Fin Turner [zie/zir]

Fin Turner [zie/zir]

@firinel.bsky.social

queer/trans, polyam, AuDHD, spoonie; parent of same artist, educator, & instigator vegan-ish, Burner ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ฅ๐˜ธ๐˜ณ ๐˜ค๐˜บ๐˜ฎ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ฆ๐˜จ ๐˜ข๐˜ค ๐˜บ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฃ๐˜บ๐˜ธ ๐˜บ๐˜ฏ ๐˜‹๐˜ฆ ๐˜Š๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ง๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฏ๐˜ช๐˜ข; ๐˜ณ๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜บ๐˜ณ ๐˜ถ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ

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I was racking my brain trying to rememberโ€” but the only one I recall being traumatised by is โ€œCatโ€™s Eyeโ€, so I look it up & Iโ€™d have been ~5. Thatโ€™s probably the earliest then. I grew up to love both cats & King.

Patrick Klepek@patrickklepek.bsky.social

Do you remember what *your* first R-rated movie was? I finally asked my mom (I couldn't remember), and she told me it was The Lost Boys when I was roughly the same age as my daughter (about 9). The movie traumatized her more than it did me, apparently

An ex partner (Saesneg who had a wee bit of Welsh) & I would use "dwi'n dy garu di" as a sort of code when we were out in public to mean "I love you & hope you've had a good time but I'm tapped out & need very much to leave now" - if someone caught it & asked we could just say "I love you" & aww.

Kid and I use the language generally more at home; sometimes when my migraines cause aphasia I can remember the word in Welsh faster than English. My most recent partner was very actively learning it for me though & ffwc, do I miss that/them.

Iโ€™m only quoting because I canโ€™t respondโ€ฆ and Iโ€™m genuinely confused as to why? It seems *polite* to attribute someoneโ€™s quote? To provide context?

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I just watched a Republican (I think Thune) say "but McConnell isn't the first to miss lots of work, Dems have too" -- it confuses me because my issue w/ absentee representatives is regardless of what party they're with; they're elected & paid to do a job.

There are a handful of creators I'd support if they were on Patreon vs Substack.

kottke.org@kottke.org

Hey, look at Substack promoting Andrew Tate as the #1 new bestseller. The company's amoral leadership & backers will platform anyone, even ludicrously toxic rapists & human traffickers.

Oh, I'm glad this made it to BS, I just saw it on Insta and wanted to rail. Let's get the most juvenile one out of the way: my friend group were cracking jokes like "are these numbers 'at one time' or?" or even "did they ask in front of their mums!?"

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But additionally, it's just a meaningless collection of incomparable "data" -- the youngest Gen Z are FOURTEEN. The average Baby Boomer is ~70; HMM which one do you think just had more TIME to have more partners!?

My previous health care company didn't have a patient portal. My current one does & I'm finding I enjoy reading the visit notes. The system is good w/ gender/pronouns & legal/preferred name, but individual providers' understanding/implementation differs in a way I find charming vs offensive.

Iโ€™ve an extremely long MRI w contrast very early tomorrow morning. I am anxious about it for a variety of reasons (I am not being very brave about it) like claustrophobia & sensitivity to loud sounds, general fear/anxiety about new places, etc. What the imaging might find.

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I was well into my thirties when I figured it out. But as a kid, I acted like a boy and refused to wear dresses etc, so it didn't really come as a surprise to anyone lol

โœจ๐Ÿ’œ king ๐Ÿ’œโœจ@king-reinhardt.bsky.social

I'm always so curious about when trans and nonbinary folks realized what they were. Like, my wife didn't realize she was genderfluid until well into her twenties, but I knew I wasn't a girl or a boy before I was even ten years old.

I've been so sensitive to stimulus that I'm wearing sunglasses in doors with the lights off, and Loops on under my noise-canceling headphones playing music. It had not occurred to me that I'd need to tell Kid that now was not a great time to paint their nails.

Excuse the terrible lighting, but the main piece is complete. Tomorrow I will figure out if the strap should be woven, braided, crocheted, or something else; make & attach that. Then I can get a good photo in the daylight!

The last thing you said to your pet is your 2028 campaign slogan: โ€œHello beautiful boy!โ€ โ€œWho told you that you could be so soft?!โ€ [[ chirp noise ]] โ€œI can see your big pink belly!โ€

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5 living authors you've read 5+ books each: @stephenking.bsky.social @jacquelinecarey.bsky.social @maggiestiefvater.bsky.social @nkjemisin.bsky.social @tamorapierce.bsky.social Goodness, I think they're all relatively unscathed at current (the 1st author who sprang to mind certainly is not)

Mary Holzman-Tweed@mareht.bsky.social

5 living authors you've read 5 or more books each- Guy Gavriel Kay Glen Cook Leanna Renee Hieber Louise Erdrich Diane Ackerman

Verify your age: I didn't grow up trusting police because I was alive when the Philadelphia police bombed a neighbourhood, and then allowed to to burn out of control, killing 5 children amongst others.

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I spoke to McConnell for a wee bit this morning. We had a substantive conversation about the education system, how authoritative Christian cults have lead to the downfall of critical thinking, and even a little bit on Culturally Responsive Teaching. I told him the nation sends thoughts & prayers.

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