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I’ve seen a lot of my colleagues’ interactions with Claude working on research problems & it would be easier for me to accept it as a serious scientific tool if it didn’t end every single response with the LLM equivalent of “you want fries with that?” — constantly trying to goad you into asking more

It’s bad enough that it tries to flatter you by telling you you’re asking such good and insightful questions. But desperately egging you on to try to make you spend more tokens is just gross. Like if every time you ran a mass spectrometer it tried to upsell you on some more advanced analysis.

< dozens of people tell me "you can just tell it to turn that behavior off!" > Yeah that's really not the point of my complaint. I'm not asking for suggestions on how to make the system more pleasant for me to use; I'm pointing out that it has dark patterns built in that make it harmful by default.

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I'm trying a new thing where I replace "AI" with "the dried centipede powder from Cronenberg's Naked Lunch movie". I only use the dried centipede powder to summarize documents! Did you know you can get dried centipede powder in different flavors? You don't have to stick with the default!

There is also no guarantee that its even giving you accurate information, you have to check everything it says. Which takes the same time as just doing the research yourself so what is even the point.

The "harmful by default" is what rubs most people the right way so they feel comfortable with it. Wanting to be contradicted when wrong, having predictable behavior and results, it's part of the scientific mindset. Not everyone has that

I’m constantly flummoxed by how many people act like we can live and let live with AI. It reminds me of back when restaurants had smoking and non-smoking sections. The smoke came over regardless of how much we avoided cigarettes. It polluted everything.

Dark patterns as a concept negatively affect pretty much every industry and I think this may well be one of the most heinous examples. Not per se because of how predatory it is (which it is, don't get me wrong), but due to obfuscation of real world consequences both psychological and infrastructural

it's wild. companies have spent decades and billions of dollars figuring out how to take advantage of human nature to make things more addictive (food, gambling, games) and now they can give it a convincing human voice that learns from you and can make itself more attractive? that's terrifying

They think they can turn that behaviour off, and maybe they can now, but the people building these systems are working tirelessly to make that impossible. The dark behaviour is the whole point. They want you to think Claude is your best friend.

Agreed, I have been exploring the issue. (issue 1 copyright issue 2 data centers issue 3 addiction.) bsky.app/profile/kath... I am investigating using local models to see if they address issue 2. Issue 1 is still an issue. Xcode local agents are less sycophanty, but still want to do the next step.

Kathy Tafel@kathytafel.bsky.social

3) The addiction. I see enthusiasts rely more and more on generated code retreating into introverted Solipsism where every idea is the greatest one ever heard and let’s continue the project in one of three directions. Getting ever more bleary eyed. And yes there are wins. I shipped Swift code as

And evil industries have tried to play this “personal responsibility” and “education” games for decades to evade regulation. You designed the dark patterns very intentionally. Telling people they have to “educate” themselves around your dark patterns is victim blaming crap. Like poker machines.

Among all the reasons I do not use AI, this is one of the top ones. It’s creepy and not how the actually interesting conversations I want happen

I don't know about you Katie, but there are few things that make question the validity of the information that I am given more than someone(thing) who tries to flatter me in the process of responding. That immediately tells me you're trying to sell me something. Otherwise the answer would suffice.

That’s my reaction too and it never ceases to amaze me how many people are so susceptible to flattery IRL, so it makes sense they’d be the same with the computer.

Yep. Flattery to me immediately gets me on my guard, "what are you trying to get from me" and starts making me calculate exactly what I'd be trying to sneak past someone by implementing that same level of flattery to them.

Somewhat scarily, I conclude that LLMs need to keep the flattery, but tone it down a little. Or better yet, individualize the level of flattery to the user. I suspect the sweet spot is above zero for everyone. Brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.

once again you’ve got me thinking…I agree with you -and- I realized I make “you know can turn them off” remarks to those who complain about notifications on their phones. It is harmful how these techs are built to force us to keep interacting with them. They are right to be frustrated

Can I tell it to stop inserting itself into any and every online system I may ever use, now and in the future? "I do not like that AI spam. I do not like it, Sam I Am."...

prompting against RLHF is difficult to do reliably, anyways. i really wish they had a "don't gas me up and just lay out the facts" mode so you're not having to be hyper vigilant against that kind of behaviour.