terence wiggins

terence wiggins

@theblacknerd.bsky.social

Writer, baker, photographer, podcaster. I just want to play videogames. https://linktr.ee/theblacknerd

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Please read the whole thread. Women and femmes are not my personal therapist, psychologist, psychiatrist, comforter. They are their own people. I was off my medication and was experiencing drug withdrawal in combination with my usual mental illness. But that is no excuse.

I have treated people awfully and I have lost a lot of people's trust. My personal hangups and anxieties around women should have never been forced onto people who showed true sympathy and empathy towards me. I have fucked up beyond measure. My Discord is TheBlackNerd if anyone wants to discuss

Please do not tag Grace in this. I have already deleted her number from my phone. I have already caused her enough pain.

terence wiggins@theblacknerd.bsky.social

I can only hope that I can regain anyone's trust in the future. You can either choose to believe I'm being honest or not, but every everything I've said has been my honest experience, and again, it's no excuse for that kind of behavior. I will be truly gone now. Please take care of yourselves.

I can only hope that I can regain anyone's trust in the future. You can either choose to believe I'm being honest or not, but every everything I've said has been my honest experience, and again, it's no excuse for that kind of behavior. I will be truly gone now. Please take care of yourselves.

terence wiggins@theblacknerd.bsky.social

I was not feeling myself. And that is no excuse. I felt trapped inside my own body and there was someone who there who treated me so genuinely kind that I didn't want to lose that. I overstepped my boundaries and let my insecurities dictate my behavior. I lost respect. Apologies mean nothing.

I was not feeling myself. And that is no excuse. I felt trapped inside my own body and there was someone who there who treated me so genuinely kind that I didn't want to lose that. I overstepped my boundaries and let my insecurities dictate my behavior. I lost respect. Apologies mean nothing.

terence wiggins@theblacknerd.bsky.social

Today is my birthday and I'm not asking for anything, I am definitely not asking for forgiveness. But I would like to explain my actions. Again I am not asking for forgiveness but a little understanding.

Mental illness and insecurities are no excuse for abhorrent behavior. No one should ever have to be harassed or have their privacy invaded because of my feelings. I am sorry to Grace for everything I have done. I am sorry to all of you for having let you down. Goodbye.

I have done something truly awful to someone I cared about and someone who cared about me. I can never do anything to make it up and I am going to log off. I won't name her but she deserves much better than anything that I could ever have done. I'm sorry for the hurt I've caused and goodbye.

I don't know what behavior I have exhibited that needs to be changed but what it is, I will change. I am sorry to anyone for anything and everything that I've done.

terence wiggins@theblacknerd.bsky.social

I would sincerely like to understand what I have done to anyone. I am open to listening. I just want to know.

i legitimately don't know what i did and i'm sorry i'm sorry to everyone i hurt, i'm legitimately just looking for answers i'm open and available to talk on discord, i just want to understand i'm so sorry, i just don't want to have hurt someone

If I did anything to anyone that was offensive or I hurt anyone in any way, please let me know because I'm genuinely sorry I just don't know what I could have done, I've barely been on here and I've barely talked to anyone

terence wiggins@theblacknerd.bsky.social

why is no one replying to me? what did i do?? I've barely been on this website

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ohhhh give me the booch boys and free my soul

lauren@lauren.rotatingsandwiches.com

since we got a kombucha machine on tap at the office some of the fellas and i have started going to the kombucha tap at 4pm for a pick-me-up. this grouping is informally dubned the "booch boys". thought you might enjoy this anecdote