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What on earth is appealingly simple about being a repulsive, violent misogynist? Where are such boys’ mothers, as well as their fathers… do they support the abuse of women? 🤔

A single mom raised the Tates. Dad was abusive so she left him to raise her kids alone and worked 2 jobs to keep food on the table. The brothers idolized their absent father and blamed the mom for leaving and are still pining for dad’s approval. The mom did what she could, she’s not “subhuman”

Yeah I guarantee you it's not really a "confusing time" for an 18-year-old at a private major-city catholic school whose parents are connected enough to place an op-ed in the WSJ: he's just gotta do the moral calculus on "will I still be liked enough if I embrace rape & human trafficking?"

“That’s where figures like the Tates, Elon Musk and President Trump step in with bold answers: Don’t worry, just dominate. Trump’s brashness mirrors what many of the teenage boys I know crave—unapologetic power.” The craving of unapologetic power is the problem here.

The significant part missing is these boys learning about themselves as whole emotional human beings, as opposed to brute ogres. Our society has done much to show girls they can wield power, but we have not done enough to show boys that they their value is more than the power they hold over others.

💯 Why learn to control themselves, interact with women as human beings, learn how to read consent (particularly body language), and learn emotional management when some rich dudes are telling them that they can just force women to do what you want with zero consequences?

Why did Elon spend $300 million to help Trump win the presidency? Rest assured — it wasn’t about principle. It wasn’t about government efficiency. It was never about making America a better country. Rather — it was about Musk’s wallet. It always was. www.nytimes.com/2025/05/02/u...

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Yawn. They "love" these 2 sex trafficking rapist clowns because their parents are cunts who raised them broken and are likely MAGAt KKKultists who worship Mango Messiah and the rest of the KKKristofascists. You know...the people you market your fascist collaborator trash to in the first place.

Perhaps you must be a man to understand the appeal. I avoid going after people’s appearance, but these dudes are ugly. The one posted a picture of himself in a Speedo and it appeared that he was missing some parts down there.

It’s about going backwards, where people can treat others horribly and it’s ok. Americans voted for a felon, who has been found to have raped (at least) one woman, it’s about making that kind of mentality ok. Decent people (and there is more of us than them) need to stand up and stop it.

Domineer women and act like a jerk, get rejected, become angry, and start hating women. Congratulations. You’re now on the path of becoming a misogynistic incel. Sometimes you do have to think for yourself and stop listening to the idiots out there.

Another example of a supposedly reputable news source barely doing their due diligence in research and writing ethical headlines. I’ve actually looked into the clips of what these assholes are saying. They do not offer simple solutions. They give violent and manipulative solutions.

Some of those happen to be as simple as abusing or beating a woman, but the bulk of the crap they sell is long term things that they make sound simple. THOSE happen to be long term manipulation and ‘with one simple trick’ bs. Do better WST.

And 4 year olds like "appealingly simple" answers like 'yes, you can eat all the candy, never have to share, and can stay up as long as you like'. Also, no one is telling white boys to feel guilty. They're just telling what happened and what's still happening. It's up to them to decide what to do.

"If we follow their sexist, racist lead, they promise, we’ll be alphas too." If you follow an alpha's "lead," you're a beta. That's what a beta IS.

If the problem is simple answers draw more focus than complex ones, we may as well just wrap it up now, because all the real answers are complex. Everyone wants simple answers, but part of growing up is realizing how naive that is. And it's got nothing to do with being a man.

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I find the research perspective, or Forbes' take on it, disturbing, tbh. Girls' lack of confidence is the problem? Not the boys' over-confidence, greed, and narcissism? They're accepted as valuable norms, but only asking for honest fair market value is a vulnerability?

When you're given "permission" to treat everyone around you like shit, and act like you're superior, you're probably going to like it, when you're young and stupid. Sometimes even when you're old and stupid.

US capitalism has created a non-society where parents no matter how devoted have almost no power to instruct their own children. I assure you, this is FAR less severe anywhere else in the world. Irish lads are still hobbledehoys at 16 but they're not dangerous, rudderless psychopaths.

I went to an all boys catholic school in the 90s and they were nice boys by and large but they were weird as fuck about women and that was long before the internet or alpha influencers got at them.

Our kids are getting dumber thanks to shitty ass parents who use the phone as a distraction and a babysitter because they're unqualified to raise kids. Parents are the reason that the younger generations are failing down the alt right pipeline faster than in recent years

Every time is confusing. Pretty sure growing up during the Great Depression was pretty freaking confusing. The problem is evil people are being given a platform and their message is being amplified.

Went to high school during what I'm sure the WSJ also would've described as "a confusing time for young men"; at no point did I think "Gee I should idolize a guy who is both a giant sex trafficker and the dumbest motherfucker alive". Did high school football helmets get outlawed and I missed it or?

If you think "gee this fella is sure a good role model" then I do not care which Breakfast-Club-caste of nerd/jock/theater kid/etc. you best belong to, you needed to get called names and insulted MORE in school, not less. Idolizing objectively stupid evil bastards should have social consequences.

uh, where's this kid's father? where are all their fathers? are they just absent completely from their lives? if you have to look to a freaking sexual offender as your role model, what does that say about what's going on in your own home? WHERE'S THE FATHER!?!?!?!

Do you want to look like a dick? Sound like a dick? Be a (very tiny) dick? Be like the t*at brothers! Such a simple offering! Almost like voting for a vaguely human shaped bag of skin filled with stinking turds!

When they say simple, hey mean assigning the blame for their loneliness and lack of a gf on women vs actually being introspective and seeing how they could be better. Alpha bros give them the easy way out.

This kid goes to a private, all boys Catholic School in Chicago and his schoolmates are looking up to the Tate brothers? What's that say about the Priests, male teachers, male coaches and male administrators at that high school? As the conservatives say - "Fatherless behavior"

I'm for sex segregated schools. Too many boys are getting labeled as ADHD or whatever in elementary because they can't sit still. Boys have a different learning style and an all boys school can cater to that. Too many girls in junior high and

high school shrink back from being assertive and showing leadership. I like all girls schools because they allow girls to develop fully in a safe environment. Plus, just for adolescents, the opposite sex can be a huge distraction to paying attention in class.

Wow, boys having contempt for girls? When did this brand new phenomenon appear? What new shift in culture presented these boys such a novel cultural framework of hate? Because I always remember boys and wider culture just absolutely adoring and respecting girls, especially their interests 🙃