Dr. Emily Friedman

Dr. Emily Friedman

@ecfriedman.com

Historian of storytellers. 18th century to today & beyond. J.W.Liles Prof of English Words: Polygon (RIP), LARB, etc Next book: THE ACTUAL HISTORY OF ACTUAL PLAY (MIT) (#TTRPG digital storytelling performance) (free) patreon.com/ecfriedman

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I’m now also: - Liles Prof of English - 26-27 @folger.edu Public Humanities Fellow - under contract with @mitpress.bsky.social for my next book on the history & making of Actual Play (performance of TTRPGs) - work ahead on why/how we play, tied to ideas about community, story, fame, & friendship

Dr. Emily Friedman@ecfriedman.com

Howdy, y’all. I’m a tenured prof who studies storytelling outside the rules of mass media. This has included never-published manuscripts from during the age of print (1750-1900) & of late has made me a leader in the study of #TTRPG Actual Play. I’ve learned a lot about friendship along the way.

Was just plotting my next Game Tastings in meetings today, and so this is a real shot in the arm.

Jay Sparks@sparksjay.bsky.social

As someone who was in the audience for this particular flight, it was an amazingly curated experience that delighted and educated and entertained simultaneously. Just wonderful and I felt like I should have been paying extra for an excursion on a TTRPG adventure cruise or something!

I also love (judging from @gshowitt.bsky.social latest newsletter) that Grant & I are parallel-developing workshops that try to get folks freed from the D&Dragon in their minds (Grant to make more weird game designers, & me to make more folks who want to play stuff by weird game designers)

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I'm going to try to do this cleanly. Today's right wing governments are networked to each other. Those networks are well-documented. You can read about them in books. Following the elections in one node of that network is good practice for understanding the U.S. node.

Dan Mauler 🎃@meelar.bsky.social

I just think Matt's wrong about this. We're at a point in our technological development where a ton of problems spill over national borders--if Flavio Bolsonaro burns down the Amazon, that will flood houses in Miami.

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This is such a fantastic photo: "The Witches' Tea Party" but I want to use it to explain the origin of the tall, pointy witches hat. The real story of this photo: These are residents at the Hospital of the Holy & Undivided Trinity: an almshouse in Castle Rising, Norfolk, England established 1610.

There is something demoralizing in listening to a fan podcast that misses the point entirely. There’s something a little reassuring when you realize only a few dozen people have probably heard it. There’s something re-demoralizing when you consider that’s still several classrooms’ worth of people.

My friend Joe Chevalier (owner of Yellow Dog) put Melissa Albert’s THE CHILDREN into my hands & said it would be of interest. He was right, & I may never forgive him. WHEW.

Dr. Emily Friedman@ecfriedman.com

I didn’t just take random photos of things moots didn’t recall saying — I bought a bunch of my classmates’ books (the ones I didn’t already own), even more books, and of course the latest in Yellow Dog swag (now my noggin SHALL NOT FREEZE)

That’s fortune-cookie level vagueness. You think that applies to your kid specifically if you’re a mark being cold-read by a drive-thru psychic.

David Gura@davidgura.bsky.social

cool, cool

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She is empathetic, and creative, & loves animals — But the key is that I can point to specific ways she shows her empathy, the way her creativity is very haptic, & that her current favorite animals include a sloth she’s slinging around her body as part of her Halloween costume (zoo keeper)

That’s fortune-cookie level vagueness. You think that applies to your kid specifically if you’re a mark being cold-read by a drive-thru psychic.

David Gura@davidgura.bsky.social

cool, cool

My niece is 8. She loves sushi & anything crafty but is “over fairies.” Apparently Shakespeare freaks her out. The last 2 birthdays she’s co-designed games with her dad that are both lovingly generous to her guests & totally bonkers. She’s on student council & gets commended for helping others.

Let’s be so clear: this is the work that gets us a little further down the road towards preservation. Combined with Anne’s savvy with metadata, it promises to make a MEANINGFUL database for Actual Play.

Gnome Anne@annethegnome.bsky.social

The list keeps growing!!! We're at 41 entries, and we need 50 to start our own collection. SO CLOSE!! And I know a few other people are in the process of uploading theirs too. If you've been considering it, just get started! allmyfriendsarestories.neocities.org/AParchive/co...

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We resent universities as proof that a touch‘o’socialism is good actually so we blame them for all of capitalism’s externalities.

Brendan Cantwell@cantb.bsky.social

I am consistently vexed by the fact that elite consensus is more interested in holding US colleges and universities accountable for things that they have a little control over - white color wages, rent in Santa Barbara - than things they can influence - campus safety, instructional approach.

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Oh, it’s THEE litmus test for misogynoir and it works across genders. Another trusty test: people who say “females.”

OKSOTHICK.@sayitaintsoph.bsky.social

Megan thee stallion is my litmus test for how men feel about sexually liberated black women and tbh that’s a hill I WILL die on.

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little bit of a tangent: i once had a department chair who physically threatened me because the graduate student he was having an affair with was struggling in my class. i ended up resigning a few months later. so dating a student can have far-reaching consequences beyond the abuse of the student.

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Since it’s come up, I’ll be at Metatopia doing some panels, & quietly at PAXU. In January will be speaking in UK at @bsecs.bsky.social Still doing calendar Tetris for spring & figuring out Folger events but looks like I’ll be speaking in Midwest & East Coast. Will be at CircleDC & (maybe?) GAMA.

Dr. Emily Friedman@ecfriedman.com

First speaking gig of the “Emily comes bearing games” season complete. Delighted to have pulled off: - latest Special Collections event that brought out playful media from the collection for folks to explore - AMAs on writing for the public - “game tasting” of story games at local game store

First speaking gig of the “Emily comes bearing games” season complete. Delighted to have pulled off: - latest Special Collections event that brought out playful media from the collection for folks to explore - AMAs on writing for the public - “game tasting” of story games at local game store

My adult life is lived alongside folks while they/we are make stuff. By the time it’s Out we’ve heard it many times, watched it grow. These days I also experience getting to know - people who wrote things I like - work of people I like (newer acquaintance) - work of people I like (old friends)

There’s likely a whole thing I’ll write about the nuances of that — of rediscovering someone you once knew through their work, forcing through palimpsests of human being and Author Function, knowing an acquaintance better (or not) from their public voice after first impression.

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This issue is one of the most important to me, personally. I had to sacrifice a lot to work at Wizards. I wrote a really funny twine game last year and had several more in the works. I stopped work on all of them when I became a D&D game designer. I lost a creative outlet that was important to me.

United Wizards of the Coast - CWA@uwotc-official.bsky.social

Currently, Hasbro’s guidelines keep us from having total ownership over the work we make in our free time. Our union aims to change that and ensure we own what we make in our free time. actionnetwork.org/forms/uwotcp...

I didn’t just take random photos of things moots didn’t recall saying — I bought a bunch of my classmates’ books (the ones I didn’t already own), even more books, and of course the latest in Yellow Dog swag (now my noggin SHALL NOT FREEZE)

Dr. Emily Friedman@ecfriedman.com

Jumpscared by unexpected @themountaingoats.bsky.social in Yellow Dog Bookshop in Columbia, MO (run by my classmates!)

This whole thread up and down is FASCINATING about the politics of dissertation depositories (and databases more generally)

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Think of a video game from your childhood. Maybe the one you didn’t have the hardware to play. You could seamlessly be playing it for free ten minutes from now if you want

Social media loves talking about how everything is getting worse. But what’s something that you’ve seen get _better_ in your lifetime?

First 5 TTRPGs played: 1. Vampire 2. in Nomine (hiatus I discussed yesterday with one of my doctoral committee members who played D&D & wondered if I had been secretly playing during my PhD. I had not.) 3. D&D 5e 4. Blades in the Dark 5. I truly do not remember? Like, total blank.

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This is actually a fascinating gap in my memory (along with when I started listening/watching Actual Play) In theory the group I played Blades with also may have tried something else briefly. Or maybe it was something at ASECS. Or maybe it didn’t kick off for real until 2020 virtual group.

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Thanks so much to student journalist Brendan Fijol, who allowed what was supposed to be a fluff piece on a new faculty book to instead highlight the catastrophic state of academic labor at GU & beyond, and the coordinated attacks on thought since 2020. + @devingarofalo.bsky.social

thehoya.comEnglish Professor Coedits Book Celebrating Literary Critic, Intellectual FreedomA new book coedited by Georgetown University English professor Nathan Hensley addresses freedom of thought amid a period of falling appreciation for academics.

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This article is incredible: it’s so rare to see any media cover a new book in the humanities not just as new knowledge 😮 but as a contribution to an urgent public debate about the material conditions of knowledge 😮😮

Nathan K. Hensley@nathankhensley.bsky.social

Thanks so much to student journalist Brendan Fijol, who allowed what was supposed to be a fluff piece on a new faculty book to instead highlight the catastrophic state of academic labor at GU & beyond, and the coordinated attacks on thought since 2020. + @devingarofalo.bsky.social

Interestingly, this text-based project is calling itself an Actual Play — a term that first applied to any artifact from play, and then drifted to apply to roleplaying games for audiences. Text-based Roleplaying has a very long history, including “in front of” audiences (via forums, blogs, etc)

Penpals AP@penpalsap.bsky.social

Penpals AP is an actual play of Epistolary TTRPGs in the form that best represents them : a newsletter. So you too can feel the wait of a letter coming in real time. The wait is getting shorter, the launch ever so close. Join the newsletter now and receive a free virtual hug penpalsap.carrd.co

And of course, as any AO3 girlie (gender neutral) can tell you, a LOT of fanfic has its origins in erotic/intimate versions of these kinds of epistolary roleplaying exchanges, either in real-time or asynchronous.

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My mind is just collapsing at the "we have far-right entryist groups offering themselves as middle-men to hook you up with professional hitmen, but our big priority is covering up pride pins" of the present BBC.

Leicester Gazette@leicestergazette.leicester.news

Two University of Leicester students speak out over ‘absurd’ and ‘Orwellian’ decision by the BBC and ITV Studios to edit out pride pins worn on University Challenge

leicester.newsBBC edits out pride pins on University Challenge in ‘Orwellian’ move* * * This story was published by **The Leicester Gazette** : a local, independent newspaper about Leicestershire. 1,000 people have already joined our community. Just use those buttons below to download our app and **sign up for free**. * * * Astrophysics student Samuel Carlier and History student Emmeline Hague-Wright were shocked to find that their LGBTQ+ pride pins had been edited out of their University Challenge appearance earlier this year. The episode, initially scheduled for BBC Two on 24 August, was delayed twice before airing on 7 September 2026. The pins showed the progressive LGBTQ+ pride flag, the bisexual pride flag and a rainbow feather. Speaking to the Leicester Gazette, Sam said: “Living in a liberal democracy and having the state broadcaster tell you ‘we’re editing how you look’, seems very Orwellian.” Sam described the choice to remove the pins before broadcast as “weird” and “absurd”. He said: “[Censoring] that seemed weird. If I had worn a rainbow shirt, would they have censored that? If the idea is to keep things impartial, where is that line in the sand?” A side by-side image of Sam wearing the pin and with it having been digitally removed. Photograph: supplied Sam contacted the BBC to try to understand why his pins had been edited out. He told the Gazette: “The BBC people said they’d ring me, and I chased them, they just said go to the complaints website and file a complaint there, that’s what I did.” Since then, Sam hasn’t had a response from the BBC as to why his pins were removed. After the episode had aired, Sam noted that his shirt ‘melted’ into itself occasionally, as a result of the editing. Photograph: supplied ## Students believe the decision was made following online transphobia Emmeline was also shocked when she found out that the feather pin she wore was due to be removed from the episode she was in. It was understood by Emmeline that there was online transphobia in response to previous episode of University Challenge, and she had been contacted by the BBC, anticipating support from the broadcaster. When the BBC contacted her, instead of an offer of support, she was told her pin was going to be removed. “At first it was mostly confusion,” she said. “I heard that they had received a lot of nastiness online from people and I thought they were going to call me to say ‘we have support services if needed,’ and that wasn't what I got at all.” Instead, Emmeline was notified that the episodes were going to be delayed. “It was out of left field, I was confused for a while,” she said. “This entire delay has been because of a feather and two badges on a teammate that were basically impossible [for viewers] to see.” Emmeline had expressed her frustrations with the repeated delays from the BBC, spanning from mid-July to early-September. She said: “We were announced on the website and then delayed again, and then announced on the website a second time, and delayed even further. Speaking about the removal, she said: “It takes a lot of time” she said. “Making it [the edit] look good would be even more expensive and time-consuming. It seems like drastically a lot of effort.” ## Join the conversation Our app is more than just a way to keep up – it's a gateway to award-winning journalism and the local community. __Want to support our work?__ Click here for membership__.__ ## Wider criticism on LGBTQ+ support The pins Sam wore during the episode. Photograph: supplied According to leading LGBTQ+ charity Stonewall UK, two in five LGBTQ+ students will hide their identities at university for fear of discrimination. Stonewall has reported that more than 36 per cent of trans students have received hostile conduct from university staff due to their gender identity. Reflecting on the digital removal of the pins, Sam spoke about how disheartening the choice was. He said: “There was maybe like a span of eight years where someone could be uncontroversially out in the open queer – now that’s gone again.” he said. The BBC has also been widely criticised for ‘an attack on the LGBTQ+ community’ by pulling its involvement with the popular show, RuPaul's Drag Race. The broadcaster pulled its involvement in September following “significant financial pressures” as the reason for axing their involvement. The criticism follows another recent controversial edit by the BBC. On its hit show, Strictly Come Dancing, a decision was made to edit out ‘Protect the Dolls’ from contestant Bethany Antonia’s T-shirt. It’s a slogan which has become widely used to support the rights of trans women. The BBC defended their decision, saying the changes were made to meet editorial guidelines. It comes as the LGBTQ+ community has faced challenges amid an increasingly less tolerant political climate. ## What the BBC had to say When we asked them about editing out the pins worn by Leicester’s University Challenge team, a BBC spokesperson said: “In line with our editorial guidelines, we advise that no badges, flags, and emblems or symbols are worn or visible during filming, along with clothing with obvious branding or slogans. If such items are not removed for any reason then a decision is made between the programme makers and the BBC regarding any edits to the programme.” The BBC said the delays to the episode were unrelated to the decision to edit out the pins. A spokesperson for ITV Studios said: “University Challenge is an entertainment quiz show and is made in accordance with the BBC Editorial Guidelines requirements for impartiality.” The University of Leicester refused to comment on the matter. * * * **Before you go…** We’ve recently surpassed 1,000 subscribers, which is amazing considering we’re a small team on a shoestring budget. Now, we’re ready for the next stage of the Leicester Gazette. **Download our new app and get all of our journalism anytime, anywhere.** The app connects with **Bluesky** , **Mastodon** and **Threads** , giving you access to a network of around 60 million people. It’s a safer, more meaningful alternative to mainstream social media – owned by the community. * * *