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The last day I put up with my narcissist boyfriend, I made him breakfast and did what he wanted me to do and responded like I knew he wanted me to until I could get him to the airport without incident and be rid of him forever!

Well we know what he’d do to her and their kid if she hadn’t, sooo

Court sanctioned co-parenting app.

The best thing that could come out of this is for people to learn to recognize the patterns of abusers.

Tough look! @rhoback.bsky.social

Bulwark doesn't have to give this guy a forum.

The Overton Window is so far right I fear we may cease to exist

Of course she did. You have access to her precious daughter, the daughter whose collarbone you broke. She would do anything to keep you from taking your rage out on that child again.

That phony Zoom background is just the icing on the cake of his dishonesty.

The two parties are not the same.

“If I did it” - OJ Simpson

Apparently he could boil eggs because that's where she said the boiling water came from that he threw at her.😥

Of course, Republicans actively prefer abusers, rapists and pedophiles, so they'll probably run him for president in a decade.

That's not a denial.

Of course she would have, it’s called de-escalation via compliance. She did it to keep her teeth intact. Bastard!

Why did she wait six days, man? Get a clue.

To his idea of the thing it denies the allegations.

The reporter's truth sandwich www.youtube.com/watch?v=UuxV...

In a word, yes. And she no doubt contemplated, no matter how briefly, adding a "special ingredient" that would rid you from her life permanently. Never underestimate an abused woman who cooks for you.

simple answer: yes

Sure but you might be risking your life to eat it.

Of course he did it.

I don't know, rapist. Did you threaten her life if she didn't offer to cook you dinner six days later? F**k off.

If I her lawyers I would actively encourage him to make more videos like this because it makes him look more guilty.

He was obviously ‘hangry’ the first time and she pacified him with food the next time around

"And did you see what she was wearing?"

It's hard to believe she even went through with the whole divorce thing, or whs that his idea??

Anyone who knows anything about abusive relationships knows this is quite possibly the stupidest defense ever uttered in the history of all mankind.

Got to the "ladies and gentlemen" part and had to stop. 🤮😣

Gaslighting son of a bitch!

Hahahahaha!! That Alt text is gold 😂

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Yes you abusive scumbag. Do you have any more DARVO bullshit you wanna try or are you going to have a go at being honest for a change.

I listened to less than ten seconds of that and he sounds like a douchebag

This guy is an abuser. No doubt about it. She is going to end up dead.

"She was just keeping the peace in the house that totally never happens in a household with abusive husband....wait what do you mean it especially happens in those!"

Abused women are terrified into compliance.

Reptiles are known for that.

Who tf says "former wife"? Is he trying to be too wholesome to be divorced?

Maybe she wanted to slip some cyanide into the stew?

Who would perform like this??? Good lord… guilty much?

Possibly trying to poison you?

Typical abuser talk.🤬

The big gulp is a tell. Liar.

Heartbreaking. A mother mourns the dying dreams — of her child growing up in an intact family with a father who shows love for both his wife and child — and wants to salvage something from the ruins; or tries to connect with a better version of the husband to protect the kid. HE is so clueless.

Yes. Having lived as a child in a household where domestic violence, intimidation, coercion and control were commonplace, the abused often try to protect others by trying to fall back to the status quo - resetting to a state to placate the abuser. Fuck you Miller.

They were already evil before they kissed Trump’s ring.

Quite right. They're clearly into S&M. Let's see how much they dig bondage.

This is his proof? Good heavens!

On the list of things not to say… you gotta give it to him; He nailed it. Tell me you’re an abuser, without using the word…

That might not be the convincing argument you think it is Ma Millet. What a absolute piece of shit.

Ugh.

'Now here's a funny thing, a funny thing...'

Battered wife syndrome, the need to stay and protect, even in the the face battery.

Ah the always trusty "she was a total bitch" defense

be honest if i had really done it... would you look at this distraction?

So she is safe from bodily harm if she cooks dinner?

It's common sense

learned something abt myself today. thank you.

Yup. Fight. Flight. Freeze. Fawn. It’s how the body protects us.

Thank you!

There's always archive.org

??? Is the GDPR cookie prompt location based or something? Accessing from California.

I learnt about fawning from a psychologist who's trying to teach the police about it (in Australia)

The only button I saw was "Accept." It's a moot point now as someone in the thread provided a link I could use.

Use an incognito tab?

Same with loads of the GDPR stuff for UK residents Most of the "Reject All" just accepts anyway, because so few people actually check Best to short circuit it entirely via the various tried and tested means (Privacy browsers, web extensions)

Peachy. Thanks for the info.

I clear my browser cache after each session. Cookies aren’t eternal.

Thank you!

I had a similar experience with my dad. We used to placate him when he was in a rage by playing his favorite bluegrass records!

GUILTY! Next case.

He's so awful. You are absolutely right!

Ummm

He couldn’t have made a better case for his ex-wife….🤬

He looks like he may be doing some.gender affirming care. Is he one of those testosterone bros?

That's not a denial, that's a deflection.

Both Miller and Moreno should resign and seek help. They both suck!

Sounds like the sort of thing an abuser would say….

wow what piece of 💩!!!

Yes, she would have. To appease him. People don't understand how abuse works and abusers use that to their advantage.

Exhibit A Abuser

Fuck this POS. Fuck him into fucking eternity. 😠😠😠😠

I watched his video. She is protecting her child by staying calm. This guy is a lying POS.

Yes! Of fucking course she would! Because the point of abuse is to force compliance and unequal caretaking!

Every single person has known an abuse victim they tried to placate an abuser, or maintain a functional relationship because of circumstances, like children.

Lol there is not a more abusive male justification than this exact phrase. Can we please just start throwing the assholes into the sea?

This predator belongs in prison for the rest of his life. What a psychopath!

She was trying to protect her child and herself from a violent abuser. She also may have talked quietly, tried to avoid eye contact and tried to take up less space. A guy who has been accused of abusing multiple women should not be in Congress.

That is a very weak and very lame defense. Only the weak-minded would agree with that "reasoning." You know, morons.

Yes, you prick. Anything to prevent a repeat of the violence.

Right! What would have happened if she hadn't? He'd have beaten her again.

Blame the woman... what a scumbag.

Woah...good one there, Max

Why is there a bloody footprint behind him?

Yes. It happens all the time.

Sounds like a typical abuser

Yes.

Exactly, because leaving is the most dangerous time.