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You know, when you find out that the art you like is made by people you've learned hold views you find wholly repugnant, I don't think you need to disavow ever having enjoyed the art. It's okay to acknowledge you liked or loved that art, but are now putting it aside. That was then, this is now.

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I think its ok to enjoy the art but dislike the artist. The biggest thing is choosing to vote with your actions, specifically, by not distributing thier work or supporting them financially Im not going to burn my Harry potter books even thiugh Rowling is clearly morally fetid

This is how I dealt/am dealing with Rowling. I explained to my kid why I'm not buying her any merch or books or DVD's. Then I handed her my English copies of the books (we're Dutch but she read English early on), and made an exception for a set of DVD's found very cheaply at a flea market.

And I allowed other people to help her get pirated copies of the audiobooks and missing movies. In part because it was the only thing for a while she bonded with classmates over and I would not take that from her, but mostly because banning books is what the bad guys do. But no money going there.

"Don't abuse people or promote hate." I've zero doubt a lot of my favourite artists are dicks, but so am I sometimes. The bar is not not being a dick, it's being evil. It's an incredibly incredibly low bar and if very few artists that you like can clear it, that's not a problem with artists.

One of the reasons why I started to listen to as much French music as I do is because that way bad news about its creators will most likely not reach me.

But there's a difference between "being flawed" and "using your money/power to bring harm to people". If some artist says they hate peanut butter, they are wrong and I can forgive them. If they say they hate trans people, they belong in the trashcan of obscurity. (I'm flawed. I try to be better.)

Literally nobody is saying you should avoid or boycott the works of flawed people. Literally nobody. You're inventing it. There is a massive, massive, massive difference between being a normal, flawed human being and being a hateful bigot.

There's a difference between liking art, and giving money to people, and that difference changes at the point the artist dies. Liking a painting by Hitler today doesn't actively support the Third Reich. Buying a book by Rowling today does support TERFdom. But you can still like the art.

I actually do look up many artists, writers or musicians whose works I really, really like and I very often find they are cool, kind people. I don’t look up everyone, and I’ve been disappointed, but most people try to do good and aren’t awful. Don’t sell humanity short. Good people make good art.

That's the easy way out. I can listen to Wagner knowing he was a vile antisemite and this knowledge helps me understanding some of his works. Today I can try to avoid vile artists because I want to support the better ones. They will be there if we no longer accept vile behaviour as an accessoire.

I actually agree with this. People get sober, grow up, apologize, learn. There are unrepentant artists that I refuse to listen to/watch/read anymore, but the standard can't be perfection, no one will make it through.

“I might find more stuff if I looked up literally everyone” isn’t really much of an excuse for ignoring the bits you’re already aware of, sans research. And there is a difference between “flawed” (everyone) and “wholly repugnant” (very few people). This thread is about the latter.

for me i always put up with it because i always need to lower my standards because i am very choosy. and i am like "i dont wanna be the uber-critic". but once the person is revealed as nasty well the gloves come off. there is very little i genuinly like

We all have to figure out what crossing a line is for each of us. I am not having a problem giving up Boy George, but I have struggled with my love of Jerry Lee Lewis for years. He may have been a bad man, but singing along to his songs makes me happy & especially now, I need that occasionally.

In the cases where the money you pay for the art goes to the living artist, who then uses that money to support their platform, that becomes philosophical hair-splitting and a meaningless cover for supporting and empowering the artist while pretending to be morally pure.

Which is another way of using rhetoric to dance around the harms of giving money to people who are still engaged in the active process of stripping rights away from other human beings and fomenting hate against vulnerable minorities.

It's easy for me not to support HP, wasn't ever into it. Neil Gaiman hurts, but fairly easy to drop anything he has a hand in. The one I still need to figure out: Firefly Animated show. From what I see outside of giving his blessing and getting a "Created By" credit, Joss isn't involved.

HOWEVER, I can't imagine that he wouldn't be getting residuals. So, now how would me watching the show be any different from an HP fan watching THAT show. So... while I like the characters and the actors involved (except Baldwin, screw him)... dunno if I can watch new show.

I think it is even OK to listen to music you already own. Call it a guilty pleasure. I know that his political views were repugnant but Charlie Daniel's was a fiddle player who was under rated. There are others still living that are dead to me though.

Nope. A vastly mediocre fiddle player who was wildly OVERRATED his entire life. I heard incredibly superior fiddlers to that pile of derivative crap every year for many years at the NC Fiddler's Festival. FIFY. you're welcome!

I adored Sandman, I have all the comics. But now when I look at them, I think of what an evil man Gaiman turned out to be. If I were to try reading them, I'd be constantly struggling against that knowledge. I'm not an ideologue, I'm a human with empathy and a working memory.

Case A First impression of a work "This is great!" Second impression of the same work "This is crap!" Case B First impression of a work "This is crap!" Second impression of the same work "This is great!" The art hasn't changed. I'm just judging it by different criteria than before. That's on me.

Maybe my taste has changed, maybe I know more about the finer points or process of the art, maybe I believe that knowing bad things about the artist makes me question its authenticity (whatever the hell that means), or maybe I don't like anything that people I think are bad people do

It’s equally okay to still enjoy the art of a person that you discovered to be a morally disappointing person. Appreciating, enjoying or loving their work does not necessarily mean you support or condone actions in their personal lives. It simply means you appreciate something they created.

I like Chick-Fil-A’s food. It’s a good sandwich and while I find the vibe in their restaurants to be kind of creepy, service is generally fast and efficient. I do not like it enough to fund the things they spend their profits on.

Sometimes art reflects life in all its stages, sometimes it reflects beauty in all its stages, and sometimes it combines both in art we despise but respect for the work of the artist.

Neil Gaiman hurt because his prose his so beautiful. HP is sad bc it was so formative and created so many readers. But if Stephen King ends up on one of these lists, I may lose it. And if i ever find that Scalzi commits more than burrito atrocities, I don’t know what I’ll do.

I put my kids to sleep reading them the HP books and in the end was fighting over being able to read the final book with my eldest - I stole it while she was asleep and locked myself in the bathroom We took our only trip abroad to 🇬🇧 to visit the filming locations I will never give JKR another 🪙

I think your post can be a beautiful example of his point. You are allowed to have amazing memories of the books and what sounds like an incredible trip. You can happily cherish the memories of both without ever having to go back to either🍸

I know I'm the biggest hypocrite because there was a case where I always disliked a popular artist who later turned out to be shitty in other ways and I absolutely reveled in feeling smug about it. But like... I'm not going to pretend to have never liked Harry Potter, that's dumb and obviously false

Right, & why should you? Hell, I was a grown up when HP came out, & I remember other adults & I throwing around ideas of what Canada's wizard school might be like. It was fun. I'm not buying any of her stuff again ever, but I did like it once.

I don’t see why we should be so concerned about the artist’s personal views or life whatsoever. It’s mostly just modern day Puritanism. Very little is known about Shakespeare’s personal life. If somehow we learned something abhorrent about him tomorrow would that make his plays any less? Certainly

You seem to think that this is all down to “busybodies” and “monitoring”. But that is not how many people, including myself, experience this. For me, knowing these things makes it impossible to enjoy the art anymore. It keeps popping into my head while I’m reading/watching/listening.

There's also a point where I just don't care because so much time passed and the person either stayed out of trouble or is dead. Obviously not everyone reacts like me, but I just can't care if it's something from 30 years ago.

No, it's not. You might have a point if someone just have vile opinions, but people like Gaiman or Zimmer-Bradley hurt real people. At least I view the well being of children and women as more important than my enjoying the books of abusers or films by someone supporting rapists and trafficking.

My son and I LOVED Harry Potter. We went to the midnight book releases. We stood in line for each movie. I read them to him until he could read the later ones to me. And then my son came out as trans. And Rowling came out as a transphobe. Now all I feel for the series is sadness.

All the best to you and your kid. And f*ck Rowling and the whole TERF monsters. To me the whole debate is as fake as that abt abortion. It's the easiest way to feel holier than you, to find a community as bigot as you without doing anything at all to really help women and children.

it's like finding out you've been eating the tortured corpses of animals, produced by the second-largest climate killer industry disgust arises, you set this old source of nourishment aside as toxic you re-commit to being a human who seeks to reduce suffering in the world and behave accordingly

I don't throw away such art. I reread things I love . The sad thing is - they lose their magic . I can never truly separate art from artist. I also think if we remembered those we admire are fallible it would be less problematic. We are so all or nothing; it hurts us more.

I absolutely insist on my right to love art made by horrible people. I won't buy anything by Gaiman again until he's as dead as Lovecraft, but I will read my stories as I please. My kid, former potterhead, then 15, wrote an essay about this comparing Hamsun and Rowley, and she figured it out too.

I think this is also dependant on the kind of art. A lot of the art we like can just be an aesthetic thing; I mean who is looking into the personal views of renaissance artists in order to know if they are problematic. Books seem different, because they can be said to contain more of an artists core

James P. Hogan Loved his books about self-reliance and individuals against the system. Turned out "the system" was the Holocaust, among other things. Yep, Holocaust denying asshole. Among other things.

Got to the stage that fellow guests at conventions refused to be on panels with him. Someone I knew who was friends with him claimed that his expressed views were just him enjoying being a 'contrarian' but that excuse didn't fly.

I think like most around my age I was fond of those wizard books as a kid, but even if it weren't for the author's views I'd still find the books now to quite problematic. The one that hurts me is that there's several Spacey films I'd like to rewatch but can't bring myself to

The work is the work. Miles Davis was a shit; how that does or doesn't make you feel differently about Kind of Blue is valid either way. For living artists, there's the additional layer of not wanting to ship money to them, and that's important to consider. But it doesn't change the work.

He was also a garbage performer. I saw him twice. Both times: utter contempt for the audience, substandard and obscenely curtailed 'sets', and none of the gifts that mark even a mediocre performing artist. He was shit on toast.

You don't even need to set it aside. 🤷‍♂️ Bad people can make good art. An artist puts themselves in their work, but never their whole self. No art encapsulates all of an artist's sins. Saying you've soured on a piece of art suddenly when nothing about the art itself changed is dishonest.

Except it hasn't, and your lying about that is the point. The work is not changed. The actions of the author do not alter the work. That's just incontrovertibly true. You are conflating how you feel about an artist with how their work made you feel, which are related things but not the same thing.

The relationship I have with the art has changed. If you don't think that relationship has anything to do with art, then you don't understand art! A man cannot step in the same river twice.

We can change our opinion because we reevaluate and realize new flaws; or because an artist's actions IRL puts their work in new context. (Both true for JKR.) But flipping on art you loved just because the artist is now unsavory means that you think the artist is more important than the art.

“That bad people make good art is a cause for hope. To be human is to transgress, of that we can be sure, yet we all have the opportunity for redemption, to rise above the more lamentable parts of our nature…” - Nick Cave

Picasso is another. Had a giant impact on 20th Century art but was cruel to the women in his life. An exhibition of his drawing and etching portraits of women showed how blatantly he detested them.

People are never wholly good. Rarely wholly bad. If I hold up every artist and writer to a purity test, not much left. But I do leave behind some who have become truly repugnant. dont have any time for that

Sure, yes. As I said, don’t have time for the truly repugnant. I do think the US has much to learn from Germany about free speech and from South Africa about Truth and reconciliation. I consciously seek out authors and artists of color and who are LGBTQA+ and female.

Thank you. I feel like the purity test discourse is another red flag for lazy thinking. Simply say you don't care or say nothing (I know, I know, a totally new concept). Quite often even here someone talks abt a hidden gem piece of art which didn't get enough visibility bc a pos gets the limelight.

You dont put the art aside, you put the artist aside. Many writers, artists music composers, performers have been horrid, reprehensible, racist, sexist, addicted, even criminal people. You want to clear out museums, libraries, concert halls etc?

He wrote an entire essay that, TL;DR was if gay marriage became legalized in the US, people should take up arms and overthrow the US government; that it was too diseased to continue. When gay marriage got legalized, he whined that "oh it's law now, disregard overthrowing the USA."

I saw him live with my parents when I was a kid and was sore the next day from laughing. I had several of his albums and my dad and I would listen to them together. I can probably do several of those skits from memory to this day. 😢 At least we still have Monty Python.

I think in most cases you don't even have to put the art aside as long as you're not continuing to support the artist. Most people aren't in a position where their personal enjoyment of something would inspire others to go throw more money at a problematic artist.

Here we are tonight, directly paying evil billionaire Jeff Bezos to watch deluded MAGA asshole Aaron Rodgers play against serial sexual assaulter Deshaun Watson.

I'm with you mate. The hard and fast rule for me is once you know they're a monster you stop giving them any money/support. so no new Morrissey albums and no smiths on Spotify. For older material, it' so personal.

This one’s easy for me, I love Tge Smiths, amazing band and then they split up. Morrissey’s decline happened later, never listened to anything past his first solo album, never will. People change, sometimes for the worst.

Sure. Great art is great art. But don't give them money. Example: When Ender's Game movie came out, I bought a ticket to an indie film, then snuck into Ender's Game instead. Saw the movie, screwed the artist. OK with this. Clear Conscience.

Their actions can change the meaning of the work and I can't appreciate it anymore. Most times revelations about a creator have amplified concepts of theirs that I was always uncomfortable with. Less about disavowing and more about moving on.

My favorite Lovercraft story is “The Quest for Unknown Kadith” such an expounding fantasy. It is sadly riddled with so much racism that parts disgusted me while I read it and changed the lens I see the author with now. Still consider it one of the greatest fantasy stories.

I will probably still enjoy the art. I just won't fund it anymore. I don't mind purchasing Tom Cruise movies on Blu Ray from eBay, for example.

I will probably still love the art, but cease to purchase anything new from that artist. Separating the art from the scummy artist is something I really struggle with. Horrible people can make great art, and discarding the great art because of the failings of the artist seems wrong on some level.

oh, i agree! but i’m specifically referring to output here, not personality (fortunately i have never found noted dickhead dave hughes to be funny, but dame edna is no less a genius creation for humphries being on the board of quadrant, though it does shade my enjoyment)

Alice Walker has defended Rowldemort, but I'm not throwing away The Color Purple. I try not to make bad people money but that's usually as far as I go. People still gaga for Lovecraft & he was quite the racist toad. Joseph Campbell was an a-hole. Dahl, well... Just don't enable bad ones.

Thing is, near the end of his life Lovecraft was starting to come out of it and drastically revisit his outlook on life; there's letters of his amounting to that. And, ultimately, he's dead, so engaging with his art doesn't put money into the pockets of a bigot anymore.

Alice Walker is possibly the worst, most overrated Black writer in history, and I never even bought The Color Purple. It is a tendentious, preachy, axe-grinding, gratingly sentimental pile of dung, as is virtually everything she ever perpetrated.

For me it’s not just a principled stance; it’s that I can’t un-know that someone is an awful person and their art is now sullied in my mind. Sort of beyond my control to be honest.

some people missing that there's a huge difference between "this person is still alive and making money off their hate and actively causing harm *cough*joanne*cough*"--in which case, do NOT give her money--and "this person has been dead for half a century" i think you're safe buying a book or two

i've seen people compare having enjoyed hg wells books & what he did for culture but act like it's exactly the same as jkr. she said anyone who reads her books agrees with her shitty terf pov & uses money from hp earnings for anti-trans bs. meanwhile, herbert george over there is fucking dead.

I can't revisit reading/listening/etc the book/music/etc, but with current knowledge, I'll never spend another dime to support the author/artist/etc.

I liken it to an abusive relationship once you've gotten out. Many abusers also leave behind good memories, and it can feel shameful to look back on those good things, as if it is betrayal. But the best thing to do is to keep the good times, grieve for the bad, and actually walk away.

I was a big Harry Potter fan, having read the books, watched the movies, even played some of the games. I'm frustrated that what introduced me to the literary fantasy genre is nowadays just emblematic of the author's bigoted beliefs. I'm looking elsewhere for fantasy stories and inspiration.

For me it was Israeli psytrance: artists like Infected Mushroom & Captain Hook. It's VERY GOOD music, and I wanted to play it in my DJ sets! But now I can't even listen to it without knowing that the "PLUR" was just a cathartic self-delusion made by an apartheid regime's footsoldiers.

Psytrance as a whole is not a tainted genre, but I do feel a lot of cynicism about the hippy aesthetic of it nowadays. It's too easy to repackage and sell as a shallow, transcendent escape from one's enmeshment in the very messy, very real world, and your accountability to what's happening in it.

A momentary escape isn't wrong, and transcendence is something we all need. But the value of any transcendent experience is measured in how it illuminates where you already are. How you can use that light to make yourself and the real world better. Find me the rave scenes which still do that.

2 things can be true at the same time. Ppl love to live in extremes. You can love the art of a person who is bad, and also hate the artist for their views. Harry Potter was and IS a fantastic series. J. K. Rowling is a POS. Both things are true.

And for cryin' out loud, don't throw the art away if you already own it. That's just wasteful. Sure, set it aside for now, and maybe sometime in the future donate it someplace, such as if that art is in a book; always good to donate to a library.

Ah yes, libraries, famous for their lack of pop literature. P.S. Mass-produced books aren't "art." There are millions of copies of them and I guarantee your great-great-great-great-grandchild isn't going to care if they end up owning the last extant copy of Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone.

If it was beautiful or moving, I guess we could hope that it showed there was a little soul still showing its head amongst all the crap? Tiny hope for redemption or we aren’t seeing/hearing what the evil-doer was trying to convey? It’s complicated.

My favorite novel is Journey to the End of Night. Celine was a Nazi sympathizer and a despicable human being, and arguably the greatest novelist of the 20th century. My unpopular opinion is that it is ok to appreciate the art of terrible people. It doesn't mean you endorse their worst tendencies.

I'm able to separate the work and the creator providing the work does not embody or in any way encode the creator's beliefs. So I can admire a sculpture by Eric Gill and refuse to read anything by Ayn Rand.

Sometimes I still watch/read this after this has happened, which is also okay, so long as it does not come from a place of denial. The readings become more complicated rather than just abandoning the work entirely.

Yeah, the assertion that scummy people can't create good art is a dangerous one. There's plenty of works I've enjoyed by people whose work I now avoid because they're not great people (and importantly, still alive so they personally benefit from said work selling)

It’s also okay to consume art made by people who separate from the art you would have nothing to do with. Consuming information is not an endorsement, you still have agency to believe what you believe.

It's disappointing when an artist you enjoy is a terrible human being but you can admit that American Gods is a great book and X-men 2 is one of the better superhero movies