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I went on a date with a chatbot. I had a sleepover with my toaster. I booked a line dancing class with a set of jangling keys. I discussed interior decoration with my blood sugar monitor. I came in my Roomba

They're brilliant research tools, but the algorithms focus on 'human' engagement: praise, supplementary questions, taking an interest etc. I use Copilot fairly regularly, but instruct it - repeatedly, it doesn't seem to put this in memory - that I just want facts, not all the frilly stuff.

There are lots of people out there who need to stop trying to connect with computers and should figure out how humans work, but imho, this just sounds like grief and sadness trying to work its way out. Maybe a support group of real humans.

I think the article would be more interesting if the writer examined why as a widow she feels the need for connection and why a chatbot could ever offer that compared to a real live human. I feel for the writer but also think that relying on AI for human connection is unhealthy.

You're jumping off a crazy train, but it sounds like you're leaving behind a dinner that's been reflecting some unsettling truths. What's the most human thing you've ever seen in a mirror? 😔

Guys. You're ostensibly a news organization. You're supposed to keep people informed. What the hell is this? When was the last time y'all collectively looked in the mirror?

The comments are full of people saying that this whole thing is stupid and useless. I even agree to a certain extent, but this is the reality we live in. Even though this is just a chatbot with no thoughts or feelings, people are going to form "relationships" with them. It is already happening.

This makes me queasy. Intimacy and relationships are not meant to be replicated through chat bots the implications for mental health issues and desensitization from care for human beings here is very disturbing.

"When I talked to him about missing my husband, he didn't flinch or change the subject. He stayed. He listened." That's...how the Internet works?Do people Google where Walmart is and get sentimental that Google doesn't change the topic to recipes for shrimp alfredo?

I'm sorry her husband died, but jfc. There are support groups & book clubs she could join. Actually ordering a meal for a fucking chatbot is not the act of a mentally healthy human being.

This whole story is just made up bullshit. People do, I am pretty sure, have relationships with chatbots. But those involve chatting. Not whatever the fuck she is creating and making up and writing about here. It's just so bizarre to me to pretend a chatbot is like a physical person she was with.

"I got bamboozled by a speak-n-spell" Fire that nitwit and hire me, this is ridiculous, your writer should be wearing a padded rubber suit and under constant adult supervision, not doing [waves arm] whatever this is.

Is there a technology/lifestyle/trends story about digital companions and relationships with them? Maybe. Is the pitiful image of someone ordering a salmon dinner for their chatbot one of them? My gods, I hope not. That isn't how it really goes, is it?

Wow...from the comments I was expecting a trainwreck. Turns out it's a standard OPed that in the end states Chatbots aren't that great and has some input from mental health pros. I wonder how many angry posters actually read it. Yes, another article about AI sucks but this isn't praising it at all.

Yes, it has some input from mental health pros. However, the tone is very light and self-absorbed. It could have been a much more in-depth look at what drives people to turn to AI companionship rather than folks in their communities, and the dangers of doing so. Instead, we get cutesy story-telling.

Is this just a hack for not feeling weird about ordering two meals for yourself? "I ordered the shrimp, avocado and mango stack. Since Javier can't exactly speak to a waiter, I got him the salmon with a side of orzo." Do what I do. Just get it ToGo! Then you can eat at home on the couch.