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Thinking about whoever said that by accepting a meal from people and then arresting them ICE agents broke a cultural taboo that was invented by, like, the first humans to set up a tent

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I was just discussing hospitality and how it's basically the core foundation of civilization over on Rednote and like, yeah. This. Zeus had a whole ass aspect, Zeus Xenia, Zeus protector of strangers, devoted to unleashing horrible punishments on people who violated sacred hospitality.

A couple-three people have provided the evidence that they posted something like that in the last few days and I have no idea which one i saw, but it's a good take that I'm still pondering, so

Robin's specifically was talking about Athens and the Delian League and despite its legion failures and atrocities, its stated purpose and pinnacle achievement was flourishing commerce and the cultural equivalent of a space program by ruthlessly enforcing open spaces free of brigands and marauders.

Very few soldiers in either Gulf War understood the value of stopping and drinking tea when it was offered, usually accompanied by information. Often the only things they had of value were tea and sugar

Some members of Clan Campbell killed a household of MacDonalds after accepting their hospitality in 1692. There's still vestigial prejudice against Campbells in some parts of Scotland

In the same category: the white supremacists who protest immigration, then afterward go for a self congratulatory post protest meal at an immigrant owned establishment serving cuisine from the immigrant’s home country

A violation of Guest Right, as in GoT/A Song of Ice and Fire. "When invoked, neither the guest nor the host can harm the other for the length of the guest's stay. For either to do so would be to break a sacred covenant that is believed to invoke the wrath of the gods, both old and new."

Yeah this too. Odysseus could follow the throughline and we wouldn't even have to explain smartphones or anything bsky.app/profile/jack...

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this line of thinking first jumped out at me when we ordered the navy to fire on shipwrecked men. profanities abound

They're such big strong men, that they have to wear their "gear" even when off duty to project strongness to others. Maybe if they left the cosplay vest back at the hotel, a restaurant would seat them.

Going to set aside that I regularly partake in canned Campbell's Chicken Noodle... The whole point of being masked that they can't be identified. So why are these guys not taking the mask off and then going incognito for food? Are they THAT afraid?

Wasn't aware of that one, though there is a story about some Stewart being accused of murdering a Campbell and being convicted by a jury of Campbells with a Campbell judge. (He was probably innocent, though one of his cousins or siblings probably HAD done it and he might've known who.)

Back when man first started to walk upright it was called ‘don’t shit where you eat’. Oh wait. It’s still called that. Ha. Ha. You‘d have to be some kind of a neanderthalic moron not to… ohhh.

It’s likely a cultural taboo invented when humans still slept in trees. Shit, it might be a cultural taboo of other apes. Maybe even certain monkeys.

And it's a taboo for purely practical, self-interested reason, too! By betraying someone after accepting food or shelter from them, you're basically telling anyone else who might find ever themselves in that position that they have no good reason not to just poison you.

Hospitality is a key tenet in the old testament, the new testament, the Quran, Buddhism, Dakota and Ojibwe culture, every society I know of. It’s so deeply offensive and appalling I barely can express it.

I was also thinking of Bedouin hospitality. You give sustenance to sworn enemies when they need it to survive in the desert, under truce conditions. It's honourable and they would do same. They're also less likely to kill you next day. I lived three years in the empty quarter of the Arabian desert.

My mother's best friend grew up in rural Minnesota. Her family always left the front door unlocked in winter because somebody might need to come in overnight when their truck broke down, in order to avoid freezing to death. Didn't matter who it was. That was the law of hospitality.

There’s an ancient archetype of folklore, also, about the dangers of accepting food. If a wanderer came to an unknown village, it might a fairy enchantment. The offer of food, if accepted, meant that he could never leave. This reflects a belief that taking food carries an obligation to your hosts.

I'm glad people have mentioned the Massacre of Glencoe. I knew a Campbell (of the Argyll branch) who received frosty service when hiring a kilt in the 1990s Long memories as you say. They stayed the night then rose and dawn and killed their hosts

The unwritten laws of the high seas, like those of the desert, acknowledge that people in jeopardy, far from harbors or settlements, at the mercy of nature, have a duty to common humanity. This overrules all narrower considerations of nationality or allegiance. That’s why piracy is so despicable.

The Trumpers like to claim this is a "Judeo-Christian Society", but giving hospitality to strangers and travelers and not oppressing them has been part of Jewish law since the beginning, way before they had governments, and is also a core Christian and Islamic value from our own histories as well.

yep. even old testament: “When an alien lives with you in your land, do not mistreat him. The alien living with you must be treated as one of your native-born. Love him as yourself, for you were aliens in Egypt” (Leviticus 19:33-34)

It's like, you could probably look at any culture EVER and find a legend where a host or guest gets cursed for violating hospitality or greatly rewarded for insisting on hospitality even in difficult times!

I make zero excuses for ICE agents. I am curious though: does the "don't attack your hosts" hospitality rule still apply if you buy the food/accommodation rather than being gifted it?

Of course! They’ve still provided you with nourishment and shelter - that you provided them with something in return (money) does not absolve you of your obligation to treat them with respect… though, as someone who’s worked in retail and the service industry, many today seem to believe it does.

Literally every culture, every religion, no exceptions, has STRONG taboos about guest rights. Like the absolute ultimate most vile sin is eating someone's bread and betraying them in their home. At minimum you are exiled. Most commonly you were executed, even if the betrayal didn't cause death.

the counterpoint to that theory is that most europeans and east asians have a lot of neanderthal dna, so they couldn't have been *that* uncanny, if you know what I mean

The laws of hospitality are old old concepts and the gods were known to swing by and drop the hammer on hosts and guests that violated them. Breaking bread with your host and then kidnapping them would be a huge no-no.

"In the desert, where I was born, only ONE thing is sacred! THE GUEST!" --Attila the Hun, from Fritz Lang's Nibelungenlied

There was a story a while ago about them arresting all the housekeepers at a hotel they stayed at and what youre saying here really succinctly sums up my feelings about that. Its evil, sure, but it violates an unspoken social covenant that humans have more or less adhered to since our infancy

Except imagine the Red Wedding wasn’t a careful ruse created to ambush and assassinate key targets, but just some schmucks being dishonorable dipshit barbarians for kicks.

I think I just read a horror short story or saw a movie where this was the premise. They broke the taboo and a curse was unleashed on their hous.