😠 Parilani Pie

😠 Parilani Pie

@parilani.sparkle.blue

lowercase human™️ pastel goblin™️ she/any not cis • not het • not monog dichotomies are dumb im the secret 3rd thing ask me/tell me -> https://ngl.link/parilani just me -> https://bsky.app/profile/did:plc:nbdx7ef4akzryb4nh3toc2bc/feed/aaaajdqeg73cm

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If you are trans and you need cheap help moving on the east coast, especially if it's away from someone scary, send me a message.

i can't do substances so i have to fill my time with Self Improvement™️ or whatever bc my head is a hellscape i cannot tolerate occupying atm which means a lot of my chatacter stats and skill points are suddenly improving at a rapid pace. so that's a cool side effect.

i went driving around to look at all the beautiful leaves before i go back to the concrete and cars. we have a park with meadows and fields cut out of these forested areas. the trees along the boarders are so tall and proud. i felt like a little kid looking up at all the adults and knowing i'm safe

god... i do not feel like i've earned the big age i've made it to. supremely forever unqualified. i just wanna go sit under the tall guardian trees and fall asleep at their feet like i'm little again

i don't have much ability to impact the world around me in truly meaningful ways. i don't have many opportunities to feel like my existence made some sort of difference. it feels really really cool...and fulfilling..that i've done *something* to impact these kids. i love all of them so much

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okay so i'm in my hometown for this irish music reunion thing and i went to introduce myself to all of these teenagers and young adults that graduated way behind me and they were all like "we know! you're iconic!" and im dying rn i'm so touched help 😭

fuck man 😭 they've impacted me too 😭😭 i hope they all get to spend a lifetime playing and sharing music with their own communities when they're set loose on the world

okay so i'm in my hometown for this irish music reunion thing and i went to introduce myself to all of these teenagers and young adults that graduated way behind me and they were all like "we know! you're iconic!" and im dying rn i'm so touched help 😭

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i complimented how far their current lead whistle player has come and she squared and told me i was her idol i am DYING WHAT THE HECK IS THIS WHAT ITS LIKE TO BE A MICRO NICHE CELEBRITY??

okay so i'm in my hometown for this irish music reunion thing and i went to introduce myself to all of these teenagers and young adults that graduated way behind me and they were all like "we know! you're iconic!" and im dying rn i'm so touched help 😭

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i complimented how far their current lead whistle player has come and she squared and told me i was her idol i am DYING WHAT THE HECK IS THIS WHAT ITS LIKE TO BE A MICRO NICHE CELEBRITY??

okay so i'm in my hometown for this irish music reunion thing and i went to introduce myself to all of these teenagers and young adults that graduated way behind me and they were all like "we know! you're iconic!" and im dying rn i'm so touched help 😭

i'm getting pretty good at rebuilding from scratch. but god i would like just one consecutive year where the floor doesn't just completely fall out from under my entire fucking world

god i'm traveling today in a new way at a new location which already fucks with my chronic illness induced agoraphobia but WORSE is my body is so trashed from how stressful the last couple weeks have been that i feel like i'm constantly on sensory overload and gonna vomit

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if you're a man that's tired of hearing "all men" then you gotta start tackling the m e n that are giving your demographic a bad name, not telling women they shouldn't be saying it we need more good men. be loudly and undeniably one of the good ones. we literally need you to

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when it comes to male violence and entitlement under patriarchy, the only ones who can change that system are the men. systemically, they are the demographic that has the power the only thing women can do is warn each other and work to keep ourselves safe

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Sorry for the novel, I think about this a lot and today I've got the spoons to reply. Clean house, boys. Make the social cost for misogyny very very high

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Replying to @confusatron.bsky.social

I've only had to do this a few times but man it shuts it down in your space. And your space is where they seek permission/approval for what they do elsewhere. It isn't a cure but it's something every dude can do, just shut it down and make YOUR circle safer for women. Start with the dudes you know

when it comes to male violence and entitlement under patriarchy, the only ones who can change that system are the men. systemically, they are the demographic that has the power the only thing women can do is warn each other and work to keep ourselves safe

if you're a man that's tired of hearing "all men" then you gotta start tackling the m e n that are giving your demographic a bad name, not telling women they shouldn't be saying it we need more good men. be loudly and undeniably one of the good ones. we literally need you to

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I have been RAGING over the fact that Bob's Burgers is balls deep in like season 16 at this point and we haven't had a single fucking box set to legally get all the episodes. 😑

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re normalize dvd box sets so i can watch whatever i want whenever i want and it can't get pulled from my library and it will NEVER. HAVE. ADS.

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me, technically a passenger with disabilities: *pushes button* speaker: 𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒐 me: hi how are u speaker: 𝒘𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒊𝒔 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒏𝒂𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒆𝒎𝒆𝒓𝒈𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒚 me: just wanted to let u know ur doin a good job speaker: 𝒎𝒂'𝒂𝒎. *exasperated sigh* 𝒔𝒕𝒐𝒑 𝒕𝒐𝒖𝒄𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒃𝒖𝒕𝒕𝒐𝒏 𝒖𝒏𝒍𝒆𝒔𝒔 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆'𝒔 𝒂𝒏 𝒆𝒎𝒆𝒓𝒈𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒚. me: ok love u