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Alexis Deise
Alexis Deise
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Textile artist, appellate research attorney, ADHDer, obsessive information omnivore, GenX raising GenZ 🎻🎸and GenAlpha 🥍 🏀 boys. I make #quilts about labor, anxiety, aging, motherhood, and mortality. Instagram: @alexisdeise www.alexisdeise.com
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this Is why frats use extreme hazing at rush and initiation — to select OUT anyone who would potentially speak out or up. They select for boys who are so desperate to belong that they will high-five their own abuse first, then anything else that follows.
Seriously. I cannot believe that some parents don't teach their sons what is right and wrong regarding women and rape. I thought it was just common sense to teach our children this kind of shit.
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"The right’s characterization of higher education is a fiction. Students across the ideological spectrum feel free to express themselves, think their education is worth the cost and don’t think their views are silenced." Only 3% of Republican students feel out of place on campus for their views.
They want us malnourished: weak, tired, and distracted. This makes us easier to manipulate, overpower, and control.
Everybody gets hit with Body Stuff, but white women and the thinness thing is just diabolical. Like…they want y’all to look you’ve been surviving off cotton balls soaked in milk and roach carcasses.
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This was me in my 20s and 30s. In my 50s it is amazing. Change in brain chemistry maybe? Increased DGAF that comes with age?
i stopped smoking weed like a decade ago bc every weed now is like "enjoy a stratospheric rocket ship ride on this tailor made plant that will make you go into an anxiety space so intense your heart will try to climb out through your throat"
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Replying to @michaelhobbes.bsky.social
It feels like people are desperately seeking reasons to still think she sucks even though the facts don't bear that out. If hundreds of millions of people were saying something false about me and it ruined my life, I would want to respond!
Yeah okay but I don't think going to the New York Times about this is a good strategy for making this problem go away.
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I don't know, Aaron. I think we need to take this seriously. In fact, after surveying hundreds of years of history in the past few days, I've written an article assessing the originalist case here: papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers....
We live in the dumbest timeline.
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Replying to @tutusntinyhats.bsky.social
"Hurt people hurt people" is sometimes accurate, but "people who have been raised to see themselves as superior to others, have been given immense power over other people's lives, and have never had to face consequences for their actions, hurt people" is a lot more broadly true.
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Tangentially: "Drawing attention" has become an ENORMOUS built-in part of working in creative fields, and people who can do that effectively start out waaaaay ahead of people who are actually good at doing the job itself well. (Sometimes people can do both, of course!)
i think a (perhaps underappreciated) aspect of this whole situation is the extent to which every elite profession is filled with people who excel at drawing attention and want to be famous more than they want to do the actual job
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Beyond sad. The computer does not know why YOUR child, a unique individual human being, is laughing. Wondering why your child does the weird thing children do, which is part of figuring out what brings them joy and who they are as a human being, is one of the true joys of existence.
Jimmy Fallon: "And do you use ChatGPT when raising your baby?" Sam Altman: "I cannot imagine figuring out how to raise a newborn without ChatGPT."
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It's a low bar but yes, easily surpassed in this instance and many others.
it's not that i ever doubted that being a barista was a skilled position, but my year-long effort to try to produce a half-decent latte at home has convinced me that a good barista is easily more skilled than virtually every c-suite executive on the planet
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Replying to @stevevladeck.bsky.social
This is not a surprise to anyone who was closely following this case. It *ought* to be, however, a moment to reflect upon the responsibility (or not) of media outlets that, deliberately or not, led folks to believe that a grant was a serious possibility (which it never was).
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I heard from a bunch of federal employees last night and this morning. They aren't happy. "I would rather be an actual pawn. At least pawn sacrifices are calculated and achieve something. All this for a fucking meaningless vote."
This federal employee working without pay says THANK YOU FOR HOLDING THE LINE WITH US
I will not support a deal that does nothing to make health care more affordable. We are in a health care emergency. A simple one-year extension of these tax credits would cost less than Donald Trump’s $40 billion bailout for Argentina. A vote for this bill is a mistake.
@schumer.senate.gov @hakeemjefferson.bsky.social @kaine.senate.gov as I just told @warren.senate.gov and @edmarkey.bsky.social on the phone: as a fed employee working FULL TIME WITHOUT PAY for the past three weeks - don‘t you DARE. We are holding the line - if you back down now you've failed us all
Cc: @schumer.senate.gov @hakeem-jeffries.bsky.social @kaine.senate.gov
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There is literally no other way to describe your father’s cousin in English thats accurate. Second cousin is not a culturally relevant term. “Aunt” is a class of person, not a single bond of relation. “Uncle” is a class of person, not a single bond of relation.
In a bit of a tense moment, one of the La Mega co-hosts presses Mamdani on why he "lied" about his "aunt" having been scared to ride the subway after 9/11 while wearing a hijab. Mamdani says it was "not a lie" because he refers to his father's cousin as his "aunt."
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I’m from like the whitest of the white WASP culture and even we call my moms good friends “aunties”.
In a bit of a tense moment, one of the La Mega co-hosts presses Mamdani on why he "lied" about his "aunt" having been scared to ride the subway after 9/11 while wearing a hijab. Mamdani says it was "not a lie" because he refers to his father's cousin as his "aunt."
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