Ben Stephens

Ben Stephens

@stephensben.bsky.social

Brit living in Chicago – professional copywriter, occasional improviser, happily weaning off Tw*tter.

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So the basic thesis of this book is— CURRENTLY the #7 dating book on Amazon — seems to be “To be a boss bitch, simply shrink yourself into a corncob, extinguish all your needs, jettison your communication skills, and see if maybe you can use ego-stroking to trick your man into doing the laundry.”

If Books Could Kill@ifbookspod.bsky.social

Episode 56: Why Men Love Bitches In 2002, a writer revealed the new rules of bold, confident 21st century women: Dress modestly, don’t put out and never, ever ask him to do chores.

Listening to @mrjamesob.bsky.social talking about the attacks on the RNLI — if you stood in the midst of this mob and started loudly singing 🎵 “RULE BRITANNIA…” they would all instinctively join in with a full-throated “…BRITANNIA RULES THE WAVES” with absolutely zero sense of irony.

The average Brit will earn around £500,000 total over the course of their working life. Nigel Farage was handed 10x that sum (£5m) in a single payment from a Thailand-based crypto baron, and seems to feel it is the height of rudeness for any of us to ask about it. @mrjamesob.bsky.social

Listening to @mrjamesob.bsky.social describe the psyche of Donald Trump makes me think of the Buddhist concept of the Hungry Ghost — creatures with endless insatiable wants, cravings of hunger that can never be satisfied. (Coincidentally, depicted in art with huge empty stomachs and tiny mouths.)

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Looking at the 2024 crime figures, it's absolutely insane how Trump, tech billionaires, and centrist pundits fooled everyone into thinking Biden had turned the U.S. into some Hobbesian hellscape. 50-year lows for violent crime, armed robbery, property crime. Second-lowest homicide rate.

ourworldindata.orgHow have crime rates in the United States changed over the last 50 years?Both violent and property crime are far below their 1990s peak, but some crimes see periodic rises.

As always, America is just tossing a grenade into a car parts store and hoping the blast somehow builds a working car.

Michael Hobbes@michaelhobbes.bsky.social

Have airstrikes by a hostile foreign country ever produced this outcome? The reactionary centrist blob keeps pretending this is part of a duly considered long-term strategy from Trump but that is not how he operates and even if it was, this is a dumb strategy.

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The intention of policies like this proposal is to introduce so much friction, so much pain, so much discomfort and humiliation, that a child desists rather than continue to assert their true identity. It is nothing less than conversion therapy being written into school policy.

Michael Hobbes@michaelhobbes.bsky.social

Anyone who had genuine concerns about youth gender medicine would staunchly and wholeheartedly support social transition. Let kids explore their identities to see what works for them! The fact that this movement opposes even pronouns and haircuts shows that it's just bigotry all the way down.

I admire Walz as a person and sympathize with his plight, but it’s hard to avoid the conclusion that by stepping down he is showing bullies that bullying works. So…expect more of this.

Aaron Rupar@atrupar.com

Walz: "We've got conspiracy theorists, right-wing YouTubers, breaking into our daycares, demanding access to our children. We've got the president demonizing our Somali neighbors and wrongfully confiscating funds that Minnesotans rely on. It's disgusting and it's dangerous."

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This is genuinely horrifying. Fact-free far-right agitprop given accolades by credible media across the political spectrum.

Princeton University Press@princetonupress.bsky.social

Congratulations to Stephen Macedo & Frances Lee, whose book In Covid's Wake has been recognized as: ⭐ A @newyorker.com Best Book of the Year ⭐ An @economist.com Book of the Year ⭐ A @wsj.com Best Book of the Year Learn more about this eye-opening book: press.princeton.edu/books/hardco...

Hearing it afresh in this episode, can we all just pause and reflect on how FUCKING DERANGED it is that the richest man in the world routinely and casually describes opposition to fascism and bigotry as a “MIND VIRUS” that has to be eradicated? Like, that is some scary shit.

If Books Could Kill@ifbookspod.bsky.social

Episode 47: Elon Musk Walter Isaacson’s definitive biography poses the question: is it ok to be a pathetic, cruel, lying reactionary if it kind of helps you build cars?

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It was never about "free speech", it was always about controlling who got to speak and about what. They didn't like that the academy (for all it's failings) was teaching critical thinking or holding up a mirror to evaluate history through a critical lens.

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As Donald Trump’s father Fred’s dementia worsened, his family still let him pretend he was in charge of his real estate empire — coming into the office every day, shuffling around empty papers, his phone disconnected from the outside world. I think about that a lot lately.

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Focusing on a single incident makes it resonate with the public more. It doesn't somehow justify the other killings, it illustrates the larger problem. The right is good at this, sometimes in bad faith. For example, Laken Riley. Basically "one death is a tragedy, a million deaths is a statistic."

The Steady State@thesteadystate.org

Once the debate centers on whether the 2nd strike was legal, the first 21 strikes have been accepted as baseline. But the murder of the two survivors doesn’t make the other 21 any more legal. Selective outrage, not silence, is how authoritarianism becomes normalized @tadstoermer.bsky.social

I think whenever and however he is finally booted from office, we should leave the ruins exactly as they are. I picture a partially wrecked White House standing for all time, its remains stamped with his gaudy Vegas aesthetic, as a reminder of what we allowed to happen. Of what we did to ourselves.

Justin Wolfers@justinwolfers.bsky.social

Demolishing the East Wing of the White House before finalizing plans for what will be built above its ruins is a near-perfect metaphor for Trump's approach to economic policy. The only difference is the wrecking crew doesn’t claim the rubble is evidence of unprecedented growth.

I wish there were a single cell in my body that believed there would be any meaningful consequences for this.

Santiago Mayer@santiagomayer.com

Hey so as someone who has a degree in global politics and spent a significant amount of time studying international law — this is a textbook example of a war crime.

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The Myth of a Rightward Realignment   Let’s discard some stubborn misconceptions about Trump’s support and what happened in the 2024 election. They are only obscuring our understanding of a profound de-alignment. As the piece is partially behind a paywall, I’ll share some key thoughts: 🧵

steady.pageThe Myth of a Rightward RealignmentLet’s discard some stubborn misconceptions about Trump’s support and what happened in the 2024 election that are obscuring our understanding of a profound de-alignment

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Why POC collectively hold our breath when there’s a mass shooting or high profile crime before the suspect is even identified: • Afghan man shoots a National Guard member: With zero knowledge of the background or motive, the right screams that Muslims are terrorists and must be deported. 🧵

You don’t have to pick a side. Sometimes a situation has two assholes in it.

Dave Karpf@davekarpf.bsky.social

So Olivia Nuzzi is clearly a piece of shit who can never work in journalism again after this. And, also, Ryan Lizza is clearly a piece of shit who should never work in journalism again after this either. We're all agree on that, right?

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Probably best not to get your hopes up for an upset in Tennessee, but a Trump +22 district going to this close in just a year probably has Republicans looking at the midterms like a potentially extinction-level event

Ian Boudreau@ianboudreau.com

The fact that the polls are even close at all is just a welcome bellwether I think

He’s already suing them for a billion dollars or whatever. Might as well double down at this point.

Rutger Bregman@rutgerbregman.com

I wish I didn’t have to share this. But the BBC has decided to censor my first Reith Lecture. They deleted the line in which I describe Donald Trump as “the most openly corrupt president in American history.” /1

If only someone had taken the time to remind the members of the military that they are obligated not to follow an illegal order.

Aaron Rupar@atrupar.com

Rep. Salazar on Venezuela: "We're about to go in ... we need to go in ... Venezuela for the American oil companies will be a field day"

There’s a reason Green Room is set in Oregon.

SometimesPDX@sometimespdx.bsky.social

Far-right activists are trying to capture the U of O campus. This particular flag was used during the J6 insurrection attempt and more recently as a symbol for Charlie Kirk. Maybe most people just think it's patriotic but it's being used for far-right recruitment on campus.

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One fascinating and yet expected thing is that none of the big foreign accounts pretending to be American are left of center, or even anti-Trump. Not a single one. Says something about the economics and geopolitics of political grifting

Max Berger@maxberger.bsky.social

If I’m understanding this correctly, X is owned by a white nationalist who pays poor people of color in developing countries to pretend to be working class white Americans to scare other white Americans into being afraid poor people of color from developing countries are going to ruin America?

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No shit.

Michael Hobbes@michaelhobbes.bsky.social

The entire debate about whether Democrats should moderate or focus on economic vs identity issues is moot if the media is just going to report that they're doing SJW Shit irregardless

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The fact that the entire US elite class clutched onto this book as a source of deep insight tells you all you need to know about the people running this shitshow.

If Books Could Kill@ifbookspod.bsky.social

Episode 46: Sapiens It's an ambitious goal to write the entire history of humanity in just 400 pages. It's even more ambitious to do it without reading any research.

The toilet of a busy train station in central Kyoto. Also, a snowbound cabin in Big Bear, California.

amy brown 👻@amybrown.xyz

what's the most exotic place you've ever puked? mine's not exactly exotic but i did once have a hangover at the nyc facebook office and barfed in their very nice bathroom

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Replying to @michaelhobbes.bsky.social

Someday you, too, could have the moral fortitude to look upon a years-long rape circus organized by the nation's most powerful elites and declare, "The people upset about this are speaking about it the wrong way."