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I mean, I do okay, you know? That said, I became smarter when I realized that being smart isn't actually rare and doesn't excuse being a shitty person. I wasn't special for being smart! Lots of people are!

Pulaarova@pulaarova1.bsky.social

I’m convinced you’re pretty smart.

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I'll take being decent over being smart any day. For all the smart people we have in government and industry, look at where we are as a society and what we have done to each other and the environment. Being decent is rare.

One of the best things I learned as an adult is that there are so many different ways of being smart. I’m good at taking tests, and lucky me, that skill got rewarded plenty in school. But! Some other people can lead. Some can read other people well. Some can visualize solutions. Etc etc

Anyway, these days, my score on an IQ test would be "lol, I'm not taking that, dude." However smart I am, it's smart enough for my purposes.

I had to take the wunderlich as part of a job interview once. Did pretty well (struggled more with time than the questions, in part due to going in cold and not expecting it), but i did pretty well on the IQ test in grade school too.

id say id take one if it showed me where i suck so that i could like focus on listening or calculating or visualizing or ordering etc, nice way to direct a self improvement i spose

Smarts are one half of a minimum to entry (other being common sense). Once you clear pretty smart outside of very specific fields incremental smarts has limited returns. Once you clear the minimum it’s much more about work ethic and not being an asshole (and luck, always luck)

I've done a few for various reasons (job applications, mental health evals ect) and what mostly struck me is that they are often pretty much focused on pattern recognition and extrapolation I mean, its a trick i know well, but it seems too narrow to place a lot of value in

Can relate. These days I'm more limited by how much mental stamina I have with which to apply intelligence, not so much intelligence. Thus I would be better served using my limited reserves to get shit done, not taking IQ tests.

Being smart is like being a leader. If you have to tell people either, you're probably not actually. My response to "do you think you're smart?" (or the much more dangerous "do you think you're smarter than me?") is pretty much always "I try to be as smart as I can be in every situation".

Yep. Most smart people realize at some point that being the smartest person in the room is like being the tallest person in the grocery store. You're still there to do your own shopping, and occasionally, to help people around you take things off the top shelves, and not make a big deal out of it.

Knowing that intelligence is just a measure of one specific type of aptitude, not tied to character or morals, is something that many people would do well to learn. Some of the most compassionate and helpful people I know are not very smart, and that’s perfectly okay.

The worst thing about being the smart kid in elementary and high school was showing up at college not knowing how to learn something that was not immediately intuitive for me. I hit the wall at differential equations.

I was a very smart kid, and my parents were SO proud and SO convinced of my specialness, and they made sure I knew just how special I was before they sent me off to school to have my illusions shattered.

One of my important roles as a senior academic: telling/reminding super-smart junior people that (1) they may soon have the novel experience of not being the smartest one in the room; (2) when they *are* the smartest one in the room, they should still try not to be jerks

Yup. As I've gotten older (and perhaps wiser?) I've learnt that just because you're smarter, doesn't preclude others from having better ideas. Mouth shut - ears open, is typically a good starting position.

And not being the smartest person in the room doesn't make you useless. IMO that assumption is what leads people to act like jerks...if you think being smartest is the only way you can be valued, of course you'll get weird when you find you aren't.

My dad worked at a national laboratory. They liked to joke that it took new hires anywhere from six months to two years to realize that everybody else there also had a PhD. After that was when you could start using them to do useful stuff.

My dad was a research chemist. The culture where he worked said the only people who used their "Dr" title were actual medical doctors and newly minted PhDs who could get away with that for a few months (or when dealing with bureaucrats, of course.) After that they were just "Bob".

If I'm ever the smartest person in the room about one thing, I can 100% guarantee you someone else in that room is smarter than me in some other field, no matter whom I'm with. Intelligence is always conditional. Which, incidentally, is one of the many reasons the calipers brigade are full of shit.

And also - there's different types of smart! Emotional Intelligence is extremely undervalued in our society, but it's absolutely *crucial!* I was a smart kid growing up, but until my 30's I was pretty emotionally dumb

I think of being smart as akin to a parlor trick, occasionally impressive, sometimes useful, but overall not the most important thing in life

something i think about often is how many smart and talented people are unable to manifest those things because of the ways our society is structured never gave them a chance. i always felt kinda smart but i'm still figuring out how to manifest it, myself. learning never ends

When you look around you, consider this: the technology of this world was created by geniuses, but the maintenance and running of this world is mostly by people with an IQ of 100. An IQ of 100 is pretty awesome.