Avery

Avery

@dyingsignals.love

20s 🇲🇽 butch trans thing | sad clown production specialist | digital resource fairy | visit my site dyingsignals.love | https://linktr.ee/dyingsignals

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Hey so. I’m gonna need job before December so i can keep my insurance to get my knee surgery in February

Like not to be a bitch but so much medical care regardless of if it’s gender care or not is “lets see how much you can withstand suffering before we apply a solution“ instead of actively working to reduce suffering first by working to find a solution that the sufferer can manage.

Avery@dyingsignals.love

I just find it difficult to fathom that anything beyond “I know my body and how i feel in it better than you“ can be rationalized unless youre some kind of control freak, bigot, or predator.

Very little material differences in the issues I faced getting HRT vs the right Psych meds vs eczema care vs physical recovery and surgery for a torn tendon, all because we need to hyperextend our suffering so we can prove to the state we deserve a life of autonomy and function.

I cannot begin to tell you how batshit it is that we have so much we can do to give people a better quality of life by just affording them the opportunities to seek what they need to get to a state of baseline bodily autonomy.

again, a funny dichotomy for my anti-gender thoughts on body care, but the amount of pushback I’ve gotten on breast reduction and the amount of times my doctors ignored my kneecap slipping out of place is essentially equal even though my argument for addressing it to better my life was identical

I just find it difficult to fathom that anything beyond “I know my body and how i feel in it better than you“ can be rationalized unless youre some kind of control freak, bigot, or predator.

All of my actions regarding how I treat my body are fundamentally my own and I own them, and I am in control of no one else. The sooner we make humans internalize that a lot of limitations come off the table

This is gonna be a spicy take but I feel like the investment in multi-income source production workers and choices is the biggest make or break for a multitude of indie show productions even beyond wrestling, but there’s a distinct resentment that this work is well…labor someone has to do.

1. Diversifying your sources of income. At the end of the day, your ticketing can only bring in so much. Do you monetize your streams or VOD source? Do you have merchandise in house and pushed online? Do you monetize secondary content like reels and video posts?

the amount of “we want a website to host our videos and our announcements and our promotions from you but…we don’t have a budget“ is one of the biggest things I’ve encountered in basically every industry I’ve been in and wrestling and queer performance events are no exception to this.

youre telling me Ric Flair and Max Caster are living comfortably doing whatever but Mercedes Martinez had to rely on her friends and peers to be able to get a surgery to help her live the rest of her post/wrestling with the ability to walk properly?

“why are these queer kids buying up merch and making gay art of a franchise owned by a Trump voter” because they were raised in an environment where consumption *is* viewed as a valuable personality.

Charlotte@fireantprincess.bsky.social

I think a lot could be said about how fandoms are very much structured to be consumerist without any critical analysis of capitalist production, and how this is the logical end result of that.

oh yay the guy who hangs with his buddy who assaulted a teenager still is posting about his garden how fun

the annoying thing to me at least about gender medicine is I truly cannot stand how much mental consideration I’m meant to give a material and physical choice. Like imagining signing consent forms and being guilted for wanting to get my knee fixed like i get with wanting my breasts reduced.

I know this isnt the case for everyone but i find my gender and my material needs for feeling healthy and comfortable in my body completely unrelated even when i seek ”gender care”

If you screenshot a Polymarket “news” post and share it on other websites do you really deserve to live?

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Youtube: We see you've hyperfixated on this topic for a while. Would you like to never see anything else ever again? (I spend half an hour hitting "not interested" on videos) Youtube: ...Are you SURE?

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Brazilians recommending not to amplify right-wing talking points by dunking and quoting, as a winning strategy Next day, my tl is full of people dunking on rfk jr I literally would not have seen the bigotry if it wasn't for y'all repeating it. That's exactly what the Brazilians were on about!

I was in a doctors office for one and we were fine but we had a lot of folks who were working in the office who lived in Belmont who experienced that 16 year old tornado and they were having a bad time

insane omen though to walk into an appointment to talk about my disintegrated ACL and hear like 30 EAS alerts at once

the WON HoF isn’t vital but i will judge every single man that does not vote for June Byers for the rest of my life

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its insane how not many people are talking about how republicans with the help of several moderate democrats are building out the largest abusive medical conversion therapy operation in modern american history

shout out to the asshole on here who has stakes in ATProto who was begging people to not to think about the prosecution of Meta over their clear interference in the political economy. We’ll get you too buddy.

Adam Schwarz@adamjschwarz.bsky.social

Lula: "We had to overcome foreign interference through digital platforms, which we will have to regulate. A crime in the digital world must be treated the same as a crime in the real world. We cannot have monstrous companies earning millions... not paying taxes... wanting to steer elections."

No offense but god i hope so many dudes in the NBA face leg explosion over how the league is ratfucking the WNBA

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In 2005, Time Magazine did a cover story on “The Battle Over Gay Teens.” It’s the same handwringing we see now from “concerned” adults on behalf of young people. “Kids are disclosing their homosexuality with unprecedented regularity–and they are doing so much younger.” time.com/archive/6596...

Erin Reed@erininthemorning.com

Josh Turek of Iowa, Democrat, comes out with one of the worst anti-trans ads yet. Not only is it an anti-sports ad, it proposes a ban on federal funding for gender affirming care. That would hit all medicaid and medicare patients, and any ACA federally-subsidized plans as well. Horrific.

not the biggest issue in professional wrestling but certainly a relevant one: being able to pinpoint the failures of gear makers and the sports bra industry based on the year and who’s struggling to find tops that fit

(lesbian with autism and big breasts voice) im not looking at her boobs to be a pervert i’m looking because she wasn’t fitted right before she got her gear

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Steve Bannon was observant of one really true thing, Gamers are stupid as fuck.

IGN@ign.com

After hearing news of BioWare's closure on Wednesday, over 75,000 Mass Effect fans have signed a petition demanding that EA put another studio in charge of the franchise or license out the IP. https://bit.ly/4siIubW

as a disabled person, dealing with fuck tons of political spam calls (I don’t care if it’s a person volunteering, it’s spam.) while waiting for calls about surgeries and specialty medications makes me want to scream.

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democrats think its cheating to actually promise (and do) things people want to win elections, and doing GOTV efforts

George Potter 🔶@georgepotter.bsky.social

It's really important to pay attention to the fact that Lula beat the fascist candidate not by compromising and trying to meet fascist voters in the middle, but by sticking to his guns, promising prosecutions for election interference, and mobilising his own voters to turn out in greater numbers.

like fucking christ man, I can’t scroll down without everything i just passed completely vanishing when i try to look at it again and scroll up