Kate Sloan (she/her)

li’l introductory thread since a bunch of you folks just followed me (hi!): I’m Kate Sloan, a writer/podcaster specializing in sex, kink, dating & relationships. I’m a bi/queer cis femme woman from Toronto, and my pronouns are she/her. 👋🏻

NEW Dildorks episode: #502 Getting Off on the Right Foot thedildorks.com/episodes/get... Feet are one of the most commonly fetishized body parts, and yet foot fetishism still carries a surprising amount of stigma. This week, we discuss our experiences doing foot stuff.

interesting to see foot fetishists discussing their thoughts on A.I. porn www.reddit.com/r/FootFetish...

when you can’t stop thinking about pussy it’s called hypervagilance

my wife takes such good photos of me!!!

Sloan @katesloan.com dev and scan full spectrum

my chastity sub has a foot kink & I recently “made” her buy me a pair of sexy sandals & last night I referenced said sandals in dirty talk while doing a roleplay with another partner who also has a foot kink….. living my best life

NEW for premium subscribers: On having sex with people who've never had sex before katesloan.email/archive/on-h... Wrote about this question: If you were about to have sex with a virgin, would you want to know that?

he’s a man who listens very carefully to a woman so this makes sense

It’s so funny to me that there’s a porn subreddit called /r/MissionaryOnly

new phone = had to order a new Bailey Hikawa case 😊 😊 www.baileyhikawa.com/collections/...

today I turn 34 and a half, which means I’m halfway to 69 😎

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"men don't like short hair" "men don't like tattoos" "you'd be prettier if you lost weight" sir, let's get on the same page: I am not trying to fuck you

NEW for premium subscribers: On having sex with people who've never had sex before katesloan.email/archive/on-h... Wrote about this question: If you were about to have sex with a virgin, would you want to know that?

im so fuckin tired of this man im so fuckin tired of credit card companies and ai bros and old jackasses thinking they can decide what is right or not

whenever i read about the phenomenon of conservative men pursuing liberal women, i always wonder how much of it is a misogynist desire to ‘break’ those women, how much of it is that there are simply more women who are liberal, and how much of it is that liberal women are vastly better in bed

this made me think wistfully of the time I reported & wrote an entire story on the actual practicalities of what King Midas’s sex life could’ve been like, and then the publication killed the article even though they’d specifically commissioned it

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Here are some of our favourite queer horror films to enjoy this season. xtramagazine.com/video/queer-...

happy birthday to @puntrash.bsky.social, one of my favorite people to watch movies with!! & also a total sweetie who is always there for me! & is clever & kind & thoughtful & funny! ❤️ everyone say ‘happy birthday Jake’

It's easier to think that people are cutting off their family because of social contagion or viral therapy trends than it is to accept that families are very often places of pain and domination where escape is the only alternative to lifelong misery or death.

if you’ve ever lost a notebook, you know this feeling. if not, i hope you never do.

lyrics of my tragic ode to a lost notebook & the contents thereof

lyrics of my tragic ode to a lost notebook & the contents thereof

bought these blue metallic Docs when I was 18 (that’s 16 years ago!!) and they still make me happy every time I wear them

my song this week is a tragic dirge about this lol

🦪 💦 ⛈️

When a man says “can’t you take a joke?” it usually means he’s not funny.

the idea that empathy is dangerous has been permeating right-wing spaces for a while, but it's not an actual element of their ideology as much as it's a defense mechanism against confronting the reality of their cruelty

NEW Dildorks episode: #501 Character Customization thedildorks.com/episodes/cha... When you change how you look, you also change how you feel and how you’re perceived. This week, we discuss our favorite ways we’ve modified our appearance, from tattoos to haircuts to gender-affirming surgeries.

talked on this week's Dildorks (currently editing) about how I used to have really long hair, here are some pics for posterity