsw.bsky.social

Probably the most common form of this for people in my generation is having awareness of pop culture stuff from a Simpsons parody and only seeing the actual thing later. e.g. I think about 60% of the scenes in CITIZEN KANE received 1:1 Simpsons parodies bsky.app/profile/priz...

So, okay, in Avgi Saketopoulou's book Sexuality Beyond Consent, she describes a model of childhood development in which things happen to us as children that we do not understand, and the ego, whose role is explanation, builds a theory around it like a pearl around a piece of grit.

Her point was about things that are unknowable, things our parents do that even they don't know the motivations of, as all people do things we can't entirely explain (or more commonly, explain post hoc). But I think it's applicable here, too.

That my sub main character got bad-ended because she ended up with a switch and not a dom. Shout out to it, though, I got another half a million words out of the premise specifically rebuking it.

S R Jones @aegisimmemorial.bsky.social

If you see this, please tell me the worst/most baffling bit of creative feedback you've ever recieved. Mine is still the time somebody told me my aliens had names that were too alien. Not that they were unpronounceable, just that they didn't sound enough like human names.

In Sexuality Beyond Consent, the author forwards a theory that this basically happens in childhood: Something happens we can't explain at the time, our ego wraps an interpretation around it, and then later something disrupts that interpretation to recontextualize it.

Alec S // Renegade Sector Games@renegadesector.bsky.social

I'm a big fan of media analysis but sometimes the best form of media analysis is letting a piece of art sit with you, making you feel weird in a way you can't understand or explain, until one day you have a life experience and you remember the piece of art and you realize that you understand it now

Something I've been sitting with is that the book claims that there is no single true interpretation, only ones that are more and less useful to us. So the late realization about a piece of art is not us understanding it better but finding more and better ways to integrate it into our frameworks.

I think that's a cool way to look at art, at this almost mystical object that nobody truly understands, not even its creators. Spells cast upon the world that warp as they interface with the audience, and warp them in turn.

Okay a lot of the replies are like, the poster's subjective 'best' music, which is a fine way of going about it, But for me, to *explain* what music is and why we're all fixated on it, I'd do Mozart 's variations on Ah Vous Dirai-Je, Maman (Twinkle Twinkle Little Star). https://youtu.be/hCKBl-TpRzc