Ryan

Ryan

@ryfangor.bsky.social

27 He/Him Trans Rights! Sfw but interacts with nsfw accounts MDNI

510 followers273 following6.7K posts

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I'm so proud of my trans friends for existing in a world that is so cruel and punishing to them I'm glad yall are here

It's somewhat validating at least to tell somebody something that happened to you and they go 'oh that was fucked up'

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Honestly I feel like if a popular enough account picked a fight with me there's a good few people who would just write off our friendship there and then

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Nobody has given me this impression but if you'd like to mute me, please just do it. I've been in a foul mood here for days and that ain't going away anytime soon

Nobody has given me this impression but if you'd like to mute me, please just do it. I've been in a foul mood here for days and that ain't going away anytime soon

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I know I'm being miserable and negative but I'm ngl, I'm tired. I thought I was so happy with all the friends I'd made here and in tired of being let down and hurt by people

Again, I'm not naming names. If you think it's you then think about why you think that I guess. Otherwise assume its not

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Honestly I feel like if a popular enough account picked a fight with me there's a good few people who would just write off our friendship there and then

Honestly I feel like if a popular enough account picked a fight with me there's a good few people who would just write off our friendship there and then

Like maybe I'm just being negative but I can think of people who would absolutely abandon me if they felt it was a bad look to be my friend

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no i wont say who, if you're reading this then assume its not you

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apologies to people who enjoyed those. people will still get tipped Ill just shut up about it

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i also think i will stop doing the treads of people ive tipped. Ive done 2 on this account and now I regret at least 3 people included in them so honestly Im just gonna shut up

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I keep going to make some kind of positive post about helping out folks but my heart is not in it. I don't wanna put energy into saying 'help this person out' and then find out later that they suck

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i also think i will stop doing the treads of people ive tipped. Ive done 2 on this account and now I regret at least 3 people included in them so honestly Im just gonna shut up

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The lesson I've taken from this year is that I'm too trusting and also that I'm gullible like a fucking dog that doesn't know better

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im not clarifying and if you do know, good for you. Im not in the mood to take sides or tag in on this shit. its just upsetting and my dumb ass doesnt need to get involved

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I legit dont know what to do or think about a bunch of stuff thats happened here and that ive been told it all sucks though

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I legit dont know what to do or think about a bunch of stuff thats happened here and that ive been told it all sucks though

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This is big news. Ending the puberty-blocker ban in New Zealand is massive. It puts Cass & the entirety of Labour’s flagship anti-trans policies in doubt. Yet no mainstream media platform has even mentioned it. Indeed most alternative media, like @bylinetimes.bsky.social have failed to mention it.

I keep going to make some kind of positive post about helping out folks but my heart is not in it. I don't wanna put energy into saying 'help this person out' and then find out later that they suck

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With all the negativity online I wanted to share some of my wholesome art of the sillies, and hopefully make you feel just a bit better today ❤️ I’ll always try to make a safe space here, and I’m totally okay with my art being used for pfps no need to ask me @b0tster.yeag.gay #bunlith #itsbunlith

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Gave my gorl an updated ref, been picking away at this over the last month or so when I get downtime. She can still come in blue, I'm just obsessed with her lime green era atm. Got alt versions here too: toyhou.se/34256864.hel... #HelixelOc / #HelixelArt / #ScifiArt

On today's episode of late night posting, will I vomit before I fall asleep? Who knows

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I'm nauseous and I dunno if it's stress or just what I've eaten

The one posi9 side effect to feeling so pissed off and unhappy and shitty is that its draining so maybe I'll sleep better

apologies to people who enjoyed those. people will still get tipped Ill just shut up about it

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i also think i will stop doing the treads of people ive tipped. Ive done 2 on this account and now I regret at least 3 people included in them so honestly Im just gonna shut up

i also think i will stop doing the treads of people ive tipped. Ive done 2 on this account and now I regret at least 3 people included in them so honestly Im just gonna shut up

im not clarifying and if you do know, good for you. Im not in the mood to take sides or tag in on this shit. its just upsetting and my dumb ass doesnt need to get involved

Ryan@ryfangor.bsky.social

I legit dont know what to do or think about a bunch of stuff thats happened here and that ive been told it all sucks though

I legit dont know what to do or think about a bunch of stuff thats happened here and that ive been told it all sucks though

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I remember in January being psyched about all the friends I made here and while there are for sure friends here still The vibes here are disgusting

I had a friend who wanted to come back to sexwork and Ive been saying how lovely the environment is here and how nice everybody is but that now comes with like 12 caveats and warnings

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eBay users! Don't ignore today's email, even though it looks like a boring standard update to the User Privacy Notice. They want to use your data to train AI models. If you click the link over the words "the right to object", it takes you to a page with a toggle button letting you opt out.

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This is why I hate the “it has to be subtle!!!” Critique of queer media. The fact that we can’t just say what we are or what the character is is so reductive and constraining to so many queer writers. Don’t let cis people dictate how you show you identity. They don’t know what they’re saying.

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When trans creators are subtle, people dismiss the trans subtext as “headcanon.” When trans creators are loud and proud, people call it “obnoxious” and “cringe.” They just don’t want us to be represented in media at all. Because they don’t want us to exist at all.

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When trans creators are subtle, people dismiss the trans subtext as “headcanon.” When trans creators are loud and proud, people call it “obnoxious” and “cringe.” They just don’t want us to be represented in media at all. Because they don’t want us to exist at all.